Ma Bao, please give three important life suggestions to young pregnant girls?

1. Make more money. These days, money means a sense of security. If you have the ability, you can buy a small house yourself, not too big, just decorate it according to your own preferences, and you will have a lot of security when you have a house.

2. Get rid of ineffective social interaction and be a simple and happy self. The more friends, the better. There are 1 to 2 girlfriends. After work, I will stay at home, a book, a movie, or do nothing and lie in bed. That feeling will be super good;

3. Learn to cook by yourself, refuse to take out food, your body is your own, and there are too many take-out additives. Learning to cook with various cooking apps will not only make you feel comfortable, but also bring you different happiness;

Exercise every day, even if you go out for half an hour, buy yourself an insurance. Learn to vent when exercising and walking, and stick to it every day, and you will gain a different self; Insurance is to ensure that you don't worry about money when you are sick;

5. Learn to keep accounts and save money in a planned way. Bookkeeping can let you know where the money is used, learn to allocate your property reasonably, and save money in a planned way can ensure a better life in the future;

6. Travel more when you have time, safety first, and don't travel badly. When you have seen different landscapes and people, your horizons will naturally broaden and your experience will improve a lot;

7. Spend more time with your parents, because they love you the most in the world.

On this issue, I want to use my own experience to give three important life suggestions to young pregnant girls.

1. Either you have a stable job or you have your own savings.

Maybe my personality is really not suitable for the workplace. After graduating from college, I changed a lot of jobs. Every time I jump to a new company, I basically start from scratch. I have hardly accumulated any "useful" contacts due to frequent job changes. Therefore, if possible, when you are looking for a job, you must consider many aspects and try to have a stable job.

Talk about saving. I am a moonlight clan. When I was young, I had no concept of financial management. A few days before the salary is paid every month, every day is a "local tyrant" day. After those days, I began to shrink my clothes and go on a diet.

So that when I got married later, when I said I would be in charge of the family's financial power, my husband couldn't help mocking me: Then you can't ruin this family?

Besides, I have no deposit in my hand. Once you buy an expensive item, you will definitely be scolded by your husband for a long time.

2. Enjoy life and make every day as you wish.

In this regard, I feel that I have done a particularly good job myself. Although I often change jobs and have no savings, I enjoy life every day when I am single.

I will practice my favorite yoga regularly, and I will stay in the library all day. If you are happy, you can go shopping with your friends. If you are unhappy, you can stay at home, brush the movies and TV dramas you want to watch and eat your favorite snacks.

Looking back on those years now, I feel that it is the happiest few years in my 30 years.

3. Recharge yourself while you are single.

In my previous job, there was basically no so-called "overtime". Go to work at 9 am every day and get off work at 6 pm on time. However, at that time, I really wasted countless hours.

I sleep until 7 o'clock every morning, get up, pack my things and go to the company slowly. After work at night, I either go shopping with my friends or go home to brush TV dramas.

Now think about it, if I had been charging crazily all those years, I wouldn't have to learn everything from scratch now. Because after getting married and having children, there is really little pure time for yourself.

Now I am learning new things every day, and I can only fill them slowly with fragmented time. Unfortunately, I am a particularly stupid person. I have to do housework and take care of the baby. I often feel exhausted when dealing with several things at the same time, so I have a particularly hard time learning things now.

Remember: if you don't work hard, the boss will be sad. This is the eternal truth!

One more thing: don't get into marriage too early.

Don't get married or have children if you can live by yourself. Don't get married or have children if you can live by yourself. Don't get married or have children if you can live by yourself.

Say the important things three times.

No matter whether you are married or unmarried, you must first have enough economic foundation and money-making skills to get pregnant, be responsible for yourself and your children, and don't rely on anyone.

Nowadays, many young people spend a lot of money. When they get married or get pregnant, many people don't have much money. Don't think too much about getting married and having money. Only by yourself is the safest. Don't get married and get pregnant without money, it will be very difficult.

Girls must not jump ship casually. If they persist in a company for a long time, not only may they be promoted, but also the employee social security paid by the company has various benefits, which will be of great help to our future marriage and pregnancy.

In particular, a maternity insurance in social security cannot be paid by individuals alone, but only by units. After one year of normal payment, the baby can be reimbursed normally and receive various allowances, which is a very good welfare given to us by the state. I got pregnant when I changed jobs, and my social security and maternity insurance were cut off. I really regret giving birth to 8,000 yuan without a penny.

As we get older, our parents are getting older. Our children work all the year round. In a few years, the girls will get married again. At that time, they will devote all their time and energy to small families and children, and spend less time with their parents. So before we get married, we'd better take the time to be filial in front of our parents.

As the saying goes, falling in love is a matter for two people, and marriage is a matter for two families. In addition to your partner, you should also look at the behavior style of his parents and brothers, and then ask yourself if you have integrated into their psychological preparation.

Many people don't pay attention to the small details exposed by the other half before marriage when they are in love, so they are carried away by love and lose their ability to distinguish, which leads to many people living in a chicken feather after marriage.

If you have good economic conditions, your own social circle and hobbies, and you are full of energy every day, don't get married for the so-called feelings, which will basically be erased after marriage, unless the man has the same ideological height as you, which is very rare! Most of them are women who like to brag about how many women they have slept with in the men's group, judge strange women in the so-called brothers group, and pretend to be lofty in front of you, but in fact, their hearts are secretly obscene. Don't get married, don't have children, and live for yourself all your life!

When you are young, you must try to find yourself a stable job, have your own savings, and it is best to have your own house, even if it is only a small house. It will be your confidence in your married life, so that you won't be too embarrassed.

When you are young, live hard, pursue your dreams, work hard and enjoy life happily, because that time belongs to you, and you are truly free.

You can find handsome, romantic, funny and talented people in love. The father of the child must be responsible, obedient and gentle-tempered. Because in trivial marriage life, obedient and diligent men are the best tools.

1. Don't marry far away. Don't trust people when you go out.

3 and save some money for yourself, and leave a way for yourself when it is rare.

There are too many such people around me, and I have seen their misfortunes, so I feel it necessary to answer this question.

First, girls should read more books, so the chances of choosing a job in the future will be less passive. One of my cousins, 17 years old, was pregnant before marriage. After her son got married, she gave birth to her husband three sons. Who knows that her husband is still as virtuous as before marriage, lazy, addicted to gambling, spending money like water, and never caring about children. At the age of 27, my cousin finally figured it out and sued for divorce. But her husband didn't want to speak ill of her everywhere, making her ashamed at her in-laws' house and having to go out to work. After three years of trouble and two court sessions, we finally got divorced. Because of little learning, she can only work in the factory assembly line. At the time of divorce, a son awarded her, and she could only send her children to boarding school, but she couldn't take care of them at all. If she studies more, attends an administrative class and doesn't have to work at night, she can take care of the children.

Second, girls must know how to protect themselves and learn to respect and love themselves. Nowadays, cohabitation between husband and wife before marriage is very popular. Once the relationship is established, they can't wait to live together immediately and be very much in love every day. Some went out to rent a house to live together, and some even went directly to the man's house. Living together before marriage, under the stimulation of hormones, feels that the other person's fart is very fragrant, and there is no economic contradiction and pressure. If you accidentally get pregnant, a responsible man will marry you home immediately, and a man who doesn't want to be responsible will tell you to get rid of it yourself. In fact, when you have a baby, you will know whether the man you are with is a person or a ghost. When you get pregnant, it will be too late to find out that the man you sleep with every day is a ghost. In addition, girls are willing to have an abortion for an irresponsible man. In the end, the two were not together, and the girl was hurt and sad.

Third, girls must be financially independent. As long as it is a legitimate occupation, regardless of the salary, girls should have their own jobs, be financially independent and not rely on others. I know a girl who used to be a salesman in a lingerie store, but later she made a boyfriend. The boyfriend coaxed her to resign because she said she didn't have to work, and she was given two thousand yuan a month to help her cook and wait on him at home. For love, girls gave up their jobs and began to rely on men before getting married. Later, the girl got pregnant and the man gave less and less money. In the end, he simply didn't give it or argue with her. When the belly is getting bigger and bigger, the man can't stand the pressure and disappears directly. Girls have no income, and parents pay for their children. She gave birth to a girl, she can't support herself, and she doesn't want to drag her parents down. She reluctantly entrusted the child to a colleague of mine.

The above three suggestions, I really hope that young girls can see and learn from them, and don't let their beautiful and short-lived youth feed the dog. I also wish every girl meet a lover. May you be warm in winter, not cold in spring, with lights in the night and umbrellas in the rain ... [compare with heart] [compare with heart] [compare with heart]

1, economic independence is very important. I will love you before marriage and give everything for you, but the daily necessities and vinegar tea after marriage can surpass everything.

Try not to live with your in-laws, because different living habits may cause some unnecessary troubles.

3, can't stay at home full-time, try to have your own job.