Have you ever been embarrassed when you lived with your in-laws?

When we first got married, we all used a toilet and bathroom downstairs. After taking a bath, we had to take out the dirty clothes and wash them. It's inconvenient to wear pajamas directly, which makes me uncomfortable all the time. Later, I suggested to my husband that my father-in-law redecorate a bathroom and toilet for us upstairs, so that we could have our own small space.

In-laws live in the countryside, and the washed clothes naturally hang outside, which is very different from when I used to put them indoors at my parents' house. I feel that my things are peeped by outsiders. Sometimes my in-laws will take us in directly, which has a stronger psychological effect.

After dinner, my in-laws always tell us to eat more vegetables and eat less, basically every time. Sometimes I just say, I'm hungry and want to eat more.

After dinner, I usually like to go directly to the upstairs room to do my own thing. My in-laws will also say let me stay downstairs for a while until the temperature of the air conditioner drops upstairs. As we all know, the time after dinner is very precious every day, and we don't want to delay it at all. In the evening, my in-laws will also send watermelons and fruits. I generally don't like to eat at night, which leads to my husband's attitude is not very good. I just told them not to send them up again. In fact, I am also very contradictory and ashamed.

In the final analysis, in-laws are actually concerned, but most of this concern is based on their own habits, too full, but the original intention of concern should not be misunderstood.