Why do some people always like to hide their strength?

The so-called low-key hidden strength is an attitude towards life. Whether high-profile or low-key, each has its own advantages and disadvantages. The client chooses to keep a low profile, which shows that he thinks the advantages of this method outweigh the disadvantages.

What are the advantages and disadvantages of high-profile and low-profile? For example, A is a person who has certain combat skills and can deal with four or five ordinary people at the same time. For most people, he is very powerful. But his kung fu is definitely not enough to participate in professional competitions, so it is easy to be killed. Under this premise, what are the advantages of choosing high configuration? That is, many people will look up to him and may take the initiative to compromise when there is a conflict of interest between the two sides; Some people will deliberately make friends with him and respect him as a big brother. The purpose is, of course, to get a strong helper; It is also possible that a big boss took a fancy to it and entrusted it with a heavy responsibility. Of course, it may be a bodyguard or a killer. If A enjoys these benefits, or this is his purpose, it means that high-profile is correct. But there is also a hidden danger here, that is, others know his strength very well, and ordinary people will make compromises in their general contradictions with him. However, if his opponent is a powerful character, or they have a deep grudge, his trouble will come. One opponent is strong and the other is determined. On the basis of understanding his strength, the other party will either look for more powerful helpers, or gather a large group of people to besiege him, or even attack him secretly, so it is difficult for him to escape.

The same is A, if he chooses to keep a low profile, he will not enjoy the benefits of high profile. However, no one will want to "encirclement and suppression" him with superior forces. Even in the face of accidental hostility, it is obvious that he can easily solve it with great probability. It can be seen that high-profile can get many benefits, but it is also prone to great danger; Low-key may not get more benefits, but it is easier to keep safe, or when there is a high-value goal, give a fatal blow through the paralysis of the opponent. For example, please refer to the second campaign to resist US aggression and aid Korea: in the case of a small victory in the early stage, the volunteers voluntarily withdrew and discarded some materials, released American prisoners, and told them that "I can't fight anymore." If not, how can the US military achieve the biggest defeat in history and turn around the battlefield situation in one fell swoop?

Why do some people always like to hide their strength? I think there are two reasons: first, I am introverted; The second is self-protection.

First, introverts are not easy to leak. A person has personality, some are lively and cheerful, and some are calm and restrained. Generally speaking, introverts always hide everything about themselves. Especially hide your own strength, including wealth, talent, opinions and opinions. It's hard to see others when you're not intimate. In fact, this is not wrong. Because, this is not selfish, it is completely determined by personality.

Third, other reasons. Besides, there are many other reasons to hide your strength. For example, rich people often go to the bank to borrow money, borrow it today and pay it back tomorrow, giving others the illusion that they have no money. The reason for doing this is that people are afraid of borrowing money. Others often hide their talents and say that they can't do this or that because they are afraid of doing more. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

In short, introverted personality and self-protection consciousness make some people like to hide their strength and keep it secret.

There is an old saying that a person's cleverness should "use three points, hide three points, and leave three points for future generations." What do you mean?

The so-called three-point use means that you have to use three parts: brain, heart and hand. Is to do your best.

The so-called hiding three points means that people can't be too competitive and show themselves everywhere, so they will be jealous, disgusted and get into trouble for themselves.

The so-called leaving three points for future generations means that people can't be too smart, and people who are too smart consume too much energy, which often affects the IQ of the next generation. This is why some parents are smart, but their children are mentally handicapped.

When a man is strong enough, he likes to hide his strength, because he is afraid of others asking for help, and he doesn't need help, so naturally someone will come to him. There is also the fear that the tree will catch the wind and the gun will shoot the first bird to protect itself. This may be one of the reasons why a person likes to hide his strength to a certain extent! Of course, for a self-motivated, ambitious and restless person, he never likes to hide his strength. Instead, he will try his best to show his strength, attract more powerful people to cooperate with him and win * * *, so as to become bigger and stronger and go further. This is human nature, greed. In fact, in this society, if there is no greed, people's thoughts will be old-fashioned, stagnant or even retrogressive. It is greed that arouses people's yearning for a better life, breaks through one difficulty after another, bravely advances, and creates more and better things to meet the growing demand, so that society will progress and develop, and people will enjoy material and spiritual enjoyment.

This is the traditional golden mean. To put it bluntly, it is to save lives. In our traditional culture, there is a deep strange logic of "shooting birds at the head" and "people are afraid of famous pigs and being strong" In other words, you can be good, but it's best to hide. I eat steamed bread and you eat meat. However, you don't want BIAJI's mouth, which is the result of our traditional culture.

That is, as long as you live better than me, you will definitely die before me, and who cares who dies.

Once upon a time, there was a little girl Her father was cautious all his life and finally got more than a dozen suites. As a result, his prodigal daughter came out to have a look. It's over. We're in.

Li Gang's son hit someone. If he hadn't shouted "My dad is Li Gang", that kind of thing could have been completely calmed down if it hadn't been media hype. As a result, things got worse, my son went in, and I lost my job.

Therefore, in our country, the more capable people are, the more cautious and low-key, and most of them come out all day.

In terms of separation.

There is a kind of person who does it on purpose. Have a goal. There are two kinds of people here, one is to hide for utilitarian purposes; The other is to hide the inner pursuit. All of the above are purposeful concealment and acquired behavior.

The other is due to personality. Honest and natural, generous, born. Sometimes hiding half of it is to save face for you, the nature of which is indisputable, and it also gives opportunities to people who work hard for utility in his professional field. At the same time, this thing you value is not worth mentioning to him. At the same time, this kind of hiding sharpness and revealing clumsiness is also a modest gesture, holding virtual devices like holding profits and being open-minded like a valley.

In real life, it is difficult to distinguish the above Tibetans, and there is no right or wrong, because the background color of personality is very important. If the background color is kind, it doesn't matter what kind of person I become, but when I meet this kind in our nature, I will make friends with him.

Back to the topic, the landlord can obviously see that the other party is hiding. One is that he was sincere and honest with you, but something happened between you. He felt that you didn't deserve it or his honesty made you feel ostentatious, so he would obviously hide it. The other is that you are hostile when you meet, and you have never been kind. The hidden mentality makes you feel it. So if you look at the background color of your character at this critical moment, if you are kind, it's just that you are too self-motivated and proper limit is not good. The other is that you can't help but watch out for villains.

Don't sit in the right place at will, but have experience and accurate judgment.

You can't hide a really good person. For example, Jack Ma, Ren and other national pillars are household names. Middle-level bosses, because they are not exposed to local customs, hide in luxury cars and mansions, fearing that villains will envy the rich and talents. Stars can only be seen on stage and screen. The freest people are ordinary people, who have no scruples about dancing square dance in the street, playing chess on the roadside, walking in the park and visiting the market.

As the saying goes, people are afraid of being famous, pigs are afraid of being strong, and it is easy to be bad when they die, and easy to be polluted when they shine. There are few people in Chun Xue, so it is really difficult to become famous. There are mountains outside the mountains, and there are people outside the people. Modesty makes people progress, and pride makes people fall; Don't say too much, leave room and space. China's wisdom for thousands of years shows that people can't be full of unknown addresses. We should be down-to-earth, do things in a down-to-earth manner, and honestly do not suffer. ...

This is called: secrets can't be revealed, so leave some back roads for yourself. Businessmen can't keep watch everywhere, which is not good for themselves and has no oil and water.

Wood show will destroy forest air, China is a world of hypocrisy and public opinion. Since ancient times. This is the biggest common fault in China. Isn't it Fujian and Tu Lei ... Is that enough? Sometimes it's better not to talk. Secondly, China's biggest problem is that she has been calling for the doctrine of the mean, just like women now. Although she is not a politician, she takes China's golden mean to the extreme, even if you don't agree with her. China can't say, just selling dog meat.