Hui Ruoqi's Road to Success

Hui Ruoqi succeeded. However, why did Hui Ruoqi succeed? This not only benefits from Hui Ruoqi's indomitable spirit, but also benefits from his parents' successful tutoring. Hui Ruoqi's parents put up two umbrellas behind her: one is "love" and the other is "virtue".

Behind a successful child, there are often parents who are unconditionally devoted to love. Hui Ruoqi's mother is such a person. When interviewing her, she said that she had made little contribution to the growth of Hui Ruoqi. In fact, we know that as professional women, the work of the unit should be completed and the housework should stay at home. Over the years, she drove her daughter to school, practiced the ball, and accompanied her daughter to study late into the night, rain or shine. How much energy did it take? How much perseverance does it take to persist for many years? Yes, what she did was very ordinary. However, there is greatness in the ordinary! Ms. Xu is a math teacher who claims that she doesn't like sports. But in the interview, she found that her knowledge and information about Chinese and foreign volleyball are amazing, just like a volleyball critic. Why is this happening? Because I am interested in my daughter's volleyball training, I will gradually get familiar with it.

Hui Ruoqi's father is a graduate student in the 1990s and loves sports. He was the captain of the volleyball team when he was in college. He played a great role in the growth of Hui Ruoqi. As the leader of the enterprise, he often travels. However, whenever he is free, he will be with Hui Ruoqi, talking about his life ideal, discussing problems in his study and learning skills. The couple are the first "fans" of their daughter. They were ecstatic about every progress in Hui Ruoqi, sending applause and flowers. As long as conditions permit, if Hui Ruoqi goes on stage, his parents or one of them will become loyal people in the audience. My father will also record Hui Ruoqi's field activities with a video recorder. After the end, the father and daughter analyzed the gains and losses while watching the video.

Hui Ruoqi's parents' successful tutoring experience also lies in giving their children a moral umbrella. "If you want to be a talent, you must be an adult first", which is the parenting creed of the couple. I remember when I was in the second grade of primary school, a boy always bullied girls, and Hui Ruoqi was not spared. But stubborn Hui Ruoqi is not easy to mess with. Once, when the boy was not looking, he stuffed the desiccant in the food bag into the boy's collar. Now, the teacher calls Hui Ruoqi's parents to complain. When he came home from school, his father tortured Hui Ruoqi and found out the truth, knowing that it was just a piece of cake. However, the next day, the mother went to school and forced Hui Ruoqi to apologize to the boy.

Parents always pay attention to cultivating their children's spirit of hardship, never spoil her because of her superior family economic conditions, and don't let her develop the habit of spending money lavishly. Since practicing volleyball, her schedule is very strict. After all, she is a child. When she comes home from training, she sometimes wants to watch more TV. However, homework has to be finished, and my mother always says "homework". At the urging of her mother, Hui Ruoqi obediently turned off the TV.

"If you gain, you will lose." Hui Ruoqi's parents cultivated her daughter's ability to make choices when pursuing her career goals. In other words, children's good emotional intelligence is cultivated. Speaking of emotional intelligence, some people should think it is emotional intelligence, that is, how to connect feelings and improve interpersonal relationships. This understanding is extremely one-sided. In fact, the core of EQ is to "control yourself and delay enjoyment". In order to delay the enjoyment of children, Hui Ruoqi does not have his own computer; In order to delay Hui Ruoqi's enjoyment, the game machines at home were put on hold. Her father often teaches her that playing volleyball depends on collective strength. In order to win the volleyball match, the whole team must work together. Therefore, he asked his daughter not to engage in personal heroism, and not to take the shelf of the main force and captain. Cheer for others playing well, don't scold others for playing badly. You should pat them on the shoulder and send them to comfort them. Smile on the field, language civilization. Hui Ruoqi kept these teachings in mind and put them into practice.

Mr Xu is usually very kind to his daughter. But in order to cultivate her daughter's good professional ethics, there are occasional rude behaviors. A few years ago, Hui Ruoqi just became the captain of the training team. In a game, a player was distracted and lost a goal. Hui Ruoqi couldn't help yelling at her once. After the end, Mr. Hui was speechless and slapped his daughter. Many people appreciate Hui Ruoqi's skills and praise her style, but few people know her strict family education.

Parents also pay attention to the education of their children's beliefs and ideals. When the provincial team chose Hui Ruoqi, she was a little confused. Entering the provincial team means becoming a professional player and giving up the dream of Tsinghua. Where are you going? At this critical moment, her parents made an analysis with her. "The provincial team is an important step. If we can step over the steps, enter the national team and compete in the world in the future, we may win more glory for our country than taking the road of cultural learning. So, with the help of his parents, Hui Ruoqi finally made a choice between fish and bear's paw. Of course, the standard of this choice is the national interest.

After Hui Ruoqi was selected for the national team, a reporter interviewed her and asked her how she felt about being selected for the national team. She blurted out "Glory for our country". The reporter was surprised for a while and thought the little girl was eloquent. In fact, this is the natural expression of Hui Ruoqi's belief.

Yes, Hui Ruoqi is a sunny girl. She is not only beautiful in appearance, but also has noble moral sentiments and a pure heart. Participating in various ball games has been subsidized. However, every time she sent money, she gave it to her mother intact. Mother asked how much it was, and she said, "I haven't counted it." According to the relevant regulations, the main subsidy for the provincial team after a match is 2500 yuan. There is an unwritten rule in the team that in the first year of joining the team, only 750 yuan will be issued. On one occasion, the relevant personnel took the initiative to explain for fear that parents and Hui Ruoqi would have opinions. Hui Ruoqi said, "I don't play for money." . In the third grade of primary school, Xiang began to receive professional training.

Hui Ruoqi's father, Huifei University, plays volleyball and has always been interested in volleyball. Hui Ruoqi not only inherited his father's height, but also loved volleyball.

In the third grade of primary school, Hui Ruoqi was attracted by Zhu Lei, the coach of Nanjing Zhongshan East Road Sports School, and began to play ball while attending school. After several years of professional training, her technical level has been greatly improved.

When studying in Nanjing No.29 Middle School, Hui Ruoqi participated in the volleyball competitions of provincial and municipal middle school games and the World Middle School Games, and both of them achieved good rankings. But at that time, Hui Ruoqi didn't want to be a professional volleyball player, because she not only played volleyball well, but also got excellent grades.

Although going to college is her parents' expectation for Hui Ruoqi, she is destined to become attached to volleyball. 15-year-old Jiangsu women's volleyball team's high-point attack is very eye-catching

In 2006, Hui Ruoqi, who was only 15 years old, represented Nanjing in the 16th Jiangsu Sports Meeting, and both indoor volleyball and beach volleyball won the championship.

Hui Ruoqi received an olive branch from the provincial team for her outstanding performance at the provincial games. The little girl who loves volleyball immediately decided to give up her studies temporarily and go to the provincial team to specialize in volleyball.

This 6-year-old girl has become a member of Jiangsu Women's Volleyball Team. Hui Ruoqi, with a height of1.89m, became the tallest player in Jiangsu women's volleyball team at that time.

Just one month later, Hui Ruoqi took the main position, representing Jiangsu women's volleyball team in the national women's volleyball league last season.

Although there are sometimes fluctuations in the game, her high-point attack is still the sharpest attack means of Jiangsu women's volleyball team. Smash the ball, save the ball and fight hard 12 days to impress Chen Zhonghe.

With her outstanding performance in the league, Chen Zhonghe, head coach of China women's volleyball team, quietly recruited to Hui Ruoqi to train with Feng Kun, Zhao and Hao Yang in the volleyball training hall of the State Sports General Administration.

The short contact from 1 1 to 22 12 days made this post-90s volleyball girl win the affirmation of Chen Zhonghe.

The temporary training, Hui Ruoqi is very active. She spiked fiercely, saved the ball very hard, and scored frequently in group confrontation.

And compared with other tall players, Hui Ruoqi's basic skills are very solid. She not only has an advantage online, but also has a good pass in the back row. Chen Zhonghe is very satisfied with his performance.