What's the difference between a woman marrying for money and marrying for love?

Love is full of water. If you marry love, you will be elated even if you don't have luxury goods. Marrying love can't guarantee eternal happiness, but a marriage without love, even with enough material, can't fill a lonely heart.

Li Ao once said: "Women have only one view of marriage; Men have 1,001 views on marriage. "

Now this materialistic society casts a layer of dust on pure love and makes marriage fragile.

Some people think that marriage is for love, without material things, but unlike those who used to be poor together, marriage is also a chicken feather; If you marry money, the feelings after marriage can be cultivated slowly.

A woman's criteria for choosing a spouse have influenced her life. What kind of man a woman marries determines what kind of life she will lead.

Women who simply marry love often lament that love, like food, has quietly changed quality in the years; Those women who are bent on marrying money can't love it, sighing for years in time.

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What's the difference between a woman marrying for money and marrying for love? See what these seven readers say.

@ Sweet, female, Shanghai

I don't think there is anything wrong with marrying money. With money, I can cry in London, Paris or Bali even if I want to.

But if I have no money, I can only squat on the side of the road and cry. Moreover, men are not static. Maybe he's nice to you now. You can get married, and in a few years, when you become a yellow-faced woman, he may not be good to you.

I am now married to a husband with good conditions, and our relationship is also quite good, and the quality of marriage is also very high.

So, no matter which man I marry, I can't guarantee a long marriage, so why don't I marry a rich man? At least, my life can be guaranteed.

@ 京京京京京, male, from Chongqing.

I feel that this question is tailored for me. I have talked with my girlfriend for three or four years, and I am going to talk about marriage. Unexpectedly, she dumped me and ran away with a rich man.

I once begged her to change her mind. As a result, she said that what she wanted was not love, but material things. She doesn't want to see her best friend wearing expensive clothes and carrying expensive bags. When she wanted to buy them, she had to calculate them carefully. Even for the next month's living expenses, and wronged themselves.

Now, she often calls me and sends me short messages, saying that her husband is not good to her, and she can't forget me and asks me to wait for her for two years. I can't trust her anymore. She broke my heart.

In a word, I think women are more material. It's hard to get a wife without money.

@ Zaizai, male, Ningxia

I talked to my girlfriend for four years and got married for six years. Before we got married, there were many problems between us, all of which we overcame.

What moved me most was that I had no house, no car and was still poor, but my wife married me without hesitation.

After marriage, she started a business with me. Although she is very tired, our life is getting better and better. Now that we have bought a house, a car and a pair of lovely children, we are very happy.

I think as long as there is love in marriage, husband and wife Qi Xin work together to break the gold.

I think as long as you really love her, she will abandon external things for you. Through this platform, I want to say to my wife that I love you.

@ Butterfly, female, Tibet

This topic is quite heavy. After all, the gap between the rich and the poor in this society is too big. I choose to marry love or money.

Of course, when I married love, I also chose a man who loved me and had the same conditions according to my family conditions.

I think two people in a marriage have to be evenly matched to love for a long time.

After marriage, my husband still dotes on me. I don't think I really married wrong. Respect for the heart is the most important thing.

@ Orange, female, from Guangxi

I'm divorced. A few years ago, I felt young and beautiful at that time, and I wanted to find a rich man to be carefree all my life. Of course, I also admit that it is more my vanity.

But unexpectedly, after marriage, the man is not at home every day, and there are always young and beautiful girls around him.

I often quarrel with him, and sometimes I want to communicate with him. He told me that I love him, and if I don't love him, I will divorce. He also said that I married him for money.

I really regret abandoning my boyfriend who was kind to me in order to marry him.

This may be God's punishment for me. Now divorced, but the ex-boyfriend is also married.

@ Li Mengmeng, female, from Heilongjiang.

I am the kind of person who would rather cry on a BMW than laugh on a bicycle.

However, I think my marriage is perfect. After all, I am not a particularly traditional woman. When my husband goes out to play, I will play with him.

Turns out we're just like each other. Feelings are leverage now. Life without money, I will feel very painful.

He is generous with everything I buy. Marriage has no money to buy surprises and romance. I really can't accept it. Fortunately, God is very kind to me.

@ Liu Zhifeng, male, from Liaoning.

I am what others call a rich man. To tell the truth, having money is a burden in a sense. Because you don't know whether the people who approach you are because of you or because of your money. So it's easy to feel insecure.

I married my wife because I really love her, so I don't care what she married for.

Although I have money, my wife is very distressed about my money and thinks it is not easy for me to make money. Marrying her is the greatest luck in my life. Now, I put all my savings in her charge, and she never squanders them.

If a woman only spends a man's money and doesn't respect the fruits of his labor, she will also let him down. There will also be cracks between husband and wife.

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What's the difference between a woman marrying for money and marrying for love?

In fact, women marry for money, and women marry for love, all to meet their inner self-needs.

Simply marrying a girl who loves, because there is no material basis, the daily necessities have worn away the charm of love. Two hearts that once loved each other will also become strangers.

Girls who simply marry money, because there is no love as the foundation, years dilute the freshness between each other. Marriage exists in name only, and two hearts have already drifted apart.

Therefore, a woman who marries love also needs to properly examine a man's character and earning ability, so that it can be easier to love in the future.

And those women who marry money need to cultivate love and men's sense of responsibility first, so that marriage can stand the test of time.

The rest of my life is so long, loving my lover without blaming myself is the icing on the cake on the road of life.