Trying to fall in love before marriage can test whether he is sincere?

Try to Love Exclusive, Try to Love Before Marriage and After an Appointment for Divorce are the same series of films directed by Ye Nianchen. Ye Nianchen chose a very special narrative technique when directing Love Before Marriage, which won't make people feel confused in time or unclear in plot. There is a classic line in the film. If you love him, you will hurt her, because guilt is the way to maintain love. In the film, the heroine Qiqi once said to the derailed boy: I am only with you to prove that I love my husband.

What? How would you feel if the person you love the most cheated and said I cheated to prove my love for you? I can't accept this statement, because if you don't love, that kind of love that relies on guilt is a shameful act for yourself or others. The so-called long pain is better than short pain. But if you get married, that's another matter.

After a person makes a mistake, he always suspects that the other half will make the same mistake. When he cheated, he often had to deal with whether he cheated or not, so both of them became criminals. Kiki and Aze both experienced similar infidelity, and it happened in this special period before their marriage. They met a passerby in their own life, but they were tempted by the opposite sex. How many men or women can resist the temptation to send them home?

Kiki and Azeri are both shaken by the temptation of the opposite sex. But is cheating before marriage really just cheating? I guess

In addition to temptation, more is just to escape the pressure before marriage. Emotion is a test in life, and their mutual suspicion may also come from self-fear.

In fact, whether it is emotional derailment or physical derailment, the derailed party will feel particularly guilty and the body is the most honest! When Kiki married Azeri and met Po in the elevator for the first time, Azeri's smile froze immediately. He didn't turn around and refute Po's experience of cheating money with body language like Kiki, but his hands and feet were numb and he didn't dare to touch, for fear of being exposed by Po.

I once thought, if I were Aze, what choice would I make when I learned that I was betrayed by Kiki? But after seeing the buried point of the film, we found that each of us is willing to be deceived by our lover and try our best to deceive our lover. When Azeri tells the truth, Kiki always thinks it is a lie; But when Azeri told a lie, Kiki thought it was sweet talk. I wonder how many people have made the same mistake.

In love or marriage, if you regret it, it is you who deny it, not him. If you leave and give up, you actually love yourself more. If you are afraid of others getting hurt, the subtext is that you are afraid of others hurting you. Although the love story in try to love Before Marriage is extreme and even touches the moral bottom line, it also magnifies the darkness of love and marriage in real life, which is worth pondering.

When love turns into a positive result, there are countless temptations that attract you. Until a temptation is enough to derail you, once love was not love, but a feeling. In other words, love will eventually disappear, just like the philosophical point of view, there is nothing eternal in the world. The important thing is, what have we learned from love? Instead of obsessing about love or not.

I have always believed in the existence of love, love is still simple, beautiful and pure, and each of us will meet the other half in life! Love is not giving others what you think is right, nor leaving because you can't give others what they want. Love is a skill that needs communication.