How to hold hands with blind date

How to hold hands with blind date? Many young people have solved the problem of being single through blind date, but when faced with the problem of how to close the relationship with the blind date and cultivate their feelings, they feel very distressed. Intimacy begins with holding hands. Let me teach you how to hold hands with a blind date.

How to hold hands with the blind date 1, from strangeness to preliminary understanding?

Although most men and women on blind dates have a strong purpose, the process of understanding love must not be ignored. Holding hands too hastily will only be counterproductive, because before the other party is fully familiar with you, any small gesture of yours will arouse the other party's vigilance and even cause the other party's disgust. How to understand each other, such as understanding each other's preferences and habits.

Occasional physical contact

Please note that the words "occasionally" and "reasonable" here are not intentional. This is a better way to hold hands excessively. If there is reasonable physical contact, such as sending her home and taking a bus together, your bodies are close together in a crowded carriage, which is in line with the word "reasonable".

Create opportunities to hold hands.

When many boys want to hold hands with girls, they find that there is no chance; For example, a girl's hand is always on her chest; Or always holding a bag and holding something else in the other hand; At this time, you can help her with something, and one hand will be free; Keep your hands on your chest all the time. You can buy her a drink. The other hand must be empty.

Matters needing attention in holding hands

If you meet the resistance of the other party hand in hand, don't worry, you can contact again, get to know each other slowly and wait for the opportunity; If you go with her, gently touch her shoulder with your shoulder. If she doesn't dodge, it means she is willing to let you hold hands. Let go of your hand for 2 seconds after the first time, and make a release, so that she will not have social embarrassment when she lets go of your hand. Hold her hand "unintentionally" for the second time, and then let go, so that she can gradually get used to your touch.

Make an agreement hand in hand and take advantage of the opportunity.

1, it doesn't matter what you say, what matters is whether you can lead girls.

2, the atmosphere in the date is much more important than what you say, try to mobilize girls' emotions.

When a girl behaves well and obeys, you should give her a reward.

When you go out to play with MM, if you want to hold her hand, you can do this: Q: Do you know how primary school students hold hands in love? MM: I don't know! Me: Hold a finger! They are all shy! (Talking and doing, showing shyness) Then ask: Then you should know how to hold hands when middle school students fall in love, right? MM: I don't know! Me: Silly! Just holding hands! Just like shaking hands, you keep your word! ) ask again: then you should know how college students hold hands in love, right? What? Me: You went to school for nothing. Fortunately, you met me! Finger lock! (also talk and do! Me: Dear, we seem to have gone through 6 years of primary school +6 years of middle school +4 years of college together. MM: wow! It's so romantic (no matter what she says at this moment, your relationship has taken a step further).

How to hold hands with blind date 2 How to chat to attract blind date?

1, don't wait for active chat.

Blind date is actually two strangers introduced by people. When you feel good about meeting, you will get along for a while and get to know each other through chatting. At this time, if boys have a good impression on girls, don't wait, be sure to take the initiative to chat with each other. After all, sincerity is there, and everything is easy to say. This is the first step to successfully attract each other!

2. Find the same topic as * * *

The blind date must be unfamiliar with the other person, so you may not know what the other person likes. In order to chat better, you must know what the other person likes. Of course, you can learn about her hobbies through her circle of friends, such as food, movies or travel. Of course, you can also ask each other directly!

3. Clever use of Yan characters

The most popular expression pack in society now. The emoticon pack is not only illustrated, but also can relieve the boring feeling of chatting, and you can also do puzzles when something happens. Moreover, when chatting with the other party, you must not show a perfunctory attitude, and don't use words like oh, oh, well directly!

4. Get to know each other better.

In fact, you didn't know each other at first, but later you learned about each other's preferences and some basic information through chat. At this time, you can know each other better, such as your family, work and future development. Girls like responsible boys, so you must have a clear positioning for your future development!

5, the language should be humorous

It is often said that there are many beautiful skins but few interesting souls. In fact, the joy of the soul can also be seen from the language. Boys with a sense of humor will definitely win the favor of girls, so don't be stingy with your humor!