It's always best at first. Tell me.

There is no shortcut to success, the only shortcut is persistence. Persistence is the simplest and most effective shortcut to success. Look for a direction, you don't need to consume many brain cells, as long as you keep going, don't look back, believe in yourself, and you will definitely reach your destination.

Over the years, I have learned that the greatest wisdom is silence. When I was questioned by bad words, I knew they really couldn't take anything away from me. The work of relatives and friends will not be shaken by the outside world. So even from the standpoint of protecting myself, I can make a hullabaloo about, talk and argue, but I finally chose silence, believing that time will give cause and effect. This cause and effect is not the judgment of heaven, but the result that we must enjoy and bear when choosing between good and evil.

Choosing a friend is choosing a way of life. Self-cultivation is the premise of making good friends, which is equivalent to opening the friendliest world for yourself. Can make your life brilliant. A true friend is not a person who can't finish chatting together, but a person who doesn't feel embarrassed even if he doesn't say a word.

No one coaxed me when I cried, and I learned to be strong; I learned to be brave when there was no one to accompany me when I was afraid; Nobody asked me when I was bored, but I learned to put up with it. When you are tired and have no one to rely on, you learn to stand on your own feet. In this way, I found myself It turns out that I am excellent, and what is more valuable is that there is only one me in the world! Gradually, I have matured, because there is no greater disappointment, so now the occasional disappointment is also happy.

When people are tired, they rest; Be calm when you are tired; Only when the arrow string is relaxed can the best state be guaranteed; Find a way that suits you and sort out your mood. Read some beautiful articles that warm your heart, quietly listen to the sounds of nature, chat with friends, find an undisturbed space to shout loudly to express your depression, and let beautiful things infiltrate and nourish your heart.

Face life with gratitude, and life will be full of sunshine. The mind is a mirror, and what is in it depends on where you are facing. The world is not perfect, and life is inevitably flawed. Happiness is a contrast, because there are tears flowing, so the smile is sweeter. Put away your complaining heart, let the mirror of your heart shine into the light, and let the darkness hide in the corner, out of sight and out of mind. Everything has advantages and disadvantages. Think on the bright side, and your heart will not shed tears.

No one can crush you and no one can save you. As long as people have faith and pursuit, they can endure any suffering and adapt to any environment. Success is to conquer themselves. People are not afraid of smallness, but they are afraid of humbleness. Life is fair. To live a wonderful life, you need an enterprising heart. Diligence-oriented, perseverance-oriented, try your best, seek the best results, act to achieve dreams, and strive to achieve life.

The past is like smoke, smile and be safe. Slowly understand that people's life will experience too many ups and downs, it is impossible to be smooth sailing forever, and it will not be stormy forever. No sky will always be clear in Wan Li, and no one's mind will always be spotless. Therefore, after Qian Fan, learn to be strong, learn to be patient and learn to be calm! In prosperity, think more, in adversity, have more courage; When you succeed, you have more indifference; When you hesitate, you are more confident.

The greatest distress in life is not having too little, but wanting too much. Man's desire is endless. If it is too strong, it will cause all kinds of pain and misfortune. The less desire, the happier life. Therefore, if you want to pursue the happiness of life, you must keep a normal heart, be indifferent to pure heart, be unwilling to seek profit, be indifferent to color, be unwilling to lose, be extravagant, be inexpensive, be poor and not sad, and never be a slave to desire.

Love each other and live in peace, driving away loneliness; Go forward bravely, stick to the truth and be close to success; Be good at communication, be honest with others and enhance understanding; Let nature take its course and know how to obey; Live in harmony, be approachable and integrate into the group; Obedience, humility, elegance and prudence; Modesty and prudence are illusory, and low-key wisdom; Get ready, give love and share happiness.

Time is quicksand and disappears in the hourglass of time. Life is a blank sheet of paper, fill in the blanks in pursuit and struggle. Like water; Go in a hurry, the journey of life; Alienation, time, we don't have much time to admire and look up, depression and decadence are cowardice.

Life; Hard work is sweet, and the years are long; Joy begets sorrow. If you want your dream to come true, you must let your life bloom, follow the flowers all the way and find your way back. We are just scavengers of time, and a success is nothing more than all our efforts. I always believe that sentence; The road is at your feet, and the light is ahead. In a short time, flowers bloom along the way, seeking a lifetime home.

Let the boat of life cross the years, sail among the clouds in Tianshui in the long river of time, let the limited life glow with infinite light, listen to the stories sung by the years with profound truth, endure the baptism of the years, the wind and frost, the cold and the heat, and let flower of life never fade.

Time stole the waiting, and time bleached the memory. I often think that if time can go back, let many fallen leaves in my memory return to the branches of the season, and then interpret the eternal flowers, wouldn't my life leave so many heartache regrets and so many lost expectations? If time can't prove love, where should I find myself? Again, the sky is silent, the years are silent, and the past is like smoke.

Life is not perfect, and twists and turns are also scenery. Sometimes I feel heavy and slow, maybe I am climbing a hill; Don't take loss too seriously, let go of yesterday, cherish today and focus on the future. Since time will not go back, life should have no regrets. Living in the present is the best choice in life.

Living in the present is the best choice in life. Life is a stop, coming in and going out; Yesterday, it was a landscape, which I saw and blurred; Time is a passer-by, remember and forget; Life is a funnel, with gains and losses; Friendship is a banquet, cold and hot; Confusion is an attitude of indulgence and convergence; Life is calm, but I have cried and laughed.

Knowing how to give up at the right time is a sign of maturity. After giving up, we can examine our relationship with the outside world more clearly and adjust our tired mentality. . Happiness doesn't always exist. Living a life like hell and being happy like heaven is your success. The greatest success in life is to cultivate a good attitude and keep yourself happy.

Life is an excuse for losers; Luck is a modest word for success. The loser said that his life was bad, but he regretted not trying his best. Winners say that life is beautiful, but they know the price they pay. Less materialistic, more pure; The less possession, the more advantages. Have a normal heart, look at everything in the world with a light heart, face the gains and losses of life with an open mind, let go of the hand of desire and let happiness come easily.

Life is hard to be normal. Let nature take its course, and you can get inner peace; Only by abstaining from desire can we have a happy life. Be a man, be indifferent and calm. Fate is not a mysterious force, but a self-flowering fruit. How you choose, fate will happen. If you want to know how much effort is needed, just look at how many fruits are hanging on the tree. In life, the harder you work, the luckier you are.

Sometimes, despite our efforts, we still can't get lucky, which only means it's our turn. You don't have to pay, but you must work hard. Inner peace, because of indifference and no temptation, because of concentration and Philip Burkart, because of calmness and calmness, so wisdom always exists. Peace is not pure peace, but the wisdom of life deposited in the depths of the soul, which is the most beautiful state of life.

Persistence is a burden, even a pain. Too much concern has become a fetter, and too long loss has become a kind of pain. Letting go is a kind of mind, a kind of maturity, a kind of confidence and grasp. Everything is round, and everything follows fate. The sky is round, the earth is round, everything goes round and round, and everything has a cause and effect. Everything is not puzzling, the starting point is the end point, and the end point is a new starting point. Without the initial starting point, there is no end point for today.

Letting go is not giving up, not giving up the pursuit of ideals, but letting people face life with an open mind. When troubles appear, remember to clear your mind. Things should get better. It's important to have a good attitude. The old ones don't go, and the new ones don't come. Fate is cause and effect, and cause and effect are round. Don't be complacent, complacency is evil and will eventually lead to bad consequences; Don't lose, if you lose, you will be hurt, and it is hard to be round if you are hurt. Indifferent to the heart, everything goes with the fate, and it is perfect to let nature take its course.

Getting along between friends is a process of mutual recognition, admiration, appreciation and perception. Get to know each other, know each other, help each other, meet, accompany each other, help each other, fall in love, and shine together on the stormy road of life. Please cherish the few friends around you!

All difficulties are doomed disasters from heaven, which will make you strong, and all setbacks will make you learn a lesson, enrich you and make you wise. How can you see the rainbow without experiencing wind and rain, and how can you understand the true meaning of life without tasting the taste of life?

Don't be too greedy, managing the present is the final winner.

First, if there is no if. If you give yourself too many back roads, it is better to go forward by yourself. Even if you come to the end of the road, you should believe that there will be twists and turns.

2. Who doesn't want a woman who loves Ling Huchong as much as the East to accompany him?

Three. Live with respect. Life is never an inner drift between gains and losses, nor an arrogance and prejudice against life by self-stubbornness. A person's life, that is, a story of life and society, is a piece of light and shadow in time and space. You don't have to stubbornly believe that this society is not worthy of anyone. Life needs kindness, not self-obstinacy. Life needs to be friendly to society, and it also needs to be bitter and happy with others.

Fourth, when people are on the road, there are many things that they can't control; There are many encounters that I can't forget. Dreams are in the horizon, dreams are in front of us, dreams are in pursuit, and the sea is sailing; Chasing the wind is a kind of leisure.

We, or the chess pieces on the board of destiny, just play different roles from our positions.

6. You should remember those who held an umbrella for you in the heavy rain, those who silently hugged you in the dark, those who made you laugh, those who chatted with you all night, those who came to see you by car, those who accompanied you in the hospital, and those who cried with you. They always put you first. It is these people who make up the warmth in your life, and it is these warmth that make you a kind person.

Seven, the water is clear, not because it contains no impurities, but because it knows how to precipitate; The permeability of the heart is not because there are no distractions, but because you understand the choice.

Eight, you casually say, but I am seriously sad. Time can't go back to the beginning. You don't have to try to keep what you missed. If you miss it, you miss it. There are some things that I care about rather than get.

You can't change the facts, but you can change your attitude.

Looking back with tears, who will meet for the Millennium? Who did you save a poem for? Looking at the sunset, it filled a cavity with the lonely song of the mournful bird. Thousands of pieces of silver flowers are blown off by thousands of antiques. Why can't Yue Hui blow away a trace of trouble on the acacia tree? Why can't the cycle of time cut off the rhyme of finding the way out of love?

Eleven, try to cherish the fate, the past companionship, today's hand in hand, the original future life, just wishful thinking; Adapt to loneliness, the bustling crowd is only a short-term prosperity, and only you can accompany you throughout the sightseeing.

12. Whether anyone loves us or not, we should try to be a lovely person. Don't blame anyone, don't laugh at anyone, don't envy anyone. Run in the sunshine and rain, dream your own dreams and go your own way.

Thirteen, maybe I didn't mean to reveal it, maybe I don't think I need to care. The more you talk about it, the more you should be alert to whether it gives people a condescending feeling. Especially among friends, it is very speculative. They tend to be too sharp and have no scruples. Excessive showing off will hurt others' self-esteem and keep others away for a long time.

Fourteen, in fact, sometimes, I don't know if I went right or wrong in the previous step without looking back. Sometimes you don't know how to cherish if you don't miss it.

15. Life is beautiful, but sometimes our eyes are fixed on the dark clouds.

16. Just leave. If you leave, it means you have nothing to do with yourself. No matter how wonderful or lonely ta is now, it has nothing to do with yourself. So you don't have to look around all the time or ask about what ta is like now, what is love, what is the past and what is the past.

Seventeen, tonight, put a miss on the window of time. In an instant, the taste of missing is gently diffuse. At that moment, the trees and flowers witnessed each other's warmth. Since then, the years have remembered a sincere attachment to the prosperous times.

18. No matter how correct the decision you make now, no matter how many stupid past events you have, many years later, when you think of these decisions and past events today, you will feel ashamed and regretful, no matter right or wrong. But: life is not bad, and memories are not boring.

Nineteen, I said, no matter where you are, what kind of life you have made up other people's dreams. In your dream, will you sail in the boat and wander in your heart? Wandering around the world, the bell is melodious, alas, flowers are similar year after year, and people are different.

Twenty, no matter how tired you are, don't indulge your temper; No matter how painful your heart is, give yourself a clear peace. Life is just a crossed line. What we get and what we miss are points. Whether it is joy or regret, they are actually going away or about to go away.

Twenty-one, after so many years, I finally found the characteristics of those people I like. They are always full of energy and have their own favorite things, but they interfere in other people's lives too much, know the boundaries of interpersonal communication, don't show off everything they have everywhere, have gentle words, treat people kindly and have moderate ambitions. To tolerate the imperfections of life, we must also stand up to the bumps of the world and take everything in life as a root. Fu nan

Don't complain to anyone, because 20% people don't care, and the remaining 80% will be happy to hear it. Straighten your mind and follow yourself gently. Life is to cry for yourself and laugh for others!

Twenty-three, be yourself after breaking up: love is a matter of two people, and anyone who misses it is responsible. A person always has a new beginning. Don't let the past bind you in the hall of sadness. No matter who you love most, life is still long, and no one can predict tomorrow.

Twenty-four, how much trouble do you have if you ask for it without itching; It is wrong to get it at all costs, how much you have lost; Cherish what you have is rich, but you are not poor. Don't be too greedy, it is the final winner to manage the present!

Twenty-five, alienation is sometimes really a very powerless thing, because everyone is moving forward and will become busy from doing nothing. You used to be close to that person, maybe it's just because you were both free at the same time.

Twenty-six, you are kind, but you have a degree. Because there are always people who use your kindness to hurt you.

Classic sentences about choosing to avoid problems.

1. In the process of life, we are not bystanders, we can escape and be leisurely. But to create your own scenery on the journey of life with the attitude of a master. Many times, people have too many entanglements in their lives. Obsessed with emotions, obsessed with trifles. Some things are hard to remember, but please don't run away. Someone sneers at you, and you immediately fight back sharply. Someone despises you for no reason, and you despise him immediately. Someone shows off in front of you, and you immediately prove that you are better. If someone is cold to you, you will be cold and distant at once. Look, those people you hate can easily turn you into what you hate the most. This is the greatest harm that the enemy can do to you.

Life will inevitably go through storms, and you can't be afraid of pressure or shirk your responsibilities. Sadness is not a terrible thing. Everyone has his own sadness, and at some point, he will sleep quietly in a corner of his heart like a seed, waiting for timely germination and growth. Youth has neither eternal happiness nor eternal sadness.

It is better to dance in the thunder and lightning than to hide in the wind and rain, even if you are soaked, it is also a pleasure to enjoy life. The only person who can make you miserable is the one who can make you happy. Those who make you laugh also make you cry.

Everyone will grow up, which is the only way and the inevitable way. People who don't want to grow up can only be dragged forward by reality, even if they are black and blue and bloody. No one cares whether you are in pain or not, they have their way to go, they are busy; No one can bear it for you, you have to bear it yourself, which is helpless and inevitable. Growth is a one-way street.

6. Giving up is actually a kind of beauty. It doesn't mean escaping, because it's just a choice and another kind of beauty. Life gives us endless joys and sorrows, and also gives us the right to choose. So I gave up safely and insisted on a detachment. No matter how the world of mortals changes, no matter whether the result of choice is right or wrong, we are all brave, sad but beautiful. Because life is impermanent, the road ahead is more exciting!

7. Living without doing what you like is actually evading responsibility. In the mottled time, some disasters are not spared. Tell yourself every day: No matter how hard you are, you should persist, no matter how good you are, you should be indifferent, no matter how bad you are, you should be confident, you should save more, and you should be enthusiastic when it is cold.

We must face the terrible things bravely, because we can't escape them or forget them. The sooner you get through this difficulty, the sooner you will say to yourself: Yes, it has happened and there is nothing I can do. The sooner you can start your life. Annie proulx, American writer.

No one can avoid loneliness. It's better to face it than to escape. Loneliness is not a bad thing. Compared with the noise, loneliness seems so quiet and complacent. A person's world is the world that truly belongs to him. Life needs games, but it doesn't need dance academy; Life needs singing and dancing, but it doesn't need to be drunk; Life needs art, but it can't be opportunistic.

10. Escaping is not necessarily too concealed, but facing it is not necessarily the most uncomfortable; Loneliness is not necessarily unhappy, and it may not last long if you get it; Losing, not necessarily no longer, turning around, not necessarily the weakest; Don't rush to say that there is no choice, thinking that there is only right and wrong in the world; There is not only one answer to many things, so we always have a way to go.

1 1. Giving up is actually a kind of beauty. It doesn't mean escaping, because it's just a choice and another kind of beauty. Life gives us endless joys and sorrows, and also gives us the right to choose. So I gave up safely and insisted on a detachment. No matter how the world of mortals changes, no matter whether the result of choice is right or wrong, we are all brave, sad but beautiful. Because life is impermanent, the road ahead is more exciting!

12. I wait for you because I don't want to escape from my heart; I wait for you, because I can't bear to let you go; I wait for you, because there are our memories; I wait for you, because I believe you didn't lie to me; I will wait for you until she is by your side.

13. Everyone should grow up, which is the only way and the unavoidable way. People who don't want to grow up can only be dragged forward by reality, even if they are black and blue. No one cares whether you are in pain or not, they have their way to go, they are busy; No one can bear it for you, you have to bear it yourself, which is helpless and inevitable.

14. pursue when you are young and escape when you are old. In life, at first, we are curious about everything, eager to meet new friends and get in touch with new environments. In fact, the world is made up of countless small circles and groups, just like the train from Central Station. You buy tickets and catch up with them, hoping that they will take us to a city or town. Between the starting point and the end point, you know some people, meet and leave, and finally you have to part.

15. After loving someone too much, you will often make many mistakes, but it will make the other person bored and escape. You have to understand that love is actually a game in which you chase after me. If you keep chasing, you will only give love, but you won't get love. Only by advancing and retreating freely can people understand your preciousness. Therefore, the best love is sometimes gentle and sometimes overbearing. Love, comfort will last.

16. It is better to face it bravely, take fewer detours and miss the scenery than to escape passively. Anyway, thank you for your experience; The theme of life is to face complexity and stay happy; Now, now, you can follow the fate; Future, future heart, why bother.

17. Don't run away from tears, maybe it is an unspeakable happiness; Don't cling to a smile, maybe it is an unspeakable pain. Along the way, loneliness is the friend of mood, and loneliness is the companion of soul. We only have one fate and one heart, and there is no repetition and reincarnation.

18. Ten years ago, you loved me and I couldn't escape. Ten years later, I love you and you are not around. Life is often missed in this way. A brake is forever, and regret is also a memorial. On the way to practice, speculation is absolutely not allowed, masks will be torn, lies will be exposed, and no one will be spared.

19. Escaping is not necessarily inevitable, and facing it is not necessarily the most uncomfortable; Loneliness is not necessarily unhappy, and it may not last long if you get it; Losing is not necessarily gone, and turning is not necessarily the weakest; Don't rush to say that there is no choice, thinking that there is only right and wrong in the world; There is not only one answer to many things, so we always have a way to go!

20. Facing you, I have no spare capacity to escape. I can't escape your love. Infatuated love, like the sea, the deep memories of time are spotless. In a blink of an eye, youth is like a dream, and the years never look back. You are still the enchanting moonlight like water, lingering with smoke and willow. In whose dream are you still singing a farewell song like water?

2 1. Chewing pain is a punishment for the past, and choosing to forget is an escape from reality. Practice is to improve yourself and tolerate others. The pain of life lies partly in our own shortcomings and partly in not liking others. Practice is to increase happiness by perfecting yourself and dilute pain by forgiving others.

22. Many things can be solved without escaping, and many things can be erased without hiding. No one can satisfy everyone. Even if you are tactful, everything can't be happy under the conflict of interests, and people will always get hurt. silence is golden. In the process of life, you should be able to bear loneliness. Some people say that desolation is a poem and solemn and stirring is a song. In real life, you should stand up to setbacks.

23. Life is like a news broadcast. You can't escape by changing the channel. We must accept disappointment. There are ups and downs in a person's life. It will not be like the rising sun forever, nor will it be miserable forever. Look down on human affairs and be chic between heaven and earth. No matter how happy the life is, there are shortcomings, and no matter how bleak the life is, there is happiness.

24. Anyone who achieves great things has extraordinary willpower and endurance. In other words, when encountering difficulties or difficulties, it is difficult for ordinary people to persist and give up or escape. People who do one thing can often persist, and the winner is the winner.

25. If you are not afraid of the long road, you are afraid of short ambitions; Don't give in to the world easily, it makes you cry, but you should make yourself laugh in persistence. As long as we can bear, not escape, cherish and have a strong heart, life will not be too pale.

26. We still have a long way to go, and the process is very difficult, so we have learned to be smooth and evasive. Many people lost their dreams in a hurry and only found the ordinary, plain and mediocre. Dreams can't be lost. The longer you persist, the farther you can go.

27. Travel is an unintentional escape in life. Tired of the intimacy in the family, I went to the free world to seek a free release. Tired of intrigue in the workplace, I went to the free world to find unfettered laughter. Tired of living day after day, I went to the free world to find endless novelty. Tired of the dullness of life, go to the free world and look for a flower that blooms randomly.

28. Never give up or avoid love at any time. That's the true meaning of your life. I'm not ugly. I will never be ugly. I am now slowly approaching the life I expect. Although there are still lonely, empty, mostly miscellaneous emotions and thoughts, I am not ugly. I believe in life and life forms. Every step forward is a flower path, all escorted by green.

29. All flowers will wither. Don't give up the dazzling fragrance in order to escape the unbearable ending; Once hand in hand, it is bound to end in separation. Don't let the persistent good times be disappointed in order to refuse the loneliness and pain in the future. As long as the road is right, don't be afraid of its short or long; As long as the effort is worthwhile, you don't need to care about its youth or vicissitudes. No matter how bitter, tired and painful you are, you must choose patience and strength.

Choosing to leave may be the best choice.

Thank you for meeting you and for this special emotional experience. Even with tears, I feel happy!

This relationship is beautiful, this injury is very painful, maybe leaving is the best choice! On the road of true love, many smart people are doing the same stupid thing. It is really unclear whether they are stupid or stupid!

This is love. I can't say clearly, but I'm confused!

I deleted the words I wrote to that person, but I couldn't erase that person's memory, and I couldn't erase that unforgettable feeling, because we had entered each other's hearts!

No wonder some people say that meeting the wrong person at the right time is a sigh; Meeting the right person at the wrong time is a kind of harm; And meeting the right person at the right time is a kind of happiness!

How many people can have this happiness?

When we meet the right person at the wrong time with responsibility and moral bottom line, that is not the biggest harm!

When thanking this fate, in fact, tears have been accompanied by this love, and tears can't wash away the feelings of missing someone. This most beautiful encounter made us very confused. When we are helpless, we should cherish our hearts and choose to turn around gracefully. Maybe this is the best choice!

Extended reading: Learn ten classic sentences every day.

1. The three conditions for learning are: observing more, suffering more and studying more.

I don't want to leap a thousand miles, I just want to take a step forward every day.

There are many reasons for the success or failure of learning. First of all, we must find the reasons from ourselves in order to be encouraged and find the direction of our efforts.

Time is a loan, even an honest borrower can't pay it off.

5. One should learn to accept failure, take advantage of the falling time to catch his breath, and then try to attack.

6. Youth is the time to learn wisdom, and middle age is the time to put it into practice.

7. Learning is like tug-of-war. As long as you persist, you can win.

8. An inch of time costs an inch of gold, but an inch of gold can't buy an inch of time.

Knowledge comes from hard work, and any achievement is the result of hard work.

10, knowledge is precious, just like a gold mine. Learning knowledge well and mastering skills will benefit me for life.