Regarding the relationship between husband and mother, there is no coordination, and I don't know who is responsible. Ask the master to help me solve it.

1, in your heart, you don't respect your husband! You think your husband must obey you, and you don't listen to his complaints. He is just a person who helps you with the housework, that's all.

Your distress is based on the fact that he must obey your leadership in everything. This role positioning is hard for him to accept! Now he is just incompetent. If he has the ability and the opportunity, one day, he will resist! What people need most is respect! A relationship without respect will never last! Unless he thinks he's a loser.

It is impossible to change your mother, but you can make some things not happen!

Two people's world, insert an overbearing mother. How can this day be calm? Even if you have lost your freedom, you are eager to make your own decisions. Mom thinks she is good to you, but you don't fully recognize it!

Why are these days still going on?

You married your husband. Why do you want your husband to appreciate your mother's consent? He should be grateful to your mother because she raised you! Instead of your mother allowing you to marry him! You married him because you are willing to marry him! Right? !

You invited mom, and you caused this trouble! Sending your mother away does not mean that you are not filial to your mother, nor does it mean that you are ungrateful! As long as you have parents in your heart, time will prove your filial piety!

If mom is still together for a while, you must stick to two bottom lines:

(1) Your husband is the most important man in your life, but he will accompany you all your life! If you love him, please respect him! Give him a man with dignity!

(2) Filial piety must be strictly observed, which is the foundation of being a man, but filial piety does not always listen to your mother. Do you live for her? If there is no bottom line between you and your mother, everything will be in a mess! You should stand on your own feet and mind your own business! Business is too busy, you can ask someone for help.

In fact, everything is your fault! In front of mom, you are a dutiful son with no bottom line. In front of your husband, you have no respect for maintenance. You have to let your mother know that you have grown up! Your youth is your own master! You should let your husband know that your mother is not his enemy, and he should thank your mother for training you!

Don't try to reconcile conflicts by changing your mother or husband, the possibility is almost zero!

Distance, keep a proper distance.