A life that cannot be repeated, don't live up to yourself and the gift of life.

As a parent, what level is qualified, excellent and impeccable? Do you remember what Shen Guangyao's mother told him? I think this is impeccable.

"When you left your hometown for thousands of miles and came to this place to study, your father and I didn't object. Because, because we miss you, we can enjoy the fun of life, such as reading thousands of books and Wan Li Road, marrying a girl we like and having children. Be careful not to add children to me, but to yourself, so that you can enjoy being a parent. There is nothing in your life that your ancestors have never experienced. Those are just illusions of life. I'm afraid you haven't thought about how to live in this life, and this life will be gone! "

There is no rehearsal in life, and no one can start over. Different lifestyles determine different scenery along the way. Time flies, there is only one life. Try your best to teach children to do what they want to do and become what they want to be.

And if you want your children to be like this, you need to teach them these things.

First, don't feel inferior and cowardly, but learn to be kind to yourself.

People who are utilitarian and self-abased often have fewer opportunities than those who are confident, because even if they have opportunities, they will feel that they are not qualified, or that they have not tried and have given up in their hearts. Learn to be kind to yourself and take the result lightly. You are still young.

Second, don't make negative expressions, learn to control your emotions.

Have you ever seen the expression of a person who is out of control? That sounds horrific. When your emotions are out of control, your language, your expression and your body are actually out of control. You wouldn't believe that you would say such a thing now. Learn to control your emotions and look down.

Third, don't blindly compare with others, learn to cherish the present.

Children should learn not to blindly compare with others, just as we parents should learn not to compare our children with others' children. I know it's hard, but you have to think about what you have. Can you have it for a lifetime? Cherish the present is true.

Fourth, don't always make trouble, learn to find love.

Why do noisy people always make noise? Because their hearts are empty and lonely. They have no real friends and nothing they really like. Calm down, learn to communicate with others, and cultivate a hobby of your own is better than anything else.

Fifth, don't be attached, learn to be independent.

Born as a human being, we should have our own independent thinking consciousness and our own cognition. You should judge people or things by your own cognition, and don't be habitually attached to someone. You know, no one can make you attached forever.

Sixth, don't stop learning, learn to sum up and reflect.

To stop learning is to stop progress, and to stop progress is actually to go backwards. Some talented people will surpass you in a short time, and some hard-working people will spend a little longer than you, learn to sum up and reflect, keep curiosity and keep learning, and you will become a better self.

Seven, don't overdraw your body, learn to enjoy self-discipline.

Health is the capital of revolution, and self-discipline is the most powerful weapon for everyone. Only when capital and weapons are kept in the best condition at the same time, you will not be afraid of any challenges.

Don't be afraid to make mistakes, learn to be patient.

Making mistakes is inevitable, just a matter of size. Back to life, what problems and mistakes can't be overcome? What can be wrong with mistakes in life, work and study? Be patient, accumulate experience and lessons, and become a better self after making mistakes.

Nine, don't set limits for yourself, learn to accept challenges.

Dare to challenge, dare to struggle, be good at seizing opportunities, strive to break through, challenge problems and know yourself.

There is a saying that I think is very good. "Your indulgence and happiness today will always be paid by someone, and the person who pays the bill is the future you. As for how long it takes to buy this bill, it depends on how indulgent you are today. " In fact, this sentence is the same in turn. The person who benefits from your efforts today is actually yourself. The harder you work today, the happier you will be in the future.