After his first love left, Nalan Rongruo wrote a poem, which was so sad and sad that it touched many people.

We want to stay together, but it is difficult to look at each other. We are so sad that we are far away from each other.

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The relationship has always been shallow, but the love is deep. There are some people we always think we have forgotten, but when we are not prepared, memories come rushing in and scratch your eyes.

For Nalan Rongruo, his childhood sweetheart’s first love is an unforgettable love in his life.

That year, that month, that time, have long passed, but that feeling, that love, that lovesickness, are like wine, getting fragrant over the years.

Beauty is far away, lovesickness is bitter, this feeling is unforgettable, so there is this song "Spring in the Painting Hall" that has been passed down through the ages. The full lyrics are as follows:

A pair of people from generation to generation compete for education. Two places of ecstasy.

If we miss each other but don’t love each other, who will be the spring?

It is easy to beg for blood from the blue bridge, but it is difficult to run across the blue sea for medicine.

If you visit and drink Oxford, you will forget your poverty.

Some people say that his first love was his cousin, while others say that he was just her maid.

We can no longer explore the truth, we can only get a glimpse of it from these poems. It must be a beautiful woman that makes him miss her so much.

A pair of people from generation to generation, competing for education and ecstasy.

They were obviously a match made in heaven, and they promised to be together for the rest of their lives, but now they can only be separated in two places, each feeling dejected.

"One pair for a lifetime" is the dream of many men and women. Childhood sweethearts, childhood sweethearts, they also made a promise to grow old.

It’s just that it’s easy to fall in love but hard to stay together. As the sweetheart enters the palace, Xiao Lang and the passers-by lament.

Those who are in ecstasy are just saying goodbye. Just like Yang Guo created his own "Sadly Ecstasy Palm" after breaking up with Xiao Longnu.

"Love each other and love each other twice as much as each other, a pair of people from generation to generation."

This is also a common phenomenon in the poetry world. The original sentence is not well known, but in Chinese culture It becomes a household name after being used or even quoted directly.

Just like "The fallen flower man is independent, and the light and swift swallows fly together", most of us now think it was written by Yan Jidao, and comes from his "Linjiang Immortal·Dream Queen Tower High Lock".

If we miss each other but don’t love each other, who will be the spring?

One kind of lovesickness but two sorrows, looking at each other but not being able to love each other. Looking at the spring year after year, who is it coming for?

Life is like a business trip without meeting each other. The people who loved each other couldn't meet each other. Such sadness made Nalan Rongruo couldn't help but ask God angrily.

"Acacia loves each other but does not have a close relationship" is also a quote, originating from Wang Bo's "Walking with Friends on a Cold Night": "Old friends have old feelings and old banquets, loves each other but do not have a close relationship."

< p> Some people are very aggrieved by King Luo Bin and Wang Bo. These poems are obviously theirs, but in the end they are named after Nalan. When people talk about this poem, they think of Nalan.

In fact, sometimes when we like a poem, we don’t like its content, but are more moved by its emotion.

Nalan's poems and his experiences have made many people excited, so "every family competes to sing drinking poems."

It is easy to beg for blood from the blue bridge, but it is difficult to run across the blue sea for medicine.

It is not difficult to meet on the Blue Bridge, but sometimes even if there is a magic elixir, you cannot fly into the moon palace like Chang'e and meet your sweetheart.

Nalan uses two allusions in these two sentences.

Lanqiao is located in the southeast of Lantian County, Shaanxi Province. Legend has it that there is a cave of gods there.

Scholar Pei Hang traveled here and met the fairy Yunying because he was thirsty for water.

He was fascinated by Yunying's beauty, so he asked her mother for a job.

Yunying’s mother gave him a problem: she had some magical elixir, but it must be pounded with a jade pestle and mortar.

Pei Hang went through all kinds of hardships to find a jade pestle and mortar, and spent a hundred days pounding the medicine. Only then did he get Yunying's mother's promise to stay together with Yunying.

The second sentence tells the story of Chang'e flying to the moon, "Chang'e should regret stealing the elixir, and the blue sea and sky are my heart every night."

"It's easy to beg from the blue bridge." It's an inverted sentence, it should be "It's easy to beg for milk from Lanqiao". The word "easy" shows that it is not difficult for him to encounter an opportunity like Pei Hang's.

Perhaps, he and his sweetheart had reached the point of discussing marriage, and even got the consent of the girl's parents, but by some mistake, an imperial edict to enter the palace separated them forever.

"As soon as Hou Men entered the sea, Xiao Lang was a passerby from then on." The many palace gates became a chasm that was difficult for him and his lover to cross. Just like Hou Yi, even if he obtained the elixir of immortality, he would not be able to cross it. I will definitely be able to stay with Chang'e.

He used Chang'e as a metaphor for his sweetheart. Firstly, it highlights the beauty's alluring appearance. Secondly, it shows that the sweetheart nowadays is out of reach. Even if he loves her deeply and does not regret it, it is difficult to see him again.

The greatest pain in the world is when people who love each other cannot stay together.

If you visit and drink Oxford, you will forget your poverty.

If we could cross the Tianhe River and meet each other like the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl, we would be willing to abandon wealth and wealth.

In the end, Nalan, who was unforgettably lovesick, couldn't help but express his inner voice, "I'm willing to leave everything behind and just want to stay together."

But this can only be said. He is the eldest son of the Nalan family and shoulders the responsibility for the prosperity and disgrace of the family. It is impossible for him and his father will not allow him to leave everything behind.

What's more, his sweetheart is already the emperor's woman. There is no royal land in the world. Even if they elope successfully, there will be no place for them in the vastness of the world.

Nalan didn’t know this, but he still had illusions in his heart.

The whole poem expresses his heart directly, using other people's poems at the top and quoting scriptures at the bottom, vividly showing his sorrow of not being able to love, which is heartbreaking to read.

Such a beautiful love as "a pair of people for a lifetime" speaks to the aspirations of countless men and women.

However, in this world of mortals, there is always one person whose time we cannot mottle.

Some fates will never come to fruition, and some people are destined to be lost. However, ordinary people cannot understand such pain unless they have experienced it personally.

"One thought will set the city on fire for you

If the snow is frozen and the twilight ends

Half drunk, half awake and half alive

A generation in a lifetime "A pair of people"

I once thought that if Nalan could risk everything and conquer the world, then maybe the ending would be different.

It’s just that there are no ifs in life. What we love is his gentleness and jade, his desire to get what he asks for, and his infatuation without regret.

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Author: Kai Zi