What should I do if I encounter a roommate who likes to take advantage of others?

In fact, in college life, we often meet people who like to take advantage of others. If it is your roommate, you will have more chances to get along with her, so you gradually get to know her and find out that she is Like this. My roommate, I think she is quite fond of petty gains. Let me give you an example. Suppose she asks me to bring something for her, lunch. Sometimes she won't take the initiative to return the money to me, and only after I remind her will she return it to me. When we were playing, she would just wipe off the change, as if my money was blown away by the strong wind. I wiped out the small change, and I was very convinced.

Also, when we go out to play together, if I want to say that I paid for it first and bought something, other roommates will take the initiative to return the money to me, but she won’t, she must wait until I do Go with her and ask for it before she gives it to me. I think if you borrow money from someone else, you should take the initiative to return the money to her. You need to be urged by others. I think this is a very bad behavior.

I had a lotion, and she asked me to borrow it, so I lent it to her. Then I thought it didn’t matter once or twice. As a result, she often came to ask me to borrow it. I think if you want these things for a long time, It’s better for you to buy it yourself. After all, it’s not good to ask others to borrow it, but that’s what she was like. Then I said, can’t you buy it yourself? She said she didn't have money yet, and she didn't have the nerve to ask me for it later. She really likes to take advantage of us, as if she can make a lot of money by taking advantage of us.

My parents often tell me that in school and in the dormitory, I should be more generous to my roommates and not be fussy, but I think it’s okay if you do it once or twice, but I really think it’s okay if you do it once or twice. Unbearable. So I don't plan to have a close friendship with her on this matter, just limit it to my classmates, because sooner or later she will piss her off. I think if you meet such a roommate in college, don't have too much contact with her. This kind of person is too selfish and not worthy of you being friends with her.