What happened to the teaching assistants after graduation?

Some things you hear and see are hard to hold back. But, sadly, when writing these things.

Just say a few things that I experienced, saw and heard with my own eyes.

1 I took calculus in my freshman year at school, 12 weeks later. I am poor at math. I studied for several days and nights. By the eighteenth week, when everyone was reviewing modern history, the results came out, and of course I failed. There are three in our dormitory, two in the dormitory next door, and one is better than me. She is a cadre in our class. The two of us mourned for a day after learning the result. There was nothing we could do, and there was a modern history exam to take. After two or three days, I have accepted this fact. I recite modern history in the library. Suddenly, she called from the dormitory next door and said that she had just rechecked her grades. As a result, other usual final grades have not changed, and the total score has actually become 60, but she has not failed. I checked it with trepidation at that time, and it turned out. . . Still hanging. Afterwards, I called my mother and said that I shed a few tears when I was excited. My mother said calmly, that's normal. Many things are just that you have no experience. Later, when I was a sophomore, I was still worried about it. A student union minister told me that counselors have the power and ability to determine your grades. I see. I don't know if you understand.

When I was a freshman, last semester, a woman in our dormitory suddenly told me mysteriously that another person in our dormitory went to the dean's office several times, but she didn't see the dean several times. I naively asked what I saw the dean doing, and my roommate said contemptuously, what can I do when I see the dean? I went to ginseng, a specialty. Before, my roommate's house also produced cherries, so I asked her mother to post 10 kg at a time. Anyway, I have a kilo. After a long time, I went to the guide's office and saw that the guide was still washing cherries. I was embarrassed to give my roommate's English as a gift.

There is a girl next door who is very nice and listens to her parents. I decided to join the party as a freshman. Since then, there has always been a box of pears, peaches and apples in the corner of the tour guide office. Later, the girl became an official party member in the second year of high school. But her roommate at the same time is still hanging up training ~

I heard this. We have a good friend from Shanxi in the dormitory next door. His family is very rich. Being rich is nothing. Let the counselor know it's nothing. If you meet the best counselor, then. . . The thing is, when I took the exam in my sophomore year, people who passed the exam knew how painful it was. That child in Shanxi is just hovering on the edge of passing the exam. When her guide found out, she called her father and directly said that it was acceptable for your daughter to pass the exam, indicating that her father could handle it. Her father is in business, so I don't know what it means. The next day, he mailed a specialty, such as tobacco and alcohol specialty. It's hard, but the wonderful things are yet to come. The tour guide called her father again and said, why don't we open a coal mine together or something ~ ~ At that time, the Shanxi girl's father was petrified. It's so easy to open a coal mine. Does he still need his daughter to study at your place?

5 is also a guide in 4. He is a typical rich and relaxed person. I went to check the flag-raising for one semester. In the class under his leadership, there are at most 10 students at ordinary times, with at least two students. My major is rare in school. There are 30 students in a class, and they have at least 40 popular majors. . .

In fact, people say that universities are a small society, aren't they? Those things that we think are impossible are not non-existent, but we haven't met them yet. Sadly, while we spit out these things, we are also sinking in step by step. People who have been in college for four years and are not polluted by these things are not excluded, but they want to survive in this society. . .

I am an ordinary two-year college student and have graduated. When I was in college, I didn't attend the student union and the class Committee meeting. At that time, in order to enter the student union, college students had to crush their heads and find various relationships. It is said that the university is a small society and has a deep understanding. Freshmen who enter the student union are all errands. They surround the guides and student union cadres every day and curry favor with them in various ways. And I had nothing to do, so I went to the library to study hard in class. The final exam results are among the top in the class, but because they are not from the student union, there are few extra points. We usually get a high percentage of extra points, and the total score is medium in the class. The grant is ranked according to the total score, so there is no mine. My classmates are all in the student union, but I won a scholarship because of my good academic performance. However, many of them left the student union in their junior and senior years, so that I would be at the front of the class in terms of comprehensive scores and the grants would be mine. I have been in college for four years, and I have hardly come into contact with tour guides. When I graduated from my senior year, the tour guide knew that I was such a person. I took the exam in a provincial institution, and my major in science and engineering was very strong. I passed the written interview. If I need a certificate from the school, I will call the instructor. When I went to testify, the first thing she asked me was how I got into the exam and whether I found someone. I was very unhappy. Isn't the success in her eyes achieved by her own efforts? I said no one was found. I took the exam myself. When she was surprised. Everyone's success may depend on relationships, which can be understood as such in this society. This is called ability. But there are still many people who have succeeded by their own efforts. Please don't always look at others with your own eyes.

For this problem, I will talk about it with what happened around me. I am a student in two colleges. I have also held some positions in various organizations in the school and joined the student union. You feel that the water is deep.

As far as my own experience and experience are concerned, our boss has a good relationship with the school youth league Committee. Moreover, it is said that you can stay in school after graduation and concentrate on participating in various activities arranged by the school one day. And because we only have one undergraduate college here, we will find people from here for all kinds of activities and large-scale activities. Every day, I escape from all kinds of things and get to know the teachers and counselors you mentioned. But it feels useless. In other words, when you need to borrow something, you'd better ask first. I will ask you out to dinner from time to time. Nothing else.

What other benefits are there according to the regulations? In other words, you have more opportunities to participate in various activities organized by some schools.

I saw our students ask you. All kinds of ministers and chairmen still do what they should do after graduation. In fact, there are not many places to stay in school, so after graduation, there is not much connection with my current job, and like other graduates, to find a job, I have to take the civil service exam. There is nothing more than others.

Most of them are good. Why do universities have to please counselors? Every university has a counselor for each major to manage the daily affairs of the class. His main task is to engage in students' ideological and political education, students' daily management, employment guidance, mental health and the construction of student party groups. Therefore, we can see the strength of counselors from their work tasks. Every year, colleges and universities hold the selection of scholarships and grants, and counselors and teachers in every secondary college are responsible for this work, although this is a sensitive issue, because scholarships and grants are very concerned by many college students. Of course, the selection of scholarships and grants must be carried out in accordance with the relevant rules and regulations of colleges and universities, but when it comes to every student, counselors will give priority to some students who can participate in the evaluation, while college students are only responsible for voting. The final result is nothing more than the difference between who gets a scholarship once and who gets a scholarship twice. Therefore, if you do well in college and have a harmonious relationship with counselors, then you are likely to get scholarships and grants, which is the right of counselors. Every graduation season, colleges and universities will select outstanding students from each student and award them the title of outstanding graduates, which is also an honor that many college students strive for, because it will play a positive role in their future work and postgraduate entrance examination. But the number of places in each college is limited, but there are many excellent students. Finally, who is the outstanding graduate of the college is also recommended by the counselor, and the counselor will report the candidate to the college. Generally speaking, as long as you report to the college leaders, you can basically get the honorary title of outstanding graduates. Counselors play a vital role in the selection of student unions. Exaggerated, they can have veto power. I remember when I was in college, we helped a classmate to choose the president of the student union. Basically, all the tickets were collected, that is, many students were mobilized to canvass votes. However, after the selection results came out, a girl was directly elected as the president of the student union without going through the ticket-singing link. I was very angry when I thought about it. It was absolutely shady. It is inevitable to think about it now, because that classmate never flatters, and has a general relationship with the counselor, but he is deeply loved by his classmates. In the university, the counselor is a very key role. It is important to have a good relationship with the counselor. It is also an exercise for all college students. If you don't get along well with the counselor in college. Then in society, the relationship may not be good. Dealing with counselors is the foundation and premise. When it's good, he will think of you. This is also an exercise of personal emotional intelligence. It should be "psychological counselor", right?

Teachers' morality, in this era of money first, has lost its original appearance. Many counselors and even teachers have done some things for their own self-interest. Some students in our class who have a good relationship with counselors and often give gifts on holidays have won all honors such as "Three Good Students", "Excellent Cadres" and "Scholarships". Moreover, such people often cheat in exams, and all of them fail. Take the grant as an example. Some students from poverty-stricken areas who apply for grants can't apply because they have a bad relationship with the instructors. Moreover, every time, the class leaders with first-class grants are often on the list. Do you think people who can buy apples, pursue fashion brands, often sing outside and eat in high-end places will be poor? And it's obvious to everyone. Won't those who are really poor feel sad every time the list of scholarships and grants is published? And the people who occupy the first and second-class grants and scholarships every year will always be those. Counselors clearly know that such people's family conditions are not bad, but they also apply for grants, but they also turn a blind eye and give places as usual. Those class cadres also euphemistically said that they were decided by democratic voting. Why should I watch the Democratic Party? Those who really study hard are laughed at by others, and those who cheat by opportunism get all the honors. Alas, what's wrong with this era? I'm just kidding. If I have the money to bribe the tour guide, why should I apply for funding? This view is just complaining, and readers can think that I am jealous of them! I can't help it My family is poor and honest. Besides studying hard and saving money, I won't cheat in the exam and won't get a scholarship. No matter how good I am, I have no honor. Those who are not as good as me return home with honor through the guide! Maybe everyone knows that every time I cry and tell the counselor that my family is very difficult and I want to apply for a scholarship, he says that the class cadres find classmates to vote for democracy and say that they can't help me. Every time I feel disappointed, no one can see why I work so hard. Later, I figured it out, or I could help myself. I would do odd jobs to earn living expenses, at least I didn't have to beg. During my internship, I can work to earn money, so I don't have to stay at school so lonely and helpless. Later, I heard that I could apply for a job subsidy, but the materials were not ready. As a result, the counselor said, you give me a few hundred dollars for running, and I'll help you get it, without preparing any materials. This incident also made me see the true face of this so-called teacher, just don't say it and know it! Teacher's morality? Me too, hehe.

There are many benefits of buttering up counselors, including the following five benefits.

1 face

Counselors are arranged by school leaders to be directly responsible for student work in the department, which is equivalent to the village cadres at the grassroots level of the government. Although the official is small, he holds some real power and connections.

If you curry favor with good counselors, you will find the organization and correct direction of the university. Walking on campus, if others see you with the counselor, don't say how envious you are. There's a lot of light on your face, too. It feels like you've climbed into the mayor's relationship!

2 Gigi Lai

Counselors don't carry much weight Because some students want to get scholarships, they will inevitably consult with counselors, and in the long run, they will become brothers and sisters.

Counselors are experienced people with excellent academic performance and worldly wisdom. After their guidance, your life seems to be hanging up, and the university is smooth and fruitful.

3 Other income

There are also students and counselors who have sparks of love and even get married. But the state clearly stipulates that college students can get married and have children. Let's bless them, Ollie!

Pretending to be lofty is a common problem for many college students.

From the words, I can feel your disdain for such behavior. I was like you when I was in college. Now that I have graduated from work 10 years ago, I dare say that people who know how to curry favor with instructors in universities are smarter than their peers, because even if they don't curry favor with instructors in universities, they will curry favor with leaders in society. Haha, almost no one can avoid customs. Of course, the word "buttering up" is ugly, and "getting close" is better, but it's actually the same thing.

You can continue your contempt. Others deserve the same treatment. What did the students who are closely related to the guide get in college? In a word, it is "winner takes all".

1, student cadres. Whether it is a class cadre or a student union cadre, people who are close to guidance will definitely take the lead. You can think that student cadres are useless, but it's really different to write so many strokes on your resume. Dai Wei of ofo used to be the president of Peking University Student Union. Xu Xiaoping said that he dared to invest in him for this name, which seems to be useful.

2. Scholarships. In addition to ordinary scholarships, there are many other scholarships in universities, including national inspirational scholarships, national scholarships, Soong Ching Ling Foundation, and other scholarships funded by various enterprises or well-known alumni. Some of them are not only based on their grades, but they will know more and have more opportunities when they get close to their tutors.

3. the opportunity to join the party. Joining the party is a kind of belief, which represents your love for the party organization and your willingness to devote yourself to the cause of the party. But when everyone is willing to give their lives, and the quota is limited, others get close to the guide, which means that others are more active than you to some extent, and the limited quota will naturally be given to others instead of you.

4. Recommend good job opportunities. Good companies go to schools to recruit, and the number of places is limited. If you can get the recommendation of the guide, it will be stable. After all, enterprise hr contacts the college for recruitment, and the guide can still talk.

Pretending to be lofty, I hardly talked to the instructor during my four years in college, and I didn't catch a hair. It's no use saying that my grades are not in graduate school. I didn't know until I got to the society that it was impossible not to curry favor with me, haha.

When I was in college, a female classmate fawned on the counselor and ran there when she had nothing to do. As a result, she won all kinds of inspirational scholarships, and those who went to the library to study all day could only get a three-good student award. Later, most of the students who studied well were admitted to the postgraduate entrance examination, but she didn't, and she didn't get in World War II! !

Coaches, instructors, teachers and powerful people in universities all applaud people and have a bright future!

However, if such a person simply flatters himself without any skills, it is obvious that if he is good at flattery, then he can win a position and live a good life by it. Of course, if he leaves this background or offends someone, it may not be easy for him!