What is love, what is love, and what is sincere in the world!

Asking what love is in the world only makes people commit themselves to life and death. We always ask, "What is love?" ~! What is happiness ~ Love is colorful ~ The power of love is great ~ Love is irrational ~ There is no right or wrong in love, and there is no standard answer ~ It's complicated ~ No reason is needed ~ It's hard ~ What a taste! ~ I feel everything ~ First love can never be forgotten ~ Fate must be hard to meet! ~ and just saying' I love you' means that both men and women have to pay a lot! Unless it is a lovely boy! Which is more important, love or money? The ups and downs of this can only be realized if you have tasted it yourself! Will love at first sight lead to true love for life? Is there true love? Why are we getting married? These problems are all because we can have fairy-tale perfection and happiness for a long time, and eternal love is the eternal topic of mankind! ! People attach countless beautiful words to her, which boils down to praise and wishes for love, nothing more than the word "eternal" ... Love itself is not only romantic, pure and exclusive, but also has the characteristics of freedom and impermanence, and its embarrassing essence is very difficult to achieve in this materialistic and filthy real society. Everyone wants to have an eternal love. Young life always yearns for beautiful love. Love is a kind of heartache to youth, and it is an irresistible feeling of youth. Boys and girls love dreaming, dreaming a fairy tale dream and a love dream. In my dream, I look forward to fairy-tale beautiful and pure love. The beautiful and sad love story "Butterfly Lovers" jumped into the grave in Yingtai. Butterfly lovers became a butterfly and wandered around the world, realizing the eternity of their love: life cannot be the same, but death must be the same! It sublimates people's beautiful expectations of love to a highest level. But legends are legends after all. In the movie Zhou Yu's Train, Zhou Yu (Gong Li) has a dialogue: "... if you have it in your heart, it's really there. If you don't have it in your heart, it's really gone ..." Do you know what this is? ,? Think about it ~ ~ In Arthur Schopenhauer's masterpiece The World as Will and Representation, a great German educator and philosopher said, "... man is a wolf that eats people! ..... We are unhappy when we are married and unhappy when we are not married. A person's life is not happy, and we are not happy in the group ... we are like a group of hedgehogs gathered together to keep warm. It's hard to get too close, and it's sad to be apart ... All good things are illusory, the world will eventually be destroyed, and life is a deal that is not worth the loss ... "I don't care about eternity, I only care that I once had a beautiful advertisement! ! I like Zhang ailing's sentence best: Marry him for love and marry him for money, the essence is the same, and no one is much nobler than anyone else. Getting married is a change. And change first means giving up, and it will happen for no reason. Zhang Ailing said in "Red Rose and White Rose": The life of ordinary people, no matter how good, is also a "peach blossom fan". Just add a little dye to it and it will become a peach blossom-her pen is sharp and fierce, trying to tear the warm face of life away for people to see, but I still see that her rational eyes contain the most thorough love and nostalgia for this life. The hero's love in the book is helpless, incomplete and regrettable. If he chooses the red rose, he gives up the white rose, and vice versa. Write the helplessness of life and the regret of love to the fullest. I remember Chi Li said that finding someone you like to talk about a love is nothing more than adding some fun to life. Finding a husband or wife is to get a helper in life, which is different in essence. Being single is a way of life, and getting married is just another way of life. Some people really love each other when they are in love, but after a long time, the love fades, and the people who love each other are scattered ~ Some people don't really love each other when they love, just for fun, or for the needs of some interests ~ ~ Some people really love him or her for a long time at first, and some people have experienced it, but they don't want to lose it in the end. It's really good. A man or woman who is suitable for home loves home and loves you, but this kind of love is rare ~ in fact, I don't know ~ The real relationship will be a little tired after a long time, and there will be a low tide, not as passionate as it was at first ~ But feelings are two people's business. If she (he) still loves you, then this relationship will still be saved, otherwise you will be saved again. Especially in this materialistic and money-oriented era, life brings you more helplessness and bitterness. You should fight for your home at all costs, because you are the wheel of climbing a mountain. Can you live happily without money? Which is more important, love or money? The ups and downs of this can only be realized if you have tasted it yourself! The reality of marriage is actually very helpless. San Mao of Taiwan Province Province said: Love can't last long if it is not implemented in the real life of dressing, eating, counting money and sleeping. Sometimes, we mistakenly think that it is a living habit-it is a love for a man or a woman. I appreciate this sentence best! Haha ~ when I was a teenager, my bags were empty, so I was happy because I was relaxed. But in the next few years, we picked it up all the way, and the bags gradually filled up. Because of the heavy, happiness disappeared. We think what we put in is all good things, but it is these so-called good things that add a lot of troubles to our lives and reduce a lot of happiness ~ Are we like snails in love and life? In fact, many things in this world are quietly deteriorating. Including our love and marriage. When people's hearts become restless, when material life bid farewell to poverty, when money enters life with its unstoppable momentum, people's spiritual world suddenly collapses. We enjoy all modern civilizations, but our spirit has become extremely empty. So suddenly there are so many new terms, such as bigamy, affair, changing mistress club and one-night stand; No matter in reality or on the internet, there are ambiguous names everywhere: knowing yourself should be divided into blue face and red face! ? Everyone who has been in love knows that the favorite is always unavailable. Gains and losses are of course happy; Gain and loss, suffer from loss, and losing Chad is even more tragic! Everyone who has loved knows that fairy-tale eternity belongs only to fairy tales, and few belong to reality. How can couples who may also want to share joys and sorrows avoid it? I'd rather believe that there are couples who share joys and sorrows in this world, but it must be rare, and things are rare. I just want to say forgiveness, sympathy, compassion and understanding, and accept human weaknesses! In the face of the reality that money and love are difficult to have at the same time, we should come and go. In reality, in the face of many couples who can't share joys and sorrows, it is better to just be friends. Since the fate is over, let it go easily and wish each other a pleasant journey! No one wants to change his mind on purpose. He really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't. If he loves you, he can't pretend not to love you. Similarly, when he doesn't love you, he has a way to pretend to love you. When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you should ask yourself if you still love him. If you don't love him, don't refuse to leave because of your poor self-esteem. If you still love him, you should hope that he is happy and stay with the person he really loves, and you will never stop him. If you stop him from getting real happiness, you don't love him anymore. If you don't love him, who are you to accuse him of changing his mind? Maybe this is the paradox of love. There is a movie in Marilyn Monroe called "The Seven-Year Itch", which tells that after seven years of marriage, both men and women have no feelings, and they begin to itch to find a fresh and exciting feeling, but morality and reason do not allow this to happen, so they have to continue to maintain their current marriage in a painful and contradictory mood. This is actually the true nature of human nature. Both men and women like the new and hate the old, but some people's reason suppresses the impulse, while others let the impulse overcome the reason. German writer Sean Paul once said a very intriguing sentence: "Life is like a book. Fools turn it over, but wise men look carefully. Why? Because smart people know that they can only watch it once. " When we look forward to love, we regard the morning and evening as eternity and the tender moment as being loved for life, so we make promises that cannot be realized, so we hope to hold your hand and live happily ever after. In fact, there is nothing to promise, because few people on this earth can fulfill their promises, and there is nothing to lose what they once owned. Everything has its own home. Maybe love has nothing to do with luck, maybe the ultimate happiness in this life has nothing to do with the deepest person in my heart, maybe one day in the future, we all don't know who will hold whose hand and see through the scenery after a long time. Now all the good things have disappeared, and then we will finally understand that eternity is a rare thing and happiness is a mysterious and fragile thing. I remember reading such a passage in a book, which means that in this world, the probability of meeting people is about one in 20 thousand, and the probability of knowing people is about one in 20 million. So what are the chances of people knowing each other? What are the chances of coming to our hearts and making friends with us? What are the chances of getting married with us through thick and thin? There is a saying: people who can become husband and wife in this life have to practice together under the bodhi tree for 500 years in the last life, so the seemingly dull husband and wife in this life also have a leading advantage. Otherwise, why does the vast sea of people only meet you? Then thousands of Qian Qian people have passed by us, and how many people can walk into our hearts? Whether in fantasy or reality, everyone is looking for something he loves, even if he is scarred, he has no regrets. They are hurt by love again and again, and trapped by love again and again. Why did you come? Calm down and recall the past, often with a sigh: if love bites people, there are traces to be found; If time has sound, sound can be found; If regrets are limited, they can be exhausted; If there is love in the sky, love can continue. However, if the heart has died of splendor, will love really be reborn in the ashes? It is said that it is the day when things change, but God still does, let alone people! You and I may be lost again, and we can't find our way. Because there is a word of love in the world, it is doomed that many people will be hurt by love. Because fairy-tale love is destined to be a beautiful fairy tale, and feelings are really hurtful, because they are sensitive and meticulous, and love to the extreme is unreserved, even if it is self-defense. Some people say that feelings have always been a double-edged sword, which can hurt others as well as yourself. It can have dazzling beauty and biting pain. In fact, as we all know, it is not easy to be a person worthy of love. Sometimes, even if it takes a lifetime, it is difficult to find this person. There will be troubles, worries, hesitation and loss, but don't let yourself and the other person get hurt. In fact, I can give too many examples, but I don't want to say more now. Sartre, a great French philosopher, said, "God is long dead!" Then the only god in this world is money! ! Lu Xun's what happened after Nora left said that the most painful thing in life is that there is no way to go after waking up from a dream, and the dreamer is the happiest; If you can't see the way to go, the most important thing is not to wake him up … all dreams are good, as long as they don't die ~ ~ otherwise money is the most important thing! "His old man's life is actually spent in helplessness, so his old man's house is so realistic! f h