Is it credible that the man promises to buy a house after marriage?

A few days ago, a friend and her boyfriend talked for about half a year, and their parents met. She told me some questions. I combined my own experience and asked me what to do.

Background: The man is in his early thirties and belongs to a relatively independent personality. In the county seat, he has an old house with big property rights, worth about 220 thousand. He pays for the wedding himself.

The biggest problem is the house.

My friend's family wants a house with an elevator. It can be smaller. It will be very comfortable to live in.

After discussion, the two of them gave a plan. Because the man's money is only enough for marriage, not enough to support the down payment of another house. Then their plan is to buy a house two years after marriage.

Then the question is, can you still buy it after two years of marriage? The reality is actually betting on a friend's youth and whether a man can take up this responsibility in the future.

My advice to my friend is that if you can accept getting married, having children and going to school in your present house, then you can promise him without hesitation. If you can't accept it, then you should consider how much you can contribute to the next suite after marriage, so as to achieve a better life in the future. If these are uncertain, we will wait and see.

Of course, I have met this man, who is very mature and steady, and I don't know much about others, but from my personal point of view, I will think so.

When my husband and I got married, the house in the county was also a cascade, but we haven't lived in it many times since we got married. Only when the child is just born to one year old, we live the longest this year because our hometown is cold.

At that time, my consideration was: as long as there is. I have never thought about going back to our county for development, so where this house is and what its school district is like are not within my consideration, but it will be the starting point of our next house, so this starting point will be higher.

My father-in-law also belongs to this house. My father-in-law and mother-in-law pay the bill in full. They also discussed with each other after marriage. If they decide to develop in Zhengzhou, the development direction is ok. They can sell this house and collect some money as the down payment of Zhengzhou house. The two old people agreed. The two old people now live in their hometown house, which is also very clean and comfortable. Going back is also living in my hometown with my parents-in-law. My husband and I agreed that we could redecorate the house in our hometown in the future. Thanks to the enlightened parents-in-law.

So all things considered, where do you plan to develop in the future? What kind of life do you want for your child? This is discussed by two people, and it is also their plan for the future. If two people can't reach common ground on this topic, then it is meaningless to think about the above problems.

The marriage of two people is the combination of two people and two families. It is also whether two people can leave family of origin and have a third home together. The two sides must be consistent in this cognition.

My question has never been answered. The answers are all my own choices. What kind of road to choose, we should consider the consequences clearly. If the consequences are acceptable, then you should go on bravely. If the consequences are unacceptable, please change tracks!

Of course, the answer should be given to the owner of this question. I'm just saying my opinion, and all opinions only represent my personal opinion.