What are the criteria for being a good wife and mother?

Every man wants to find a good wife and mother to be his other half. Do you know what standards are needed for a good wife and mother? The following is our performance about a good wife and a good mother. Welcome to reading.

What are the criteria for being a good wife and mother? 1. Husband is for love, not for venting. Therefore, if you have to be careful, loving your husband is actually loving yourself. Otherwise, you should seriously reflect on whether your decision to marry him is correct.

Husband wants to eat fruit, so hurry to wash it. Numerous facts have proved that the process of pushing is not harmonious, which not only hurts the feelings between husband and wife, but also washes away the long-lasting fruits.

Don't be insincere when ordering, be polite, lest you end up ordering something you don't like. The best way is for everyone to order their favorite dishes, so as to avoid embarrassment when the dishes served are not to each other's taste.

4. When quarreling, it's best not to be outspoken or outspoken. Don't say anything that hurts people's self-esteem. Never blurt out things like breaking up or divorce, lest both of you be embarrassed or even embarrassed afterwards.

If two people need to give gifts for their wedding anniversary or important festivals, it is best not to choose food or things that are easily melted by the defendant. No matter how exquisite the food is, it will eventually be feces, no matter how beautiful it is, it will also be garbage after melting.

6. When you are unhappy, you'd better stay alone for a while. It's best to find out the cause and effect of the matter. Even if you are really unhappy and make you angry, try to be less angry and cry more.

7. Be sure to remember your husband's birthday according to the custom at home, and set a reminder in your mobile phone to ensure that you are the first to congratulate your husband? Happy birthday? Although men don't care, they still feel very happy.

Whether your husband is an outstanding talent or a successful person with a successful career, as his wife, you should be proud of him and get into the habit of smiling more when you see him, especially when he comes in from work.

9. When you feel lonely and need your husband to accompany you, but he is too busy with his career to accompany you, you can imagine yourself as a soldier's wife. Then, learn to be strong and tell him: you are busy, I can.

10, when you are unhappy with your husband, you must pay attention to bringing your femininity to the extreme and try to be soft but not hard. Usually men are soft and not afraid of hard.

1 1. A woman who loves her husband should be considerate, especially when he comes home drunk. Try not to blame him. He has to do this. The best way is to wake him up and go to bed quickly.

12, you can grab the quilt with him, but you must remember to cover him with a quilt when he is half asleep and half awake, so that he will feel very happy and practical. After all, he is his wife and knows how to hurt people.

13, when he boasts to you, you can pretend to be a loyal listener and even pretend to admire him. You know, a good man, like a good boy, is bragging. This is also an incentive way.

14, when a man and you outline a bright future of your life, don't throw cold water on him. Although you can be skeptical or treat him as a sleepwalker, you should still show your desire and hope.

A good woman should learn to listen rather than nag. In fact, many men want a woman to listen to him quietly. If women show disdain, it is likely that there will be less and less talk between you.

16, when there is a marriage tragedy in the TV series or movie plot, think about how good your husband is to you, call him at an appropriate time, and if nothing else, let him listen to your voice.

17, if you are unhappy, you should communicate with your husband face to face, even if you want to cry, you should do it in front of him. In the face of a tearful woman, men are often at a loss. Say what you want to say!

18. When your husband buys you a gift, don't criticize him for buying it correctly. This will only dampen his enthusiasm for continuing to pay attention to you. You just have to say:? Dear, are you so kind to me? . Enough!

19. Take a group photo in a low-key tone. Occasionally talk about a secret friend buying you coffee, but you refuse to help your husband buy things, making him feel that his position in your mind is far more important than your secret friend.

Since you have chosen to spend your life with him, don't try to change him. You can only adapt yourself to him. Education is futile, and probation may be feasible. If it still doesn't work, you'd better think of a way out before falling out with him.

2 1, women like men, but they can never satisfy their husbands, because women always want their husbands to live according to their own wishes and transform him with their own imagination. Imagine how many men are willing to do this?

22. Use his money to exercise or buy clothes and cosmetics. At least in his eyes, you are the most beautiful image of every age group. Therefore, women should be willing to be responsible for their own beauty, and men are willing to pay for women's beauty.

23. A really good man is often willing to spend money on his beloved woman, because it is his pleasure in life, and men will feel satisfied and proud of it and feel irreplaceable in the family.

24. When you are bored, you'd better find something useful and harmless to do, even if you spend a few more money. Remember not to be intimate with other men. Once the affair is over, you will lose everything.

25. Don't be obsessed with online chatting or online dating. These are not suitable for married women. Once you fall into it, you will often be disturbed by the ideological struggle of whether to date or not and get into trouble.

Everyone has shortcomings, so does her husband, and so do you. So we should treat her shortcomings correctly and objectively. If she just goes home and refuses to do housework, then you need to exercise.

27, the vast majority of men are lazy, there is no way, this is natural, unless you have a particularly good way to cure his laziness, otherwise, you have to avoid talking about it, hard work can not be said by mouth.

28. Husband's shortcomings should be divided into two parts. If he likes to sleep late, he will have more rest time. If he has no money, he will have less thoughts of cheating. If he is ugly, he will feel more secure in marriage.

29. When a man focuses on something, don't try to make him focus on you. This is very dangerous. If an accident happens, you will regret it for life. In addition, hard-working men are the cutest.

It is natural for a husband to work hard for his family. The best treatment a good woman can give a man who comes home is to leave him alone for a while. You can pour him a glass of water or prepare dinner for him to go home. The man will feel particularly warm at home.