What if parents always like to pick up garbage?

When my mother picked up the garbage, I collapsed. She came back from abroad for a year, and we got off the plane at midnight and went home. At first, what the children saw was her originally tough body, bent at 90 degrees, with pale hair and a tired face. She just came back from the basement to sort out the garbage and didn't even have time to prepare food. When I went to the basement, I saw waste paper boxes and plastic bottles pushed to the ceiling. I told the property that this would catch fire and asked her to dispose of it immediately. My husband and I helped him for an hour the next day, and his nostrils were black. I can't stand her staying in it every day. As soon as I entered the door, I saw that the sofa and piano stool at home were all picked up cloth, and even the sheets were not our own. I asked if it was picked up, and several pieces of the same white clothes were hung on the hanger ... I was really crazy and resolutely refused to let her pick them up, saying that our family was not short of money, and all the people living in the community were colleagues and the children's teachers were there, which was not good for our health. Before, my lungs were sick. . . I said it again and again. I saw her again the next morning and went to get a box early. . . And things keep coming in at home, a pair of old shoes, a shoe rack and a bucket. I feel scared every day, and I feel that all the food at home is picked up. . . Throw an old bottle, old clothes and so on at home, and the next day it appears in another corner. . . I began to be manic and suspicious, and secretly observing her to save me was extremely uncomfortable. She put rice washing water in a basin to wash vegetables and dishes. After washing vegetables, she wiped the stove, sometimes without changing the rag. . . I also told my children that your parents don't save water, and I really don't know what to do. I was scared when I saw her. I wanted her to go out and live. I thought her problems would be more serious.