Don’t talk about your troubles everywhere

After we grow up, especially after we get married, we always go behind our parents’ backs when it comes to troublesome problems that our parents cannot solve. At most, we wait until the problem is solved and nothing happens, and then we tell our parents lightly. one time.

Why do this? Because older parents have no way to deal with problems that you can't solve. Let them know that it will do nothing but increase their worries and affect their physical and mental health.

Even if your parents still have some ability to do things, if you don’t want to ask for their opinions or listen to their opinions, it is best not to let them hear the worries and troubles you encounter. and see. I don't agree with going home often to read the song and talk about the troubles in life with my mother, and talk to my father about work matters. Middle-aged and elderly parents should not be dirty buckets for their young children. They have already struggled, suffered enough hardships, and suffered enough. Don't add more worries to them.

Adults, please don’t talk to your parents about the troubles you encounter.

Out of ear, out of mind, out of sight, out of mind. After hearing it, it is even more confusing to come out to persuade but not accepted. Don't say that you are unintentional. Even if you have no intention to make your parents more troubled, it only adds to the trouble, because you are not thoughtful enough.

The correct way is to hide the problems that your parents cannot help you solve with white lies, so that they think everything is peaceful and safe.