Willing to be ordinary: how should a person who is not motivated like me live?

How on earth should we live? This question often makes me think.

? Let me talk about myself first!

? When I was a child, I was naive. I successfully passed primary and secondary schools and was admitted to an ordinary university with average grades. Life is dull, the family is neither poor nor rich, and everyone is doing their part.

? There are also many troubles, love is not smooth, some people in the family have been seriously ill, and their studies are not very good. They were disappointed by their lack of ambition.

? As my student career is coming to an end, I have to think about what kind of person I will be in the future. The rest of the road, no parents gave me money, the teacher arranged for me, leaving me to face and choose.

? I don't have any special talent. I think I have an advantage in writing, but I am not optimistic. After graduation, I usually work in the front line, and I have no confidence in starting a business in school.

? Yes, I seem useless. If there is anything worthy of praise, it is probably that I have not caused trouble to this society, and I am still a man with a conscience!

? Of course, life goes on. Although I know I am mediocre, I have never lost hope in life. I am not a person with higher aspirations than the sky, and the sky has planted seeds since childhood.

? My grandfather is a good farmer. He and his grandmother raised three children and built a beautiful house in our remote village.

? My father didn't do well in school, but he worked hard outside and earned a little family business by his own hands.

? The house in my hometown is not luxurious, but my grandmother always cleans the yard very clean. All the vegetables we usually eat are planted in the vegetable shed. In the slack season, grandma takes care of the children and grandpa plays mahjong. The days are dull and full.

? My father worked hard outside and rented a house of twenty or thirty square meters. A family of four lived in it, but it was not crowded. He sweated the children to receive education according to their own wishes. My mother always tidies up the small house well, so she should have everything.

? Ordinary is not a fault, and each of us can create our own future in ordinary.

? My grandfather and father taught me diligence and hard work, which is the crystallization of the wisdom of the older generation. They have not achieved great success, but they have children and support their families in an ordinary life.

? Now that I have grown up, I will take over the burden of life. Grandpa and dad are fine. What should I do?

? Is it to follow your heart and pursue distant ideals? Or go with the flow and work hard under the fluctuation of the market? Or lose yourself under various secular requirements?

? Young people in my time always had many strange ideas, and I was particularly strange. I'm not born to love studying and working, so I'm afraid I may not be as diligent as my grandfather or as hard as my father. I don't mind doing business, but I don't want to go shopping all day. I am willing to enter a company, but I don't want to be forced to do things I don't like or even violate morality; I don't think it is necessary to do simple mechanical work. ......

? If only I could eat and drink Lazar and take care of my family without working. If I have a college education, I know it is unreasonable.

? Therefore, work must be done, and everyone has the responsibility and obligation to use their own labor to get what they need in life. There is no doubt about it. But also actively looking for the right one, so as not to be too passive to accept jobs that you don't particularly like.

? So what kind of life should I live? Labor is necessary, enrichment is necessary, and happiness should be pursued.

? So what kind of labor should we engage in?

? Do a job that has a certain contribution to society, even if it is just a screw, and stick to your post seriously when the machine is running. The salary may not be high, but meet the needs of your life. We should develop ourselves and give ourselves opportunities to find or create such jobs.

? How to enrich yourself? Where to pursue your dreams?

? Everyone has his own unique interests: acting, singing, writing, drawing, keeping dogs, licking cats, studying plants, public welfare activities and reading. ......

? We can pick up what we once loved but couldn't do as work after work. Nowadays, with the development of society, you must have time to do what you really like as long as you are willing, without violating the law and morality. The construction of Internet has provided us with an unprecedented platform. If you like it, do it. You don't need to consider whether you are successful or not, because this is what you like!

? Let the family live in harmony and abide by social morality, which is what we should do.

? How to pursue happiness?

? Does happiness have to be rich? In the long history, it seems that the truly happy people are not rich. Zhuangzi, who often borrows food, dreams of butterflies when he is hungry and talks about swimming on the bridge, which is undoubtedly true happiness. On the contrary, the emperor's market sitting on the top of the world is sad and fearful.

? The cost of pursuing happiness is not high. You can have an outing with three or five friends, sit around and play a game of the glory of the king, and sit in the park and chat with your beloved. ......

? We are full of prosperity and rich materials. We can rely on our own labor to meet our basic needs, and we still have the opportunity to pursue our ambitions. That should be enough.

? We don't have to bear the burden of shame.

? Faced with medical care, education and real estate problems, we may be at a loss. But this has long been a social problem, and we should not follow the trend, but actively deal with it.

? With the development of medical security and social welfare, medical problems are being solved. What's more, high-intensity work has no effect on inhibiting diseases. On the contrary, it may lead to irregular life and even illness because of excessive work pressure or intensity. What we can do is to maintain a healthy lifestyle and reduce possible diseases, instead of worrying about preventing diseases that have not yet arrived.

? Regarding education, I always think that parents' influence on children is very important. How to set a good example and give children proper companionship is what we should do.

? The house problem is nothing more than our own interference. Most people don't have houses, but they don't have houses in big cities! If you live in a small town, it is not too difficult to own a house. If you live in a big city, why do you have to own your own house? If you work hard outside, obviously renting a house can save the cost of living. If you want to wander, the house doesn't matter.

? Although the development of society makes us at a loss, it also gives us the confidence we deserve. If we improve our ideas, we can enjoy ourselves and live a good life.

? Man is a habitual animal. I think people are eager for stability and don't want to wander around all the time. Have your own home in a city. Do what you can, spend time with your family and children, go for a walk in the park, play games and chat online. ......

? There is nothing wrong with an ordinary life.

? On the long road of life, we should walk slowly and steadily, sometimes picking a flower at will, feeling the beauty of life in the moonlight, and feeling the real happiness from the heart.