1400 What love should look like

This is the 1400th article of Han Helian

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Just write about the love in my heart that I have seen in the past two days They look like Qi Wei and Lee Seung-hyun. Let me briefly introduce these two people. Qi Wei made her debut as a singer in the 2006 Zhejiang Media Talent Show. Her parents divorced when she was 2 years old and she lives with her mother. She is from Chengdu and has since starred in "Xia You Daughter" and "Beautiful Scheming". There was a song "No. 18 on the Bund" with Yuan Chengjie that became very popular. The singer formed a CP with Yuan Chengjie and the couple never became popular, so they started to work in the film and television industry. During the break, they took a break and went home to be with their mother, which happened to be the time of the 2008 Wenchuan earthquake. , which gave her some different thoughts about life and death. Later, she fell in love with Lee Seung-hyun in a drama and got together.

Let’s talk about Lee Seung-hyun’s experience. He is a Korean-American. He went to South Korea to be a trainee at the age of 16 and debuted as a tank boy group. Later, he was impacted by TVXQ. The boy groups that followed him paid 1 billion yuan in 2006. Won (approximately RMB 6 million) left an economic company and came to China to develop. Later, he starred in many film and television dramas, such as Ming Xiaoxi's "There Will Be Angels to Love You for Me". I really don't remember watching it back then. Two years ago in 2016 After getting married, there were various reasons such as the Korean limit. After having a daughter, Lucky, he worked as a stay-at-home dad for six years. This year, he returned to the screen with "Brother Overcoming Troubles".

The above is just a foreshadowing. I was first attracted by some of Qi Wei’s sober remarks about the world. I like this kind of independent person who has his own thinking system to explain the world he looks at. As the saying goes, it is the three views. It just makes sense.

Because I like a person, I will keep getting to know him and read some of his comments and activities he participates in. Once I see it, I feel like I have found a treasure. That is the kind of relationship I want. .

Although Qi Wei seems to be quite a tomboy, she is actually thinking-oriented, while Lee Seung-hyun is a bit softer, because he is emotion-oriented. They can be themselves to the greatest extent in the relationship and maintain their own style while trusting each other.

They are not people who fall in love at first sight. Since both of their original families are divorced, they both long for a relationship that will not lead to divorce. They will consider each other and be very grateful for each other's efforts. I will also trust each other very much, and I will also be curious about what their initial run-in was like. What I see now is what they look like after six or seven years of experience. It is quite touching, and I am moved by the beauty.

I will see the interactions among the participants in the program, and I will watch more interviews. They each answer some in-depth questions to understand their thoughts and ideas. Qi Wei is a very independent woman with her own ideas. At critical moments, she will be able to encourage the other person in a comfortable way, and is very grateful and trusting to the other person.

And in one program, the married Qi Wei gave a very interesting and decent reply when she was released by Wang Sicong, which made me instantly become a fan of this empathetic woman who can still maintain herself.

I didn’t know much about Li Chengxuan until I saw Yi Lijing’s interview. I heard that in the first year of his six years as a stay-at-home dad, he would be depressed and lose weight because of his worthlessness. I am depressed and very honest about my feelings. Also, as the captain among the brothers who participated in the Overcoming Troubles, because he is very considerate of others, he did a lot of communication work in the process. I hope that every talented person in the team can be happier and understand. Their individual ideas were then put together, and it was amazing. And he also mentioned that in addition to a happy family, he also hopes that he can do what he wants to do and have something in this part of himself. He also said that being a full-time dad is just a stage in his life, which is very difficult in traditional Asian culture.

There was a scene that impressed me deeply. They were discussing life and death. Li Chengxuan said that he hoped he could leave first. Qi Wei said, let me leave first. I can’t handle so many things by myself, and then the two of them... Everyone started crying.

It’s because I’m happy every moment right now that I’m going to have this kind of discussion, even if I feel extremely uncomfortable just thinking about being separated from you at the end of my life.

This also reminds me of the same relationship between Irving Yaron and his wife. As we accompany each other through this life, which is neither long nor short, I have become myself, and you have become yourself, and We achieve mutual success, and we have the crystallization of love and grow into adults. This is probably what love still looks like.

Above all, enjoy every day.