How to educate naughty four-year-old children

First, don't run around bad students, sometimes even deliberately snubbing them.

Bad students don't become bad in a day. Before you, I don't know how many teachers broke their brains for him. Want to change him at once, it's really daydreaming. As for him, in the process of struggling with his teacher for many years, he is more experienced and more enjoyable every day, so he will make waves when he calms down for a few days. If you run around him, you will only be cheated by him. I met such a student. When I first took over the fifth grade, I was told to pay attention to him. I smiled. At the beginning of school, he and several other students cleaned the classroom hard. I praised several other students at the class meeting and didn't praise him. He's confused. In the past, the teacher praised him for doing good deeds. Why didn't he do it today? He looked at me, and I looked at him and pretended that nothing had happened. Some people may say that you should seize the opportunity to praise him for his positive work, hehe, in fact, I have long known that he is a carrot and stick guy, and your little praise doesn't work at all, so you might as well not praise him. I usually ignore him instead of praising him. When he was around, I talked and laughed with my classmates, but I didn't say a word to him. Must he sleep in class? Go to sleep. Didn't hand in your homework? Whatever. A little friction with my classmates? Criticize that classmate severely in front of the whole class, that is, don't criticize him, don't even mention his name or look at him. He himself felt my indifference to him, and everyone saw it. At this time, he can't fathom your temper, and may gradually become honest, or he may continue to challenge you. However, if he continues to challenge you, his arrogance will be much shorter first. You have won the first battle, and you will try to deal with him in the future.

Second, teach him a lesson by the strength of others (including parents)

Now some students are so hateful that they come to trouble every now and then. If you educate him, it is equivalent to scratching him, but you can't hit him. If you criticize him too much, he will go back and pick what is good for him, and his parents will come. You are very satisfied. Why bother? I met such a person. I know from the side that his father is a very rude person, and I am waiting for my chance. Finally, one day, the opportunity came. He didn't come to class one afternoon. When other teachers told me, I guessed that he might have gone to the Internet cafe. The later he comes home, the more afraid he is. He sleeps in the home of one of his best classmates at night. After two classes in the afternoon, I called his father and said his son didn't come to school. The teacher looked everywhere in the street, but couldn't find it. And said in a speculative tone that he would not be abducted by bad people? He also said that the world is hard to say. You have seen many such cases on TV. Come out and find it yourself Just don't mention that he may be at another classmate's house, let alone give him the phone number of that classmate's house. As a result, his father searched all relatives and friends' homes and all internet cafes on his motorcycle, and found it at 2-3 in the middle of the night. He was exhausted and angry. Ha, of course he can't find it! The next day, he came to school. As I estimated, he really slept at that classmate's house last night. Hehe, even if he runs away, you are not responsible. You didn't hit him or scold him. What is your duty? His father is here, too. Call him when you see him. I said stop fighting, but my feet didn't move a step. After that, he never dared to play truant again. Hehe, it was his father who hit him. No matter how he hits him, it's none of my business! However, this trick cannot be used often. If you really hit hard, you still have to go up and pull. It doesn't work when you meet educated parents. But then again, parents are educated and children are not so hateful.

Third, let small things escalate into big things, and then use the topic to play.

Some students are also very smart, and he can master a degree of doing bad things in class. Big things are no small things. Playing this today and playing that tomorrow will make you brain-dead. At this time, you should observe whether he has any weaknesses and what you can use. If you find something you can use, seize the opportunity immediately. When I first took over the fifth grade, there was a student, tall and big, who was always hitting people. I tried other methods, but none of them worked. Later, it was discovered that he was just another classmate in the class who dared not fight, because that classmate was also tall and burly. They had a fight in the fourth grade before, and he didn't take advantage of anything. He was a little flustered when he saw this classmate, but now he has ruled it out when he meets him. Hehe, here comes the opportunity.