What is it like to have a very messy relative?

What is it like to have a very messy relative? Let’s talk about my relative who is very messy, right?

I have a cousin who is very messy. When we see him, we always feel an unspeakable helplessness and disdain in our hearts.

He lives in the countryside, in the same village as my parents. He is the child of my father's cousin's family. Because they live near my home, my father and his cousin have a relatively good relationship and have always gotten along well. My father treated him as a close nephew, and we kept in touch with him during the holidays.

But when it comes to property, he can only get in but not get out, that is, he only goes to other people's houses to eat and take advantage, without taking any money out of himself. So we tolerated it.

But he quarreled with his mother, yelled, pushed his mother down, and was injured and hospitalized. This was intolerable to my father, who treated his cousin as a biological sister.

So I scolded him a few words, but unexpectedly he slapped the table with my father. This disgusted my father and he ignored him ever since.

That’s one thing and another.

My eldest brother opened a restaurant in the city. He took people to eat, and the total was 180 yuan. He said he didn't bring any money and he would go home to get the money and send it to him.

But later on, I stopped going to my eldest brother’s restaurant without mentioning money.

The eldest brother went to ask him for money, but either he couldn't find anyone, or he asked for another day.

Later, my father said, forget it! Don't pay attention to him anymore. My father still remembers his cousin, and even though he is older, he doesn’t tell her about it.

After that, our whole family was annoyed with this cousin and felt that he was nothing. But because of my father, I gave up.