My relatives gave my child a red envelope of 600 yuan. There are four children in his family. What should I do?

Relatives give each other red envelopes, which almost every family can meet. If it is really a close relative, don't care too much. After all, "the meat is rotten in the pot" and the money is still in their own hands. A relative gives your child 600 yuan, and the other has four children. It's really bad to give them 600 yuan. It's too ugly.

But 600 yuan for each of the four children of relatives is 2400 yuan, which is a bit too much, and it really makes me unhappy.

Let's talk about your relatives' work first, and there are some doubts. Because he has four children, he offered to pay first. What do you want others to do? Why not give all the children 600 yuan? A * *, do you want 2400 yuan? This makes both sides very embarrassed and embarrassed, and this practice of relatives will also make people feel that their motives are impure.

I think 600 yuan can be given to each child and 2400 yuan for four children this year, which is also a return of human kindness. If you lose money, you can lose money. One year after you give red envelopes to your relatives and children, you can clearly tell your relatives that everyone has children and then don't give them to each other. It's boring to give each other gifts.

In addition, there are four children's relatives in this family. To be honest, they should not give red envelopes on their own initiative. I don't know if there is a reason for this. If so, you can give him a gift this time and don't associate with him next time.

Let's talk about how to deal with the red envelopes that my family gave to children in the New Year.

My sisters also have children. I had two nephews before my children were born. I had already taken part in the work. When the first nephew and the second nephew were born, I gave them a gift of 1000 yuan.

After that, I will give my two nephews 500 yuan lucky money every New Year, five years to my eldest nephew and three years to my second nephew.

Later, after my son was born, my two sisters gave my son a gift of 2000 yuan, which was more than double the gift I gave their children at the beginning. We don't care much about each other. The more we give, the less we give.

As children grow up, giving them lucky money every year has become a reserved program, which is also the happiest time for children. We usually give each other's children first, and then give them 200 yuan in return, or double it.

It was really boring to come back and forth every year. Moreover, the one who takes out the lucky money first seems to be suspected of taking advantage, because the first one takes out the lucky money, and others can't return it intact, right?

Second, the sisters stopped giving each other red envelopes after consultation.

Everyone has children, and it's really bad to give them the past, so we just don't give it to anyone.

After consultation, everyone agreed not to give each other red envelopes during the New Year, and everyone felt a lot easier, because they always felt that the first person to give red envelopes to each other's children was suspected of taking advantage, which was a bit embarrassing.

After that, we really didn't give each other much money

Although people no longer give children lucky money, adults are also relaxed, but it also reduces children's expectations for red envelopes and reduces the festive atmosphere of the New Year.

Until the youngest sister had a child, everyone gave red envelopes ranging from several thousand yuan. Because there is a big age gap between my sister and us, we all love me, love my dog, and her children are particularly favored in our family.

Since the birth of the child, several of us have celebrated the child's birthday and Spring Festival every year. We all gave him a red envelope, usually 600 yuan, and explicitly told her not to return it. This seems to be an unwritten agreement in our family.

This agreement has lasted until now. Now I give my nephew a red envelope from 660 yuan on his birthday every year, and then a red envelope from 660 yuan during the Spring Festival. Miss Sister has accepted the red envelopes given to her children by her sisters with peace of mind, and everyone doesn't feel anything wrong.

Third, in my husband's family, my children are the youngest and most favored in his family.

My children are the youngest in the next generation of my husband's family, and they are also the favorite of grandparents. They go back once a year, during the Spring Festival. So when they go home for the New Year, their elders always give him red envelopes, and we usually give them less. Every year, my son receives a lot of red envelopes during the Spring Festival, and sometimes when he returns to my mother's house, his grandparents will make fun of him. How many red envelopes did he receive this year?

My son will proudly show off to his cousin how many red envelopes he has received. The biggest red envelope, of course, was quietly given by grandpa.

Now, my son goes back less and receives less red envelopes. In addition, he always feels embarrassed to accept other people's red envelopes. Family ties are also mutual. After all, it takes a long time to give and take.

Summary:

It is indeed a celebration for relatives to give red envelopes to their children during the Spring Festival. I remember when we were young, red envelopes were all in their twenties. Are they as big as they are now?

Therefore, when meeting relatives with many children at home, it is really difficult to return gifts and it is also suspected of taking advantage of them. If this kind of relative gives money for the first time, you can generously return it to him, and there is no point in agreeing not to pay it back the next year.

If he still insists on giving your child a red envelope the next year, then refuse. Relatives can't always be honest with each other, and always suffering will also affect the communication between relatives.