Juanzi, talk about it.

Lead: When two people, two of the same kind, come together, they virtually bind the two families together. Isn't there a saying that "if you love her, you must love her family", but in real life? Some things are not as easy to handle as the book says.

I am from the countryside, my hometown is in the mountainous area, and I am very poor. After failing in the college entrance examination, I went to Shanghai and worked as a salesman in a company. Maybe I work harder than others, or maybe my luck turns. In my second year in the company, I signed several big orders in succession, and my life has changed since then.

It was at this time that I met Juanzi by chance. Juanzi looks pure and lovely. The most important thing is that I find her very considerate. We are fellow villagers, but the difference is that her family lives in a town in the fringe of urban and rural areas.

Juanzi and I have been in love for two years in Shanghai, and we think we are both suitable for each other, so we go home together, ready to let our families meet, and then discuss marriage.

My parents are honest people. I am naturally happy to hear that I will take them to see my in-laws. I prepared many local products and bought many gifts for my future parents-in-law in the city.

The first time we met and sat down, the two sides chatted happily, but when Juanzi's parents knew that my hometown was in such a poor place, the color on my face suddenly changed.

Juanzi's father is a man after all. Although his face was unhappy, he didn't speak. But Juanzi's mother got angry on the spot. She scolded Juanzi: "You dead girl, tell me in advance that Bing Wang lives in such a poor place that we don't need to see this side today."

"mom! Wang Bing is very capable. We are going to buy a house in the city in the future, so don't be picky in this respect. " Juanzi adamant4, quarreled with his mother on the spot.

Just then, a young man with yellow hair came in. He said loudly, "Since my sister agreed to this and said that this person has the ability, I will give you a bride price of 150,000 first."

"Liu! You are too dark! All the money earned by working these years has been given to my family, and the highest bride price in our town is100000. Why do you want 150 thousand? " Juanzi was furious.

I didn't expect Juanzi's father to talk at this time. He said something that made his son happy: "Cheng Xiao said that 15 is100000, not a penny less."

When my parents and I left our home in Juanzi, Juanzi sent us out in tears. She kept saying that she felt sorry for me.

Seeing that Juanzi was so embarrassed, I hired two middlemen the next day and sent a 15 yuan bride price to Juanzi's family. This time, Juanzi's father was very happy and promised to get married on National Day.

In order not to let Juanzi's family look down on me, I took out all the money I had accumulated in recent years, mortgaged a house in the county seat, simply tidied it up and prepared it as our wedding room.

As a result, the day before the wedding, Juanzi came to me with a bag. It turned out that her brother saw that I bought a house in the county and thought I was rich, so he encouraged his parents to add another 50 thousand bride price. This time, Juanzi didn't promise, turned against his family directly and ran away from home.

In this way, at Juanzi's insistence, our National Day wedding was held as usual, but his family really didn't come alone. I can't believe there are such cruel parents in the world.

Later, I heard from Juanzi that her parents preferred sons to daughters and spoiled her younger brother as a little ancestor in the family. Nine times out of ten, her brother made a mistake when her parents didn't come to her wedding.

Time flies. Juanzi and I saved some money in Shanghai and went back to our hometown to start a business. Unexpectedly, one day, Juanzi's parents came to my house with big bags and small bags.

It turns out that when my son got married, my daughter-in-law was particularly fierce. The young couple colluded and drove the old couple out. As soon as I heard it, I understood that they wanted their daughter to support the elderly.

After Juanzi understood what his parents meant, he cried and said, "You think of me now. When I got married, you not only didn't give me a penny as his dowry, but also gave all the bride price to your precious son. Since you are so weird, go ahead! Let your son give you a pension. "

Juanzi's parents have gone too far in this matter. Seeing their daughter say this, they felt guilty and walked to the door with their bags. I tried to catch up, but Juanzi called me back.

Raising children is to support the elderly. But the old man always has a flat bowl of water, and he will definitely not have the idea of favoring boys over girls. In fact, for the problem of providing for the aged, sons have the ability to support their sons. Daughters have the ability to support their daughters, which means that all children have the responsibility to support their parents.

Conclusion: Male chauvinism is harmful. Children are their own children and should be treated fairly. In dealing with children's marriage, we should keep pace with the times, the elderly should be democratic, and we should not interfere with children's freedom of marriage. After all, only the feet know whether the shoes fit or not.

Everyone said, can I still support the elderly like this?