10 years ago, I took my daughter out of the house. My ex-husband's father was seriously ill and asked me to take my children back to the ancestral home. Should I go back?

15 years ago, I met my ex-husband through a matchmaker. His ex-husband has a good family and is a big man. I liked him at the first sight. Before we got married, we got along for a year and had a good relationship. My ex-husband is cautious and knows how to take care of people. I felt particularly satisfied with him at that time. In the second year of marriage, I gave birth to my daughter. After having children, everything changed.

I didn't know how patriarchal my ex-husband's family was until I got married. Since I was pregnant, my husband has been yelling at my son, and my mother-in-law is beaming. She comes to touch my stomach every three to five times, which is also the cry of my great grandson. As a result, I gave birth to a daughter, which probably disappointed their family. But what about this? I like my daughter very much. I think she is a treasure given to me by God.

On the day of giving birth, my in-laws came to the hospital early in the morning to wait. But when I came out of the delivery room, everyone in my husband's family was gone. Only my parents and my sister were left in the ward, sighing. I thought only my in-laws preferred sons to daughters, but I didn't expect even my ex-husband didn't like his daughter. It's so disappointing. No one took care of me in the second month, and my mother took time to come and cook for me at work.

After the second month, my mother-in-law will give birth to a second child, so let me give her a grandson early. Oh, I'm so sorry about my intestines. If I had known that their family thought so, I wouldn't have married anything. When I went back to work after maternity leave, my mother-in-law said that she wouldn't help me with my children. She only said that there was nothing to bring with a girl. I have no choice but to send the children to my mother's house.

Although my mother-in-law and ex-husband have given birth to a second child many times, I am extremely determined inside. My daughter is unpopular, and I don't want her to grow up in such a living environment. When my child was two years old, I filed for divorce, but my ex-husband didn't agree. In this way, it dragged on for another two years, and my ex-husband found out that I was determined not to have a second child, and even hooked up with another woman outside, making that woman pregnant. This time, my ex-husband offered to divorce, and I immediately agreed.

My ex-husband married both the house and the car, so I left home clean. I took my daughter and rented a house near her kindergarten. Then I called my mother. Usually, she is responsible for sending the children to work. Since the divorce, the ex-husband has never given a penny of child support and has never visited his daughter once. It doesn't matter. I have hands and feet. I can work to make money. My daughter and I have a good life. The most important thing is that the daughter doesn't have to look at people's faces, and even has a cheerful personality.

Because my ex-husband didn't visit her daughter and didn't pay alimony, I changed her surname when the child was in primary school, and it has nothing to do with her ex-husband since then. The ex-husband doesn't care, because he and his current husband have given birth to a son, and the family is happy. Where do you remember this daughter?

It is not easy for a single mother to live with her children. Fortunately, my parents helped. My daughter is spoiled by her mother, and her grandparents and aunts are spoiled. I put my heart and soul into my work, and we don't lack anything other children have. When my daughter was in the third grade, I got a promotion and a raise, and my salary almost doubled. Many relatives and friends around me want to arrange a date for me, but I think our mother and I are doing well and don't want to find one for the time being.

In recent years, my career has been getting better and better. Now I put on clothes and shoes that I couldn't afford before, and enrolled my daughter in her favorite extracurricular interest class. I didn't even dare to think about these things before my divorce. I'm glad I got divorced, otherwise my daughter would still live a life of superiority and contempt in that home.

Time passed quickly, and my daughter graduated from junior high school in an instant. Think about it. My ex-husband and I have been divorced for ten years. Ten years is neither long nor short. My daughter may have forgotten what her real father looks like. I am very satisfied with the results of the senior high school entrance examination. My daughter passed the local key high school with excellent results. I asked for annual leave and took her out for a week as a reward.

On the weekend of the first week of school, I went to pick up my daughter from school and found a man standing in front of my house. My ex-husband after divorce. I went to see him once a few years ago because of the child, but I haven't seen him for about three or four years now.

My ex-husband came straight to the point and explained his purpose. He said that his father was very ill and was dying. I hope I can take my daughter to see him. After all, he is the child's grandfather. Also, the child's grandfather wants her to return to her ancestral home and wants me to change the child's surname back. I was angry. Isn't this interesting? After ten years of ignoring my mother, now I want my children to recognize their ancestors and return to their ancestors, and I have to ask them if they answer.

We divorced when our daughter was five years old. It seems that we haven't seen her father for ten years. I really find it ridiculous to make such a request at this time. I asked him, don't you have a son? What do you want with your daughter? The ex-husband said angrily, forget it, it's not my son at all. Married for five years, raised a son for others for five years. How sad!

After listening to his words, I actually gloated a little. I told my ex-husband that you should ask my daughter about this. Daughter 15 years old, has her own opinion. As a result, the ex-husband was rejected by his daughter as soon as he spoke. Finally, the ex-husband left a message, you can persuade your daughter again, and then leave in shame.

On the one hand, I think it's funny. On the other hand, I'm angry. The ex-husband is poor enough, but there must be something hateful about poor people, right?