The more you talk, the more excited you are! The most * * * desire "dirty words"

Many people have similar doubts that "doing things" is a bit boring, and they should say something but don't know what to say. Some people will refer to island love action movies, but they are afraid of learning mistakes. Indeed, how to say "dirty words" during sex is a very profound knowledge. It is natural to express feelings and desires, which can make both parties more happy mentally, and can also play the role of "adding fuel to the fire" and increasing sexual interest.

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Here's how to get started:

Be yourself

When a person thinks of swearing, he always thinks of what the other person might like to hear, so it is fake and feels like a performance. Not recommended. Don't force yourself to say uncomfortable things. The important thing is to be yourself and think for both sides.

Some people are usually quite gentle, but if you can completely release each other, maybe the bedroom will expose a wild element, strong and fierce. So being yourself is the real self in the bedroom, and accepting yourself frankly and exposing yourself is the beginning of a beautiful and pioneering attempt.

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It will be a little uncomfortable at first.

Everything is difficult at the beginning, and it is normal to feel awkward at first. Everyone has to go through this process. To master a skill skillfully, you have to practice everything. Don't give up easily.

practise

Tell yourself first! It sounds silly, but tell yourself that you can know what you accept, what words you can use and what words mean to you.

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Explore what is natural to you, what may make you laugh, and what will make you feel embarrassed during practice. What words are more acceptable to you, such as how to mention each other's * * or * * *? Do you like to go straight to the point or do you like to be slightly provocative? If you want to say something but don't know how to say it, try to find several ways to describe it and see which one is most acceptable to you.

If it's too embarrassing, start with * * *, heavy breathing and body language. Start with simple words, such as "go on, go on" and "so good". In short, try to let the other person know your feelings in time and interact.

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Tell TA

With the basic preparation, you can try to chat with TA. You can start with the communication after * * * and try to communicate what you like, such as "I like you jumping on me" and "I like you covering my eyes". Slowly, you can communicate and experience more openly.

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How to chat?

In the process of communication, language combined with concrete actions will be more effective. For example, hold TA's hand, put the other person's hand on a certain part of your body, let the other person start touching in a comfortable way, tell the other person that you like the other person's continuous movements (for example, the strength is just right), and then tell the other person what you want the other person to change (for example, slow down). Try to speak in a more specific way.

The content of the chat is mainly the part that you feel good at the moment, such as "I like kissing you like this". Saying what you feel good about will further enhance your feelings. It's like drinking beer, drinking silently, saying "it's really TM cool", and the latter will definitely come even cooler.

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Don't say anything.

Never ask "Are you there?"

Although * * * is very important, but * * * with * * as the sole goal hinders the process of two people really enjoying * * *, especially when the other party does not arrive at * * * smoothly, asking "Are you there" will add unnecessary pressure to the other party.

It is much better to ask a woman "what do you want me to do" than "you * * *". Even when you have questions in the process, such questions can make you go on happily without destroying the atmosphere.

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Never say anything hurtful.

If you don't like the other person doing this and that, or kissing you here and there, don't shout "disgusting" or anything like that, just tell the other person how much you like it. Sexual behavior is in great need of encouragement. Learn to encourage and guide. Criticism will only stifle each other's efforts, and you will want nothing in the future.

Does swearing look inferior?

If you like the word "wild" but are not sure what the other person thinks, you can tentatively ask the other person in advance, such as "I like your debauchery." Let the other party know that you are praising TA's sexiness, not belittling TA, and see if the other party can accept it gladly. The process of communication can also be full of pleasure.

Don't be afraid of trial and error at first, and don't be afraid of the other person laughing at you. Don't worry, normal people will only be excited about your open mind and exploration. If the other person doesn't want to try anything, just want to sulk, then be careful, boring sex life is waiting for you silently ahead!

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