I'm just saying

Your husband is a bit blx. You subconsciously have the idea of comparing with others, but you just don't know.

Living at home always hopes to be better than others. This is all normal. But smart people usually just think about it and don't say it. And once you say it, people who listen will always have ideas. Because you have to live alone. Good or bad, only you know. Say that others are good or not, but also take yourself as the standard. Who wouldn't have an idea?

Your husband has this idea. It shouldn't be the first time you said he had done this. Maybe he didn't react until you said it many times. Actually, as far as your husband is concerned, there is no need to react too violently. Lesbians' nagging is normal. But as the pillar of the family, a man's happy life is tied to him, and the happiness of your family is inseparable from his ability. Of course he will have an idea if you say so.

But as yourself, although you have no other meaning, you are always expressing an idea. In his view that he loves you, he feels a little guilty for not giving you the day you want. But it may not meet your requirements immediately. This is the reason why he is bored. You should put yourself in his shoes.

Actually, it's no big deal. You can have a frank talk with your husband. Let's talk about it When the misunderstanding is clarified, there will be nothing.

I wish you happiness!