What does the colleague mean by "why don't I send you"?

Brothers, when I was young, my mother told us "Don't talk to strangers". Now, I want to tell you, "Don't let colleagues of the opposite sex get on the bus alone". If it's the same sex, hahaha, please feel free.

As an "experienced person" with the same experience, I want to remind you that you'd better think twice before you act in such a situation. Because I once caused myself some unnecessary trouble because of this sentence.

I once worked overtime in the company and was planning to go home. I met a female colleague in another department of the company in the elevator. I've met several times before because of my work, but I'm not familiar with them. After a brief chat, I realized that she lived not far from my home, and it was also because it was dark, so I offered to take you home by the way, and she didn't refuse.

Originally, I thought it was a very common thing, and I didn't mention it to my girlfriend when I went home. But when she was going to send her girlfriend to work the next morning, she smelled the perfume left by her female colleague the day before as soon as she got on the bus. So a "world war" broke out without warning. I explained the whole story to my girlfriend, but she still cared. So from then on, I stopped sending my colleagues home.

When a colleague asks "why don't I send you", it usually means two things. On the one hand, it is a gentleman's gift, on the other hand, it does not rule out that he really wants to send you home because he is worried about your safety.

At this time, you should decide whether to get on his car according to the familiarity between yourself and your colleagues. If you have a good relationship at ordinary times, you can accept your colleague's proposal.

But if the relationship is normal, then it's best not to get in his car, because it will easily lead to misunderstanding and make your relationship with your colleagues awkward.