What can make boys jealous? Why aren't men jealous?

There are many behaviors that cause a boy to be jealous, which shows that this boy cares about you very much. There are many small desires in a boy's heart that are generally not shown, and boys don't like to show them, but you can feel that he is jealous from his expression and words.

What makes boys jealous?

1, it takes a long time to reply to your message, but I reply to other boys every second.

Do everything possible to give you a cold treatment and pretend you don't care at all.

Praise other boys for their good character and good looks in front of you.

4. flirt with other boys in front of you. If you get too close to other boys, boys will be jealous.

5. When talking about Weibo @ someone else, as long as that person is a boy. Boys will be jealous.

6. When a more handsome boy accosts you. Boys will feel insecure and jealous.

7. No matter who you chat with, as long as it is a man, you will be unhappy and deliberately say "Oh, chat for a while, I'm leaving". Actually, I hope you ignore other boys and just talk to him.

8. See if you don't refuse the kindness of other boys, and others need contact information. If it is really given, boys will be jealous and even angry.

9. If you don't delete the boy who confessed to you, keep your ex-boyfriend and praise him, the boy will be jealous.

10, boys will be jealous when they are happy with their friends, but they have no intention of snubbing him.

1 1. Knowing that you are chatting with others at the same time makes you jealous.

12, watching others accompany you and do what you want will make you jealous.

13, when you worry that you are not good enough to be inferior to the people around you, you will be jealous.

But in fact, if a boy really loves you, your behavior will cause his mood to change. Love is actually possession, and we have been labeled as exclusive to each other. The jealous behavior of men is mostly subtle, but it is different from the past.

Why don't men show jealousy?

Although it is common for boys to be jealous, some boys are unwilling to admit that they are jealous. On the surface, they still have to pretend that they don't care, or even ignore you, showing special indifference. In fact, this just reveals that you already exist in his heart, but he doesn't want you to gain insight into his psychology. Jealousy is mostly due to lack of security and self-confidence, especially when there is a stronger competitor in front of you. For self-protection, in his opinion, the easiest way is to separate competitors from the women they like. Therefore, men who are usually gentle sometimes show unreasonable rude behavior. Jealousy between men and women represents the same meaning, but it is different because of gender differences. Seeing a man jealous, a naive girl had better whisper, and the fire in a man's heart will naturally disappear.

How do boys show jealousy?

1, you two have a good chat!

It is inexplicable for a boy to be jealous, because you don't know why he is moping there, especially when you are chatting with other boys. He will pass you by pretending not to care and secretly scan your mobile phone screen. If you ignore him for a while, he will get angry alone. When you finish talking and get close to him, he will coldly say to you, "What a pleasant chat just now!" "

2, don't talk, but also coax

Most boys are naturally quiet and don't like to talk, especially when they are jealous. They really don't say a word. If you ask him, he will say, "I'm fine. Go about your business!" " This is obviously a sign of jealousy. At this time, all you have to do is say something nice to coax him. Although he is still indifferent on the surface, his heart has long been happy. You should let him know that he is the most important thing in your heart.

3. When will you go home?

I don't know if you have this experience. If you go out for dinner with your best friend or something, he will tell you not to stay up too late and go home early. I'll tell him to pick you up when I come back. But if the opposite sex exists, especially if it has a slightly better relationship with you, he will be very concerned and keep asking what you are doing. When will you go home? Why don't you come home so late? At this time, he is like an old lady, which shows that he is jealous besides worrying about you. He wants you to take him with you when you go out, but he is too embarrassed to tell you.

4. You go! I'm fine.

The biggest lie in feelings is "I'm fine", and nothing is the biggest. Whether it is a boy or a girl, when he says this sentence, it proves that he really cares and takes it to heart. Girls go out, even if boys know that nothing will happen, I hope girls can keep in touch with themselves at all times. Sometimes that's what boys do. Asking or not asking is my own business, and it's your fault not to tell me. Sometimes jealous boys are unreasonable and need to care and coax like children, but at this time boys also show their lovely side. There are many manifestations of jealousy among boys. Although it is not easy to detect, you can find certain rules after getting along for a long time. They won't cry and hang themselves, but they are also very uncomfortable when they are cold to you. So if you have a jealous boyfriend, life will be full of fun. Jealousy proves that he has you in his heart, and you are very important.

5. Sudden silence.

One second, I may still be smiling at you, and the next, I immediately become cold, cold, silent and unwilling to talk. Even in the face of your active inquiry, I love to ignore it, even ignore it directly. I either sit quietly and play with my mobile phone alone, or I don't know what I'm looking at in the distance, but I can clearly see the anger in his eyes.

6. There are thorns when you open your mouth.

Speaking with thorns or direct ridicule is the most typical feature of men's jealousy. For example, a man often says, "You had a good chat with XX! You can still remember me! What am I! " When a man has a similar tone, a woman will understand that he is expressing his dissatisfaction and venting his dissatisfaction with you. Once you say that he is narrow-minded, it will definitely be the fuse of your quarrel.

7. Get your attention on purpose.

Deliberately attract your attention through some behavior or some radical words. Generally, men have this kind of performance because women can't see men's jealousy, so they will deliberately cause it. For example, when they put a glass of water, they don't take it lightly as before, but now they just throw it casually, even if it is broken, for example, they speak loudly and say something unpleasant.

8. Don't talk directly.

When a man is jealous, there is only one emotion, that is, he is angry and habitually looks at you coldly. He doesn't talk to you any more, just like a mute. No matter how a woman asks questions, a man just doesn't say anything, even his eyes. When he stares at you seriously, a woman will understand. At this time, he must have fallen into jealousy.

9. Give you a cold war and express his dissatisfaction.

Men who are jealous will sulk, and will exaggerate such emotions and ignore you in action. During the cold war with you, he was like a child. He clearly wants something, but he is embarrassed to say it to his face. He obviously cares about you, but he pretends it's none of his business and doesn't care about you because of jealousy. He is so naive, but he really loves you!

10, let you constantly praise him and seek your approval.

Men have a strong competitive spirit in all aspects, especially in feelings. When you praise other men in front of him, or because other men ignore his existence, this competitive spirit will arise. At this time, he will haunt you, let you praise him constantly, and let you list his advantages. Maybe you will think he is so silly and naive, but you have to understand that if it weren't for jealousy, men wouldn't behave so silly.

1 1, deliberately speaking to annoy you, trying to get your attention.

Only the woman he loves can make a man jealous. When a man is jealous, you should reflect on whether he has neglected his feelings somewhere. Because you ignore his feelings, men will deliberately speak to annoy you. In fact, he didn't mean to make you angry, he just didn't know how to get your attention. Therefore, women should understand that when men are jealous, they will make such stupid moves.

12, ignore you for a while, pester you for a while, and start to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss.

Jealous men can become as unpredictable as women. He may be angry and ignore you because of jealousy, or he may pester you for fear of losing you. In fact, it is not his intention to be cold and hot to you. He just wants you to know that he is jealous of you, and he is angry, but he can't bear to leave you out. Therefore, he will ignore you for a while and pester you for a while.

13, force a smile and pretend to be strong in front of you.

Men always try to be brave and don't want to admit it even if they are jealous. Sometimes even if you ask him if he is jealous, he will smile and pretend not to care. In fact, the performance of men is really cute. When they are obviously jealous, they still try to be brave and say they don't care. Women must cherish such a silly man. If it weren't for loving you, men wouldn't do this.

How men behave when they are jealous.

1, divert attention

A man is jealous, usually because you give his attention to others, so when he is jealous, the subconscious performance is to divert your attention and prevent you from paying attention to others. When you are too focused on someone or something, a man suddenly interrupts you and diverts your attention. This is when he is jealous. You have to understand that a man is possessive of the person he loves, and he wants to occupy all your attention. So when other men appear in front of you, he will be very anxious and busy doing something to attract your attention in front of you to divert your attention.

2. deliberately imitate the person who makes him jealous

Imitating this behavior is when you praise others. For example, if you see a handsome guy playing guitar and you show a little interest, he may appear in front of you later and ask you, "Are you handsome?" . This lovely performance is actually a reflection of his jealousy towards you. He wants to be the best and omnipotent in your eyes. He is willing to study for you in any way you like.

3, in front of you, love to show more than usual.

When a person eats the wrong food, he will become a little proud. He will think that you always pay attention to others because he is not good enough, so he will become particularly expressive in front of you. He wants you to see his Excellence, and then put all your attention on him, only him. Therefore, men suddenly become showy and must be jealous. He walks around you all day, showing you everything he used to disdain to do. He wants you to see only him.

4. Suddenly unhappy

In fact, not only a woman's heart is a needle in the sea, but also a man's heart is sometimes difficult to understand. So many times, men's jealousy is beyond women's understanding. They will also rain in Mao Mao for a second, and then suddenly they are unhappy. At this time, he must be jealous of something You have to understand that men are not as sensitive and delicate as women. He is suddenly unhappy because he is jealous of something or someone.

5, suddenly melodramatic

When a man is jealous, he suddenly becomes melodramatic. The discomfort here and the dissatisfaction there are actually his efforts to get your attention and care. He wants to see your eyes full of affection and be caring and attentive to him. So, if you suddenly find that your man has become a spoiled brat, he must be jealous. In fact, at this time, you should not be too flustered, too anxious, just coax him more, just like he did when you were jealous and lost your temper.

6. pretend to ignore you

Often "jealous" men are more naive and want to get your attention in one way or another. Sometimes he will pretend to ignore you, wait for you to find out, and then tell his little grievances by the way!

7. Deliberately chatting with other women in front of you.

When your man sees that you are close to another man and talking in full swing, there is a fire in his heart and he can't show it. He will deal with a man as he deals with you, and get close to other women in front of you. Hehe, there is only one purpose, that is, to get back at you and let you taste that unpleasant feeling!

8. I have given you trouble for no reason.

Jealous people are naive. Sometimes he may just want you to know his mood and show his mentality and thoughts, so he will do some childish things. For example, I gave you trouble for no reason, but he behaved like this for a simple reason: he was jealous!

9. Say bad words to stimulate you.

Some men are jealous and will say some ugly things to stimulate you. For example, he would say, "You had a good time. There was a big meal last night. Why not continue to play today! " Deliberately saying inexplicable things to annoy you is actually jealousy, because I am nervous about you and care about you, afraid that you will be taken away!

10, satirizing while reading your chat record.

If you talk to a colleague and friend normally, even if you don't talk at all, he just doesn't like it. Otherwise, you're robbing your mobile phone, or you're watching what you're talking about, or you're even watching the chat log and being sarcastic. For example, when does the other party say to eat! He can say, oh, make an appointment for dinner! I didn't know what food was so delicious, so I asked you out! But in fact, I just don't want you to get close to others, so I am jealous! Ha ha!

1 1, language

When boys treat their favorite girls, they usually show their gentlest side, and even make people feel warm in words. But when a man starts to be jealous, he will start to treat you badly, as if he were a different person. In fact, this is that men are jealous of you, and it is usually very obvious when men are jealous of women. This is a deliberate act to show girls.

12, action

When a boy likes you, he will often send you messages and often deliberately find reasons to ask you out to play, creating opportunities for two people to be alone. If one day a boy sees you chatting or having fun with friends of the opposite sex, he will become inexplicably depressed, and will not take the initiative to talk to you at first, or even ignore your invitation. This is the most obvious manifestation of boys' jealousy.

13, expression

Many psychologists have said that expression is the least deceptive thing for a person. When a person is lying and angry from the heart, there will be some micro-expressions that can be easily caught. So do jealous men. If a man is jealous, he will show an extremely indifferent expression to you and even pretend to ignore your greetings. This is a sign of men's jealousy.