I can say that it’s true, but I can’t say that it’s unreasonable.

I can say that it is true, but I cannot say that it is unreasonable.

At the beginning of last year, I saw this sentence, and I thought, is there anyone who can say what he says and what he says makes sense? Even those so-called sages and so-called great men, not everything they say makes sense.

I often see this sentence on the Internet, you must learn Chinese well to speak. If you learn Chinese well, you can speak well, right? Probably not. There are also many top students and many people who are good at writing articles but are not good at communicating with others.

However, in reality, there are indeed people who make sense. For example, our elders, I think what our elders say is very reasonable. Why is this so? I think it’s because our elders love us, tolerate us, and always want us to become strong and grow up. It is precisely because of their mentality that we can easily accept what they say and are willing to accept it, and we feel that what they say is right and makes sense.

It should be certain that people who make people dislike them when they speak are more or less selfish. Selfishness is an obstacle to building people up.

It can be seen that if you think about others, what you say will be easily accepted by others. As for a selfish person, no matter how beautiful his words are, others will doubt them and not believe them.

Therefore, it is important to be able to speak, and what you say is also important, but more importantly, you must have a heart that is tolerant of people and helpful to others, and able to help others.

It should be certain that people who make people dislike them when they speak are more or less selfish. Selfishness is an obstacle to building people up.