How do mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along? What about her daughter-in-law?

Everyone says that every family has its own problems, which is true. Now I will talk about my mother-in-law with a very calm mind.

With such a delicate relationship, what is the difference between treating a daughter-in-law and her own daughter? How did my husband handle it? I

How did my mother educate me? What kind of role is sister-in-law at home? I was angry at that time, but now

I don't hate all this, because my husband, like a wise man, told a truth that I think is fair, that is, "you are not."

She was born, didn't raise her, didn't live with them, and they didn't know your family life background and habits.

Habit, temper, personality, for her, you are a stranger, how can you let them treat you as their own child?

Like what? It takes a long time to get along. "I am fully aware that this is normal. As the saying goes:

Don't wash your dirty clothes in public. From then on, I think this is not an open domestic scandal, but a common occurrence.

The following things can be compared, what's the difference:

1) eat

My mother-in-law said: Daughter, I have arranged a lot of dinners on Saturday and Sunday, and there are many fruits you like to eat.

Yes When you live alone, you always make do with it. I was so worried. If you get married, I don't want to. Do you need me for a week?

6. Stay with you on Sunday and prepare food for you for a week. For what? Have a good rest after supper. I have prepared the bath water.

Yes

Sister-in-law said: delicious, thank you mom! Sometimes I say, why do you always do those things? Very annoying. Mother-in-law asked: You

What do you want to eat? Eat, I'll make it for you next time. I dare not say this, and I won't say it, I'm afraid of the result! )

Husband said: I cooked so many delicious foods today!

The daughter-in-law said. . . . . .

My mother: Daughter, have you received the food you like from my client in my hometown?

2) housework

Mother-in-law said: there is no need to hire hourly workers. Do it yourself If you hire someone, I will leave. My daughter is alone.

People live by themselves and do housework, you are so delicate!

Sister-in-law said: Mom, I am so tired! I want to ask someone to help me do it.

Daughter-in-law said: I also go to work every day! I have done so much housework by myself! Only my husband is heartbroken! )

Husband said: Wife, are you still busy? If you are not tired, clean up tomorrow.

My mother: Daughter, do you need a nanny now? I saw a 14-year-old girl at home who didn't go to school.

Work is ok, the salary is only 360.

3) Buy clothes

Mother-in-law said: daughter, buy more beautiful clothes while you are young and spend some money on beauty! (to the daughter-in-law:

A family should scrimp and save, don't waste too much, it's a mother's child, just have a few clothes,

I can't live. What will I do in the future? If you are beautiful, you can wear anything! Don't buy the same clothes as my daughter.

Take it.

I'm only thirty! )

My sister-in-law said, mom, I don't like these. They are still new. Here you are.

Daughter-in-law says: Husband, does this dress look good?

Husband said: not bad, my wife looks good in anything.

My mother: Daughter, you should save and learn to live. You have a family now, unlike before.

4) make money

My mother-in-law said: XX's daughter-in-law can make money! I go to XXXX every month, and now my son is at home to support his family. It's too hard! I

My daughter also earns a lot of money a month. She is good at everything, beautiful and rich, except for a boyfriend.

It doesn't matter, she has good conditions and wants to find a better one!

Sister-in-law said: How are you now? Business is good! Isn't it great that you used to work for others? How difficult it is now! all

Want to be your own boss. Look how much I earn every month now!

Daughter-in-law said: (to herself) I also have money to come back every month. Although I don't earn as much as my sister-in-law, I can still support myself.

himself

Husband said: Wife, you can go to work if you want, and stay at home with your son if you don't want to go to work. It costs hundreds to hire a nanny.

Yuan, my son hasn't brought it yet. I can't teach him anything, and cooking is not delicious!

My mother: Daughter, have you worked hard? Go home early from work, take care of your son, and don't have an accident.

No matter how much money you earn, you are strong.

5) Attitude towards family members

Mother-in-law said: Your mother has nothing to do at home and doesn't come to help with the children. I'm exhausted! I feel sick all over. Last time she was here.

After staying for a month, she left without doing anything (she went back to her parents' house at that time and said what the nanny said when she came back, like a guest)

My custom there is that you can't inquire about your daughter's family unless she has no in-laws.

You can take care of the children, or you will be laughed at. Living in my daughter's house, I can't cook by myself and worry about others.

Say you are delicious. But she doesn't need anyone to take care of her. At that time, there was a nanny at home who cleaned the house herself.

Occasionally, do your own laundry. The nanny also wants to see the baby when cooking. The nanny may want to show how much she has done,

Such nonsense. Tell everyone that having a nanny at home is also a lot of right and wrong. )

Sister-in-law said: When your mother came, you cooked so many delicious foods (I remember clearly when you bought a chicken/duck).

Chu), you care so much about your brothers and sisters that you should take everything to heart. How filial you are to your mother when she comes! Yes, my family.

Too bad. She talked and talked, sometimes angry, sometimes red-eyed.

Daughter-in-law said: Mom, I haven't called you for a long time. Are you okay? Business is not very good this year, so I will celebrate the New Year.

Only send 300 yuan to you. When business is good next year, I will send more. Besides, my brother was very anxious when he came to my house last time.

I left after I was busy, and I didn't eat. He's too busy! How are the two sisters' homes? Did you get 200 yuan's birthday present from me?

Don't earn less. You know, I spend a lot of money every month now. Write or call if you need anything.

Husband said: elder sister, don't talk nonsense! How could my wife treat you badly? Tell me, how many times a week do you come? Which time?

Not that she's doing well. Do you eat ready-made food? Is it right to be polite to her family, because she belongs to her family, her family?

Here we are. It's a guest Like my mother used to earn more than 40 a month and send 20 home to grandma. Gifts are still given during the Spring Festival.

Pin, it's the same Is it grand for my uncle to come? Her mother works at home and is in poor health. Her own grandson

She didn't bring anything. Can she take her nephew? Her brother hasn't come once in a long time. What's wrong with cooking more? Give it to him.

My heart is normal, too Don't you care about me? Feelings are the same. If you and mom can save lives, you

Children should help and receive guests together. When they come, you are like a guest. She's the only one who's busy, and you say she is.

How to get along with others when you are married? Worried about you!

My mother: Daughter, don't send money. You are spending so much now, and I am not short of money. You want to make your home safe.

Line up, don't waste money, now you know it's not easy to live in the house. As long as you live well, I'm relieved! There are so many at home now.

I can't take any of your brother's children. I can't help it I'm not well either. In case I can't come to your house.

Things, but also you to take care of me! You'd better work harder yourself. Your mother-in-law is in poor health. You can't let her do it.

If you eat too much and are exhausted, you will work harder. You should be polite to her, leave a word on your lips, and never contradict her.

Mouth, people will say that you have no tutor. If you don't have a good relationship with them, I'm embarrassed to see you, and so am I.

I will be there. You should get along well with your sister-in-law, don't haggle over every ounce. She is still a girl at home now, and it is right to enjoy herself.

Only people will die of illness, and no one will be exhausted. Sometimes she speaks harshly, and you pretend not to hear, you know, no one will.

Say you are deaf. You and your brother are so close, you should contact more and walk more when you have time. His brother doesn't pay attention to eating and drinking,

Don't worry about it. How is your relationship? Don't play with your temper. He is good to you, and you should be better to him.

Well, he is an honest man with a good heart and a good family. You should take care of him more. He has a lot of things to do, so you should help him if possible.

He, a man of his own mind. Don't talk if you don't understand. If you have time, you should read more books and articles.

It's no use studying in a junior college in Shenzhen. You should study more. How is the baby? Be careful and patient with children.

Be careful, don't beat and scold, he is too young to know anything. But you can't charm him. You never played when you were a kid. OK,

Stop it, you're bored again. All right, hang up. If you need anything, call back. Remember to call back!

6) Take care of children

My mother-in-law said: I have raised you all and have to take care of your next generation. The nanny I hired is not good at all, and it costs so much money keep

I'm exhausted. His grandmother is too comfortable to take care of the children. Look at other people's homes. Grandma is taking care of them. I have to do so many things every day

Treat me like a big momma, and I won't have to pay. Tell the baby that if you don't listen to me, you will leave and ask your mother for insurance.

Timothy The baby cried and she began to feel heartache. ) You can only have one baby. If you have another child, I can say it first. I

It's okay. It's so annoying that I can't even go out to play. It is a burden! Watching other people's grandmothers struggle to take care of their children, so I just

Not so lucky. It's still up to me, but my grandson is so cute! Daughter! You want to get married while mom is still moving.

I can still take care of the children.

Sister-in-law said: You must find a good nanny quickly, your mother is exhausted! Raised his father and took care of your next generation. baby

Why didn't grandma bring it? She doesn't hold babies, but she can hold your brother's baby! It is natural for grandma to take care of her grandson.

Things. She just likes it. Look how tired my mother is! I sometimes get red-eyed when I talk.

Daughter-in-law said: mother-in-law, do you want to hire another nanny? Look, you work hard every day. How about hiring an hourly worker? (grandma)

Say: You hire someone, and I'll leave. I don't get along well with the nanny and get angry every day. The baby is almost three years old, and you will at night.

Is there anything else besides taking him to bed? I did it all, didn't I? Save some money!

Husband said: Wife, why don't you hire a nanny? I think you are too tired. My mother also talks about hard work and me every day.

I've had enough! (To mother-in-law: Mom, please hire a nanny. Don't be too tired, the mother said it was hard. Popohui

What did she do? What did she do besides taking the baby to bed at night? I did it all, didn't I? Save some money! You take it.

Everything was settled for a nanny. This is the same thing. This makes my weather very bad. When you and your sister and I

How difficult it is to take care of everyone . . . . . .

My mother: daughter, take care of the children. Pay more attention, I brought up all four of you, and one is more important.

Take it! How comfortable you are to have your mother-in-law to help you now!

My son caught a cold.

Mother-in-law said: it is you who turn on the air conditioner every night and make the child like this! I don't care. (After taking the child to the doctor,

After taking medicine and injections, I'm almost better. According to the doctor's instructions, I have to take the medicine for another day or two. But her grandmother said, I am here.

After so many years in the hospital, I don't know that injections and medicines are not good, and they all have side effects. It's true, but the baby's cough

It will take several months. She added: You didn't take good care of it at night, and it happened again and again. (If sometimes children

They took it out to play, and the child got sick the next day. Here's the thing: the incubation period of a cold is 3-7 days, but you didn't have it a few days ago.

Have concerns; If I take him out to play and come back with a cold, that's it: Look, I told you not to take him to crowded places.

Play, someone has a cold and give it to him. )

Sister-in-law said: it is you who turn on the air conditioner every night and make the child like this! .

Daughter-in-law said: Son, you have caught a cold again. What should you do? I'm so worried about my mother! It's all mom's fault.

Husband said: Son, you have caught a cold again. What should you do? Did the child catch a cold and give it to you? You should eat more,

Eat more vegetables, your health will be great, and you won't catch a cold, do you hear?

Grandma said, honey, you have a cold again. What should you do? Mom didn't take care of it? Wait for grandma to scold mom, old one.

Sort of. You should eat more food and vegetables, and your health will be good. Did you hear that?

My son likes learning English.

Mother-in-law said: Everyone praises the baby for being smart. She knows so many English words at such a young age because her aunt teaches them well. This child

Zi is very clever, like his father. Personality is not very good, do you like you! (Later, someone said, did the child learn a foreign language after early education?

Ok, learn Chinese first, then learn a foreign language. ) Her old man said: Her parents did it, so she taught him early.

These things! In the future, children's poor Chinese will be in trouble.

Sister-in-law said: the baby is smart and the English pronunciation is good, so I'd better teach it! Not very good personality, like your mother?

Ah!

Husband said: mom and dad's good son. You ah! You are spoiled by your mother. How can I grow up?

Myself: Mom's baby, read a Tang poem to mom. I'm afraid that in case my son's Chinese is not good in the future, I have to hurry now.

Quick remedy! )

My mother: the baby is so smart, it's all taught by your grandmother and aunt! Your mother can't even read well, and she has to learn from you!

Buy something for my son.

Mother-in-law said: You see how much your aunt loves you and often buys you things! Be nice to your aunt in the future. Do you know that?/You know what? (Say to me: Look.

What clothes did his grandmother buy? They are so ugly! Some are not pure cotton. The cotton shoes she made are too thick to be made at all.

Put it on, not for children)

Sister-in-law said: Look at the good things my aunt bought for you! If you listen to your aunt, I will buy you something. (Say to me: Look.

Look at what clothes your mother bought. It's so ugly! Some are not pure cotton, don't wear them for children! And you! Elephant queen

Mom, don't buy anything for the baby.

Daughter-in-law said: Aunt likes to buy things for him, but it's not what we asked. She won't buy them to see if the child has nothing.

Play. There are not many things to buy for children, from clothes to small toys to supplies to milk powder to books. All mothers in the world are the same.

Yes, even if you want your insides, you will give them, let alone money.

Husband said: elder sister, there are some things that the baby can't play now, so don't buy them indiscriminately! When my face says to the baby, look at grandma.

What did I buy you? So happy! She told me that her old man didn't have much money and told her not to buy it. A child can wear more.

Less. )

Grandma said: Baby, do you like the clothes and cotton shoes that Grandma bought for you? Of course, the baby said she liked it, but grandma was so happy.

Let's go ) ok, ok, grandma will buy it for you next time.

9) Sister-in-law looking for a boyfriend

Mother-in-law said: as long as she is not too picky, she can't find what kind of person she is looking for. This guy, she just doesn't take the initiative, unlike.

Some girls in modern times are so good at getting on the pole. In that case, they would have been married long ago. She can't do it. you

It doesn't help! Tell me, if you hadn't been so kind to my son, he wouldn't have married you. He used to find it at home.

That girlfriend is very beautiful! When I said this, all my nannies were there. I am speechless. Is that so? )

My sister-in-law said that it's hard to say that she doesn't want to find a man now. If conditions are good, they will get married early. If the conditions are not good, no.

If you can't find it. After marriage, there are so many things to do and so many children to have. It's nice to be alone! Tell me, have you found my brother?

Your fate is very good. You should cherish it. )

Daughter-in-law said: Yes, it is my luck to find someone I love, but I don't know if my husband was like me at that time.

fall in love at first sight

Husband said: Elder sister, you are in your thirties. You are old, don't care, don't dress up and have a bad personality.

Just find someone with a good temper and a sense of responsibility, as long as they have the ability (it doesn't matter if you have a career now), don't pick.

My mother is worried about you, but we can't help you with these things. You have to be considerate of others, and others will be considerate of you.

Yes Like my wife, although not the best, if you can be like her, you won't worry that no one loves you.

My mother: Did the baby's aunt find a boyfriend? Don't talk. She didn't eat you and didn't cost you money. If she has friends,

Friends come home to play, you should treat them well, you can only think about her benefits, you know? If you don't get along with her, it means.

Sined, your mother-in-law has suitable friends and colleagues. You should pay attention to them. She loves her children. You should know the good and the bad!

sleep late

My mother-in-law said: (knocking at the door) Look at you. What time is it now? Your sister has been working for two hours and you are still at home. Tadosin

Bitter! Because my husband is a small boss, I now run a small counter myself, so I go to work late and sometimes leave at nine o'clock.

Door), how could it develop into you? Extremely angry! (On Sunday, my mother-in-law told her daughter that you had worked hard at work.

Have a good rest! Sleep late! )

Sister-in-law said: (on the phone) Look at you. What time is it now? I have been working for two hours, and you are still at home. Like you

How does this develop? Extremely angry!

Daughter-in-law said: honey, I still want to sleep for a while! . . . . . . No, I have to get up quickly, there are many things to do!

You have to get up, too

Husband said: Wife, you have to take care of your son at night, so you can't sleep well. My son has gone to kindergarten, please have a rest.

Son! Clean on Sunday! Help yourself to breakfast! Mom has cooked porridge.

My mother: You have to get up early in the morning! Clean up, make breakfast, go out early and come back late. you think

Still be a girl at home and sleep late. Don't let old people gossip.

Having said that, having a mother-in-law and a sister-in-law also has many advantages:

1) I made porridge and bought steamed buns this morning. My mother-in-law will bring it back when she goes to exercise in the morning. Some people sometimes buy vegetables.

The dishes cooked at night are delicious, although the color and smell are not good.

2) My son sometimes asks his grandmother to take him to kindergarten in the morning. Someone came to pick me up after school, and grandma always loved her grandson.

3) The flowers and plants at home are watered.

4) With a mother-in-law, you can spend less money.

5) A young aunt can save a lot of money by buying a lot of things for her son.

6) Knowing that a child with a mother is a treasure.

7) Someone asked: How is your daughter-in-law? They'll tell me it's okay! As the saying goes. It takes two hands to make a sound,

If I'm bad, I'll prove them bad. So I'm fine.

8) Sister-in-law has spare money, and her husband can sometimes help with business. (But interested. She benefits every day.

She used her brother's company name and all resources to do her own small business and paid some taxes to my husband. )

9) On holidays, the whole family plays together, like a harmonious family.

10) My sister-in-law sometimes says "mother-in-law" (you are really not a fuel-efficient lamp). I don't remember what she said. if

If I say so, what will happen? I can't imagine! ) But I hear my mother-in-law laughing. I know there are some words that I ... ...

You can't say it, even if you are joking!

1 1) Sometimes my mother-in-law scolds her sister-in-law when she is angry and can't find anyone to scold. I have a scapegoat.

12) Don't worry about having a mother-in-law at home!

An ancient family is a treasure. Sisters should take good care of it!