Essays of my brother and brother

I had a meal at noon and took a nap, but I actually had a very interesting dream.

In my dream, I played table tennis with many people. I can't say who I'm playing with. It feels like being at school, but the surrounding environment is very strange. I am the protagonist in it, and no one can challenge me to step down. It feels so good. I haven't felt that I am the first and the boss for a long time. When I was tired and hot, I looked around. There were a large group of people watching the game here, which was a little far away from us. They just looked at me and others and didn't refuel. ...

I am very tired from playing. I voluntarily handed over my "first chair". I don't know when I only wore an autumn coat and a shirt. Two people accompanied me to help me with the clothes I might take off when playing ball. One of them said to me, "Brother Chen, why do you bother to get dressed?" I know what he means, which means I wear too much. This is not? They have my warm clothes, a sweater and a thick down jacket in their hands. I can't help it I don't have any fat. I am very afraid of the cold without it. How I envy those young people who can get what they want inside and outside in winter. The speaker just said, "Nothing. I'll bring you some feathers unique to our family in a couple of days and wrap them in your clothes, so you don't have to wear so many. "

I woke up from my dream and thought of that dream just now, which made me feel funny. However, in my dream, I really had a good time. Not only am I the best at table tennis, but I also help you get dressed and don't forget to pat my ass.

When I got up and went to WC, I was still in that unconscious state A person suddenly flashed in my mind, Yuan. Yuan is a new employee, warehouse keeper and ordinary employee of our company's processing factory. What keeps popping up in my mind is every time I see him in real life: when I eat in the company cafeteria, he is eating with his head buried. When he looked up at me, he always called "the way" with a smile. I met him at work in the morning, and he said to me with a big smile, "Good morning, Brother Chen." . When you see him on a mission, on a mission occasion, he is always like this. This is his normal state. I suddenly feel that Yuan is not simple. Sometime and somewhere in the future, he will become the boss of the group around him, and his future is limitless.

I was thinking, why didn't I think Yuan was so special at ordinary times? An ordinary person is also an ordinary employee in the company. Why do you suddenly think of him when you just sleep? And somehow in my mind, I feel that he is different from others. When a person wakes up from sleep, is his mind not completely distracted by what the real world sees? This time seems to be in a daze, but it should actually be the most acute moment to think about the problem?

Big brother in Hong Kong gangster movies seems to have a lot of aura. If anything happens, as long as the eldest brother says a word, those who are younger brothers around him will describe it in one sentence: do everything for the eldest brother. In fact, this kind of movies all embody a concept: loyalty in the rivers and lakes. I don't know how many people in the real world are influenced by this concept, so many people have such values: I should be loyal to my friends, and I should do something for my friends when they need me, whether it is worth it or not, whether it violates the bottom line of morality and law or not.

With the progress of society and the improvement of people's educational procedures, people's values tend to be rational. Values are the composition of outlook on life, and countless values, happiness, bitter optimism, life and death, honor and disgrace, and love together constitute a person's outlook on life. If a person's outlook on life is positive, then his values will not deviate from the mainstream of society. For example, if your outlook on life is "Being a rich man and being a successful person is your goal in life, then you have not wasted your time and come to this world for nothing", then do you often change your values in order to achieve your goals? Which value can bring you closer to your goal, and you will keep it for a long time; Which values hinder your development, you abandon them.

Then the question is, which of the two identities, big brother and little brother, is more in line with your outlook on life? People have followed suit. Some people say it's good to be a big brother. Everywhere you go, the stars hold the moon and call the wind and rain. This kind of life is wonderful; Some people say it's good to be a big brother. Sooner or later, I will be stabbed by my brother, and I don't even know how to die. Why don't you be a younger brother, follow your older brother and drink spicy food? As long as the eldest brother is served well, are you afraid that there will be no good life? If Liu Bang hadn't been a good younger brother seriously, how could he have survived from Xiang Yu's eldest brother several times? By the time his wings really grew hard, it was too late for the eldest brother Xiang Yu to find that Liu Bang's younger brother had become a menace.

In real life, the identities of younger brothers and older brothers are not immutable, but often interchangeable. Here and now, you are the younger brother. In another place, another time, you are your brother. You are the younger brother in schools and companies now, and in a few years, you may be their eldest brother.

Today, we say that we are willing to be brothers. More realistic thinking is the mentality of my brother. In other words, we are a modest, low-key and unassuming person. When dealing with people and making friends, we are people who understand the times. It is not necessarily a good thing to show yourself too much. If you have the ability, you have to relax. Show your face then. People who stand taller than others may not see farther than the people below. If you are evil at heart, narrow-minded and aggressive, it can only show that you have only a pair of "myopia" that you can't see yourself clearly. How can we see farther than others? People who think highly of themselves often have the problem of overestimating themselves. He can't look at himself as seriously as looking in the mirror.

Brother or brother is just a passer-by among all sentient beings. Just like people who work in the same company, people who think that their salary is higher than others and their position is higher than others need this little brother mentality most. Everyone thinks how good they are and wasted their time in this position. Others feel like shit. "Isn't it just a forklift worker, a network administrator who repairs computers and a driver who leads the car?" These people, in this way, can only do these things and will not succeed. ".As we all know, you look at people like shit, and others look at you worse than shit. You should be clear, except the boss, everyone else is just the same identity-migrant workers. You are really capable. Why don't you be your big brother for a while and let us see your younger brother?

People are always like this, but they always look at the work of the battalion commander and think about the head of the regiment, hoping to put on the clothes of the general in their dreams. I don't want to lower my status and position by half a grid. I always want to be promoted by one grid or even two or three grids one day. ...

I understand now, in fact, Yuan's body can reflect his mentality of having a younger brother, low-key, unobtrusive and kind. Take me for example. I used to think I was a big brother. After years of tempering, I understand a truth: not everyone can be a big brother. If you want to be a big brother, you should start with being a little brother, do a good job of it and learn from it. When you have the ability to be a big brother, being a big brother is just a multiple-choice question for you: do you want it or not?

Being a younger brother is good, but being a younger brother must have a low line: most people deserve to be younger brothers in front of you. For those few ungrateful people, you don't have to lower your posture. You have to act like a big brother. When you are a brother and a younger brother, you should also have a principle: mutual respect. Without respect, being a younger brother may only be your younger brother on the surface, but in fact I don't agree with my older brother and I don't really mean to contribute to you. When the eldest brother may love the younger brother on the surface, when it comes to the vital interests of the eldest brother, the younger brother can also abandon it.

This is my idea: if you take me seriously, I will take you seriously, and I will naturally take your business seriously; You don't take me seriously, and I don't take you seriously. If you take me seriously, I will do what I can't do or I'm not sure, and I will do my best for you. If you don't take me seriously, then I won't take what I can do or what I can do well seriously, or even pretend not to hear. A clever and charming eldest brother always makes his younger brothers do things for him willingly ... A clever and wise younger brother always does things for the eldest brother who is worth paying for himself. ...