Do couples pay attention to their left and right sleeping positions when sleeping? Men, women and women have no rules and standard answers.

Do couples pay attention to their sleeping position? There are no rules and standard answers for couples to sleep, which vary from person to person. But my husband prefers to sleep on the right, so I basically sleep on the left. However, there are a few things you can understand!

First, when couples sleep, men are left and women are right.

In fact, the concept of male left and female right was popular in ancient times. Because it was a patriarchal society at that time, the status of women was generally low. Generally, in a tomb, in order to show the male status, the male host is buried on the left and the female host is buried on the right.

Therefore, when you watch TV series, you will generally find that when the emperor walks, the courtiers are all following on the right. Including some real photos of the Qing dynasty, family photos of officials or dignitaries are all male left and female right.

In modern society, men's left and women's right are basically meaningless and unfounded. Such as watches, rings, etc. Everyone usually wears according to the principle that men wear their left hands and women wear their right hands, which is not necessarily correct. The same is true for toilets in shopping malls or roadside. The men's toilet is on the left hand side and the women's toilet is on the right hand side. These phenomena are just genetic problems of ideas, which are inappropriate. After all, now everyone pays attention to equality between men and women, and there is no problem that men are superior to women.

Therefore, there is no need to follow the principle that men are left and women are right when sleeping between husband and wife.

Second, when couples sleep, whether a woman is on the left or the right generally depends on the man.

Maybe single women don't know much about this, and I don't know why.

Personally, I don't care if I sleep on the left or the right. But my husband prefers to sleep on the right. He prefers to put his right hand or right leg on me when he sleeps. If you let him sleep on his left side, he will toss and turn, as if his right hand or right foot is not very strong without anything.

Similarly, if a man likes to put his left hand or left foot on his wife when sleeping, the end result may be that the woman sleeps on the right and the man sleeps on the left. In short, when couples sleep, which side a woman sleeps on is mostly decided by men.

Third, women actually prefer to sleep in it.

First of all, when couples sleep, even tough girls have the mentality of naive girls. I always feel safe sleeping in it, especially when I sleep alone.

Secondly, sleeping in it has many benefits. For example, if you are hungry, you can command your husband to take snacks; If you are thirsty, you can command your husband to pour water or take drinks; If the child kicks the quilt, he can order the husband to cover it. Especially when the weather is cold in winter, if you forget to turn off the living room light, someone must be sleeping outside the bed and turning off the light!

Finally, sleeping in it is not easy to wake up, so you can sleep more. If you sleep outside and your husband gets up and dresses inside, it will easily lead to winter wind entering the bed. When your husband gets up, he will step outside and the bed will creak. Husband's up. You're wide awake.

Fourth, where is the socket to sleep?

Modern people like to play with their mobile phones before going to bed, and often watch them run out of power. For convenience, people generally like to play with their mobile phones while charging (not recommended). So sometimes sleeping on the left or right depends on which side the socket is!

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There is no rule that men are left and women are right when sleeping between husband and wife. But most women will love to sleep in it, and it is best to have a socket inside to facilitate the charging of mobile phones!

Between husband and wife, sleeping is a big deal! It's no small matter, but sleeping on the left or sleeping on the right is not the point. The key is whether they sleep with their mouths open.

If you sleep back to back, the problem should be serious. Why do you say that?

Sleeping with your mouth open is a good relationship only if you sleep with your arms in your arms. As for who sleeps on the left and who sleeps on the right, male left and female right are just feudal superstitions.

The key is that the two mouths can correspond to each other and contain each other.

Usually, men should sleep outside. Men are flower protectors. It is natural for men to protect women.

I have a friend. Since getting married, he has slept in his arms with his wife at night. In the second half of last year, his wife refused to give him a hug, saying it was so comfortable. Later, he carefully observed his wife's every move.

Finally one day, his wife answered the phone and went out. His wife went out on an electric car, and her friend immediately followed her in her own car.

He saw his wife park her electric car in front of a hotel. Two minutes later, a man came over. They seem very close. After they went in, a friend stepped forward and photographed the name of the hotel with his mobile phone, and then went home.

That night, my wife came home and my friend filed for divorce. When his wife asks why she got divorced, her friend will show her a photo of the hotel sign. His wife bowed her head silently.

I have a habit that I can't sleep at night without holding my wife. My wife sometimes says: You are an old goat, you are in your fifties, and you are flirting with young people. I just laughed.

My wife also mentioned sleeping in separate rooms, and I strongly disagree. Tell her it's impossible. Because only two mouths sleep together, the wife has no chance to cheat.

See how many couples are cheating in different places now. This is a painful lesson!

My wife and I are no different. Sometimes I sleep on the right, and sometimes she sleeps on the right, because our bed is in the middle of the room, with space on both sides, just like a hotel bed.

I remember that I didn't have my own house when I got married. I live outside in a small room of more than ten square meters. The bed can only be put in the corner I usually sleep outside. I have the habit of getting up and drinking water at night. In order not to affect my wife, it is more convenient for me to sleep outside, but on the left. At that time, I lived in a village in the city and there were frequent burglaries.

I slept outside to protect my wife. If a thief comes in, I will be the first to face it. Of course, this kind of thing didn't happen, just to prevent it.

Later, I had a child. The children sleep in the middle. Children are very young and often cry at night. In order to let their mother and son have a better rest, I took the initiative to rest on the sofa next to them.

Later, we bought a crib for our children and slept together. I sleep on the left and she sleeps on the right. It has always been like this, and occasionally changing places gives us a new feeling.

If it is cold in winter, then we will get closer and sleep together in the middle with peace of mind and peace of mind. Although we are an old couple, some people are separated from each other at our age. We still sleep together and get used to it, but we are not used to sleeping separately at all.

My wife said that if I didn't sleep in bed and couldn't hear me snoring, she couldn't sleep at all. She is used to sleeping in the same bed, which is hard to change. We often say, build a boat in a hundred years, and build a pillow in a thousand years? . What it means is that if two people do good deeds for a hundred years, they will have the opportunity to help each other in the same boat, and if they do good deeds for a thousand years, they will be able to sleep together.

It shows that it is not easy for two people to become husband and wife, and sleeping in a bed is not that simple. Husband and wife get along well for a hundred days, marriage for a thousand miles, and feelings for a hundred years. They are soul mates, consistent and inseparable for life. Husband and wife have deep feelings, and both sides love each other deeply, which is also admirable and praised.