How parents should educate their children

In the daily life of the family, children get along with their parents day and night, so how should parents educate their children? Let’s take a look!

1. Develop children’s self-care ability as early as possible.

Nowadays, living conditions are so good, and most of them are only children. The children live a life where they can only stretch their hands for clothes and open their mouths for food, which makes some boys become squeamish. To change this situation, I think we must cultivate children's self-care ability as early as possible and learn to let children exercise themselves in labor. I asked my son to sleep in his own room from an early age, and encouraged him to start doing simple housework from just a few years old. My son, who is now in second grade, always packs and cleans by himself. Of course, to achieve this, parents’ affirmation and praise are the greatest motivation for children.

2. Cultivate children’s sense of responsibility.

The liberalization of the two-child policy has brought problems to many families. The conflict between the eldest child and the second child has become the biggest headache for parents. Since we have a younger brother in the family, we pay more attention to Dabao's feelings and will never neglect Dabao because of the little baby. In addition, he also told Dabao that his younger brother is the dearest person in the world. It is not only the responsibility of parents to care for and care for his younger brother, but also the responsibility of his elder brother. He should cultivate Dabao's sense of responsibility in a timely manner. Since becoming an older brother, my son seems to have grown up suddenly. Not only does he know how to let his younger brother play with him, but he also helps adults with work.

3. Learn to be "cruel" and cultivate children's perseverance and ability to resist setbacks.

My child fell in love with roller skating when he was in kindergarten and wanted a pair of roller skates, but he didn’t know how to skate at first. I seized the opportunity and agreed to buy it for him, but I asked him to learn it. So he spent all his time trying to learn, not afraid of any number of falls, and finally learned to roller skate. Soon, he took a fancy to another bicycle. It is indeed a bit difficult for a child to ride a bicycle. I am worried that he will just buy it on a whim and put it aside. Then he tested him and asked him to learn to ride a bicycle first. So he started the difficult practice again. Watching my child fall over and over again makes me really worried and distressed, but I believe that through these two small things, he has experienced the happiness that he has worked hard to achieve, and he will not be easily intimidated by difficulties.

4. Educate children to understand rules and do things appropriately.

Nowadays, many people get angry when talking about rules. It seems that children understand the rules and restrain their nature. As a result, many children not only lose their rules but also their manners and sense of propriety. Going to other people's homes to rummage around, making loud noises in public places... I educate my son to learn self-discipline. Eating snacks, watching TV, and playing games are harmful to the body and eyes, so I need to apply for time to play games and watch TV. You can't make arbitrary claims. He has known since he was a child which things in the house he can touch and which things he cannot touch. Of course, for parents, it is important to grasp the scale, because improper grasp will lead to extreme education - being too strict with children will suppress their growth; being too tolerant to children will make children weak. Powerless. Therefore, every parent must summarize the rules that suit your child based on his or her own child’s characteristics.

5. Frequently "chatting" with your children is the best parent-child way.

More and more parents like to hold a mobile phone with their children. It seems that everything is fine, but in fact, many opportunities to communicate with the children are missed. I am usually very busy at work, so my son will let me stay with him on his bed for a while at night. He will tell me that he misses me and is willing to chat with me and talk about his school. Sometimes he will ask some very adult questions. While chatting with my son, I was able to understand his subtle changes in thoughts and his desire to explore and seek knowledge, which made me feel closer to my child.