On the road of growing up, what made you understand and hate it late?

1. On the way of growing up, throw away these four things as soon as possible: unnecessary circle of friends, poor quality study, redundant burden of responsibility and harmful procrastination.

You must have these four qualities: self-confidence in your bones, courage to do what you want, humility hidden in your heart, and persistence in everything.

Don't do many things at the same time, just do one thing well. If you make up your mind to do 1 something you like and are sure to accomplish, and stick to it, it is easier to succeed than doing 10 things that are difficult to accomplish at the same time.

3. Choice is more important than hard work.

The trend of the industry and the development of the platform are far greater than individual efforts, which can largely determine our future development.

Therefore, try to choose promising industries and try to enter companies with clear promotion channels, so as to ensure that your future development will not go downhill.

4. Don't make a decision late at night.

The mood in the middle of the night is the most fragile, and it is easy to make hasty decisions. You may get up in the morning and pat your forehead and forget it. In particular, people promise to keep appointments and lend money to others ... many people regret it when they wake up.

5, praise your good words, just listen; On the contrary, those who criticize and accuse you should listen carefully. Because those criticisms are really good words that can make you see the shortcomings, correct them in time when you find the problems, and let you grow up quickly.

6. Praise from the heart is the quickest way to close interpersonal relationships. For example, if you see an inspiring answer, just click a compliment and the answer will thank him from the heart ~

7. How to achieve a stable and reasonable salary increase? Don't stress how many days you have worked overtime and how much work you have done. Putting your excellent work performance or contribution to the company on it will be much better than your working hours.

8. Being with excellent people can make you better. The circle determines the horizon. If you want to grow up under the existing conditions, you are destined to need better friends and deal with more excellent people. You will have a rare opportunity and a good understanding.

9. Learn to be willing. Refuse to throw it away, it will stink and mold; You will never get what you are not willing to spend money on; Love rat, unwilling to leave, wasting your precious time.

10, learning to refuse is the first lesson for adults to socialize.

People who are not good at rejecting others will always put themselves in a very difficult position; People who can decisively refuse unreasonable demands from others rarely have troubles and troubles in their lives. Learn to refuse, and your life will be half as easy ~