Many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships become stiff as soon as they are confined to confinement. Why?

Nowadays, people have a happy marriage before they have children. At that time, the newlyweds were inseparable and wanted to give each other the best. Not long after they get married, their in-laws will urge them to have a big fat grandson. They promised that you would have a baby, and they would help. Not long after his wife became pregnant, her family regarded her as a treasure.

After living as a happy queen mother, the child arrived, and the wife may have a difficult delivery due to physical reasons. The doctor suggested cesarean section. At this time, the mother-in-law will say that it is good for the child to insist on letting you go smoothly. At that time, the wife might think that her mother-in-law was trying to save money.

Later, the doctor said that it might be dangerous to cut the child again, so they had to agree to let you cut it. After terrible hours, the child finally arrived safely. This is a lovely daughter, and you are glad to have a beautiful angel. My mother-in-law came over and said, alas, I finally got a girl after spending so much money. The new mother's wife must be very dissatisfied with her mother-in-law when she hears this. It is also possible that my mother-in-law said that it would take two years to have a boy after cutting a girl. I think the wife at that time must be very dissatisfied with her mother-in-law.

A wife who has just given birth must be very weak. At this time, when she saw a girl, she might say that she was tired after waiting in the hospital all day.

But the wife who just gave birth to a child needs to be taken care of most, but her mother-in-law will say that she is not feeling well and needs to go home and lie down for a while. A weak wife can only bear the pain and take care of the children by herself. As a new mother, she is really weak. Compared with Gu Baobao, she is a novice and needs the help of people who understand. But no one helped her, and that extravagant husband couldn't take care of the baby.

Finally, my wife can leave the hospital. During confinement, the wife needs to eat some warm food to make up for excessive blood loss and give the child enough milk. There are many things that can't be eaten during confinement, such as spicy food, but my husband likes to eat it, so my mother-in-law will fry all the dishes spicy, and her mother-in-law will not take care of her wife during confinement.

During confinement, the wife's body has not fully recovered and needs more rest, so she needs her mother-in-law to help take care of the child when the child is crying, but at this time, her mother-in-law may hide in the room and pretend not to hear. The child fell asleep at night and needed a hug. At this time, the wife was already very sleepy. At this time, the mother-in-law may be sleeping soundly, or after waking up, she is unwilling to get up and coax her wife for a while.

Why does the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law become stiff after confinement? It is when the wife is the weakest, the most helpless and the most in need of her mother-in-law's help that her mother-in-law turns a blind eye to her weakness and helplessness. Suddenly, I changed from a girl to my mother's wife. The child's crying, her mother-in-law's blindness and her weak body all reinforced her dissatisfaction with her mother-in-law's inability to take care of herself.

Therefore, there will be a phenomenon of stiff relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after confinement.