A woman who has helped her family for five years: Husband, divorce me. I've had enough. Why?

"Husband, divorce me. I've had enough of them." This sentence was said to Sean Shaw by his wife in tears. When Sean relayed this passage to Xiao Qiang, Xiao Qiang felt very sad. In fact, Xiao Qiang also knows a thing or two about Sean and his wife. Since Sean married his wife five years ago, they have been in constant conflict. In fact, Sean and his wife are college classmates and have a good relationship. They are the poorest in Sean. His wife never gave up on him. Sean was deeply moved by his wife's company, so he loved her very much. However, after marriage, the two often have disputes, the main object of which is his wife's family.

Before talking about the conflict between Sean and his wife, Xiao Qiang wants to share with you his feelings about watching the realistic drama Everything is OK again. Most people hate all kinds of works by Su Daqiang (Red Mud) in the play. When Xiao Qiang watched the play again, he found another irritating character, namely Su Daqiang's brother-in-law, Su Mingyu's own uncle, and Su Mingyu's uncle in the play was cheated by Su Ming. He went to Su Daqiang's house to live for free, and was finally driven away by Su Mingyu. In fact, Zhao Meilan reluctantly married Su Daqiang in order to let him have a city hukou, and the amount of funding on the hukou book was as high as 200,000. This kind of behavior like Zhao Meilan is what everyone often says. And Sean Shaw's wife was forced to be like this.

Sean and his wife started dating when they were in college. After graduation, they came to the city to work hard. When they are poorest, they can't afford to pay property fees, and they have no water and electricity. At that time, Sean even thought that his wife would choose to leave him, but instead of complaining, she encouraged him. Later, Sean Shaw's career turned around and his life got better and better. Sean, who has a successful career, always remembers his wife's kindness So when Sean Shaw got married, he not only bought her a diamond ring, but also gave it to her brother-in-law in 2008.

Xiao enqiang's practice moved my wife very much. After marriage, their feelings are very sweet. That day, my wife went back to visit her family. After dinner, her mother took her hand and said, "Xiaoli, now your father and I are old." You must treat your brother well. After all, your big sister is like a mother. " Listening to his mother's earnest words, his wife nodded in agreement with Li Xia. Less than half a month after her return, she received a phone call from her brother: "Sister, I'm going to attend an interview in two days. Can you give me some money to buy a suit? " The wife said without hesitation, "No problem, this is what my sister should do. How much does it cost? " The other party replied: "At least 6000 yuan.

Later, it was known by Xiao enxiao. Although I was a little unhappy, I didn't say much because of my wife's face. Who knows that my brother-in-law is getting more and more presumptuous, asking his wife for money every time, and also taking the name of his parents. On one occasion, his wife refused his request. Just after hanging up the phone, his parents called, and his wife's mother severely scolded his wife on the phone. Since then, his brother-in-law has become more unscrupulous. Sean and his wife began to quarrel. In fact, every time after the quarrel, his wife was also very wronged, but on the other hand, she was her close relative and could do nothing, so Sean and his wife's feelings plummeted.

The husband and wife spent five years arguing endlessly, and during these five years, the wife helped nearly 200 thousand family members one after another. Mr. Lu Xun once said: "If you don't break out in silence, you will perish in silence." Sean Shaw's wife finally chose the former. Once again, Sean Xiao's wife refused without hesitation, and then the parents' accountability call came. Listening to the parents' accountability, Sean Xiao's wife suddenly smiled. Looking at his wife's bleak appearance, Sean was pricked by a needle. He held his wife tightly, but he didn't know what to do.

Hearing the story of Sean, Xiao Qiang also felt incredible. Sean Shaw's in-laws kidnapped their daughter with affection. Maybe in their hearts, they didn't regard her as a daughter at all, just an ATM, but they also helped their loved ones euphemistically. It should be the sorrow of Xiao Zhan's wife that they meet such parents. From the story, Xiao Qiang can feel that Sean Xiao's wife doesn't want to do this, but in the face of parents' accusations and her filial piety, she has to do this.

Finally, Xiao Qiang advised female friends like Xiao Zhan's wife that it is natural for her daughter to help the family, but in line with the principle of "saving the poor but not saving the poor", she should not help blindly, but should help on the basis of ensuring the stability of the small family. This is the most correct way to deal with it. The bottomless help is not only ineffective, but also affects the happiness of her small family.