What is the custom of picking up relatives?

Different regions have different customs, which are probably the same:

Beaming: When the groom meets the woman's family, he will hold a bouquet in the room for the bride to get married. At this time, the bride's girlfriend should deliberately stop the groom, but the condition is that the groom agrees, usually with a red envelope gift.

Farewell: The bride should say goodbye to her parents, while the groom can just bow.

Going out: The bride should be escorted to the wedding car by a well-wished female elder with a bamboo plaque or a red umbrella (this is generally omitted, and the groom should carry it on the wedding car) (Note: prepare a bamboo plaque with a happy word on it)

Never say goodbye: never say goodbye to a woman's family when everyone leaves her home.

Firecrackers: the salute car will set off firecrackers when it leaves the woman's house, and it will also set off firecrackers when it arrives at the man's house.

Knowledge expansion: the process that a man goes to a woman's house to pick up relatives;

1, let's go. The groom can start from his parents' home or his own new house. If the wedding car needs to be tied with floats, he can also start from the place where the floats are tied. There are no specific regulations. Just remember to send a happy package (red envelope+happy cigarette) and a road map to each driver of the wedding convoy before departure, and there must be someone who knows the bride's family in the camera.

In addition, the groom doesn't have to start too early, as long as he avoids the peak. Coming too early will only make you more tired, but it's not too late to prevent accidents. Of course, when to start, we must also consider the distance and road conditions.

2. Block the door. Blocking the door is the biggest test for the groom in the wedding ceremony. The groom must pay attention to two points.

1) Coax: Coax bridesmaids, relatives and friends of the bride. As for whether to use red envelopes or actions, it depends on the groom.

2) Be patient: no matter how hard it is, the groom can't blush, remember to remember! Of course, the bride didn't just want a red envelope when she blocked the door. You can play more games to embarrass the groom. This is lively and atmospheric, much better than asking for a red envelope.

I also want to remind everyone: don't block the door too much. We all want to be lively, so let's stop here.

3. propose marriage. The groom went through many difficulties and dangers, and finally entered the door to see the bride. The first thing after entering the door is to kneel down with flowers in hand and propose to the bride in a coherent, beautiful and one-stop manner.

4. tea. After the proposal is completed, you should change your mind about offering tea to your elders. The order of tea worship is to respect parents first, then grandparents. If the camera is a stand-alone camera, it is best for couples and parents not to stand face to face, so the video will not look good, and it is best to stand at a 45-degree angle.

5, looking for shoes. Finally going out, the bride's shoes must be found. Looking for shoes depends on the popularity of the groom. Usually, it is easier to get along with relatives of the bride's family. It will be easier to pass the customs at this time. It would be much easier if you bought the bridesmaid. If you are not prepared in advance, you can only mobilize all your brothers and sisters to help you find it.

Step 6 get out. Finally, when going out, of course, the bride was carried on the wedding car by the groom.