Husband quietly sold the house and paid his brother-in-law a gambling debt. Is it wrong for me to abort my child and divorce?

When my husband and I got married, he told me that his family conditions were not good and he had to suffer, so I thought twice. At that time, I was carried away by love and married my husband regardless of my parents' opposition. My husband didn't let me down. After several years of hard work, we have now raised three long trailers, and we intend to buy a house with a loan.

When my husband/kloc-was 0/3 years old, my father got cancer and died unfortunately. His mother-in-law raised him and his brother-in-law alone, and his husband came out to work just after graduating from junior high school. He is more mature and enterprising than the average person. This is also what I like about him. He has always said that making money is for family members, and family members will be happy if they live well. My brother-in-law didn't study well and dropped out of school early. After dropping out of school, he followed her husband to run errands and receive goods. I'm a little jealous of his kindness to his brother. He doesn't regard him as a brother, more like a father and son. He doesn't want to do any hard work. He must keep anything delicious for him. If he feels sorry for him, I won't be angry, but sometimes I just spoil him. Just now, his brother did something wrong.

When my brother-in-law secretly gambled, we didn't know. One day, the customer asked us to get the 20,000-month freight owed to us. We were too busy to go, so we asked our brother-in-law to get it. My brother-in-law didn't come back until very late. He called the customer and said that he had given the money and left, so he stopped answering the phone. The next morning, his eyes were red. I asked him about the money and said that he had lost at cards. I am short of breath. I gave him a great anger because I needed money badly. My husband made no mention of his brother. He just won it back. Since then, I have been wary of my brother-in-law about money. I haven't lost money for a long time. I thought he had changed.

I have never bought a house because I got married and worked hard in this city. I just saved 200,000 yuan to buy a house with a loan. After two weeks, I finally took a fancy to a house in the suburbs with a down payment of 300 thousand. I think I can borrow some more money to buy it. I made a reservation for payment on Wednesday. On Tuesday, my brother-in-law came back from the outside in despair. When he saw us, he knelt down and said, "Brother, sister-in-law, please help me. I owe a loan shark outside. If I want to pay back, I must cut off my hand. " I was busy asking how much it was. My brother-in-law said I gambled and they lent me money. At that time, they borrowed 654.38 million yuan. Now they say it will bring 200 thousand interest. If you win, you want to quit, but the more you play, the more you lose. You are willing to help me pay back the money. Before the words were finished, two vicious bruisers followed. Kick my brother-in-law to pay back the money. Without saying anything, my husband said that I would pay back the money my brother owed, so you should be polite to him.

In this way, the husband paid his brother-in-law a gambling debt of 200 thousand, and the house was completely destroyed, but how can such a life be lived? There is really no hope.