What should men and women not say when talking?

Emotions are sometimes very strong and sometimes very fragile. Getting along with two people is a learning process, especially between men and women. Just think about some things and words in your heart, and never say them out loud. It's easy to say the wrong thing, especially to a close lover. Don't think that it doesn't matter what you say to someone close to you. The other person will not care. Some words must be spoken responsibly, because sometimes words can hurt more than a knife.

1. It’s all your fault

If the man and woman are still in love, this fault should be treated separately. He wants to know how deeply you love me; you want to know where you are in the other person's heart. Everyone is for love, but the methods are not appropriate, and they act impulsively when the situation is urgent. Blindly passing the buck to each other will only make matters worse and hurt feelings. It's better to sit down and talk calmly. Impulse is the devil, keep it in mind.

2. This is unfair to me

When lovers get along, have you ever spent time thinking carefully about what God will show you in a day? On your side, the sun shines on the earth, on your side, the clouds gather together and then disperse, and on my side, there may be dark clouds, and it rains in the blink of an eye. It's the same sky, but our feelings are completely different. It is impossible to treat everything in nature equally, let alone human beings who can never be compared with nature? There is no fairness or unfairness in love. This is probably what the saying "one thing brings down another" means.

3. I regret it

No one has the ability to predict the future. No one put a knife to your neck to force you to fall in love. You love me. Love each other. Everyone came together naturally. If it's time to break up, it's better to get together and break up. Don't end up with a reputation as a "hatred wife (husband)". Love is a wonderful thing, but even if it comes fiercely, it will also disappear. Don't compare now with then, that's asking for trouble. If love is gone, it is gone. Just face it. What regrets do you have? Are you qualified to say this? If you dare to do it, you must dare to do it.

4. My best friend’s boyfriend earns more than 10,000 yuan a month. What about you? He only earns 1,000 yuan or 2,000 a month. When can he buy a house or a car?

Most boys care about face and want the other person to think that they are the strongest. If a girlfriend says good things about another boy to her face, the face-loving boyfriend will definitely go crazy.

5. Your mother doesn’t look very good-looking! How old are you? Why do you always listen to her? If your mother and I fell into a river, who would you save first?

Never criticize a boy's mother face to face. Just as fathers are very important to many girls, mothers occupy a very large position in the hearts of most boys. When he finds out that you dislike his mother or want to take his mother's place, a boy will have a bad feeling towards you.

6. Do you know how many boys have confessed to me before and pursued me crazily? I was stupid at the beginning and did not agree with them and followed you.

Boys, like girls, will be jealous, especially the more they care about someone, the stronger the jealousy will be. When you always show off to him how popular you used to be, the boy will actually feel hurt and will leave you over time.

7. Who is this girl? Why does she always call you? What is the relationship between you two? Is it very ambiguous?

Many women have the problem of looking through their boyfriend’s cell phone. According to At the slightest sign, they will exaggerate and make false claims. Even sarcastically and pressuring the other person. It would be strange for a man not to fall out. At the same time, this kind of behavior is exactly what helps push men outward. The sad thing is that women themselves don't know it. So sometimes men are responsible for cheating on women.

8. Look at how sloppy you are, how unhygienic you are, how handsome you are, and how little you know. If I were younger, I would have broken up with you long ago!

Everyone has their own shortcomings, and they don’t want people to say them out so directly, especially the people they like in their hearts. When a girl says this to a boy, it will destroy the boy's self-confidence and even make the boy feel that the girl does not like him.

9. Why are you so clingy, like a child? You can't be a man

Some people say that there is a child in every man's heart. He is willing to show his childish side in front of you because he trusts you. When you say this to him, the more mature he pretends to be, the farther away he is from you.

Both boys and girls must speak in a measured manner and not cross that line. Sometimes words can hurt the most feelings. Often over a trivial matter that is not principled, two people will have a heated argument. One party will say this out of anger, and it will be difficult to recover in the end.