My child is a senior three this year. He can't sleep well. He is unstable and a little suspicious. Now he can't go to school. What should I do now? Who can help me? What should I do?

This parent, I am really angry to see your question. The following words may be a bit excessive. Please forgive me. As your description is not very comprehensive, please refer to the following remarks as appropriate.

First of all, parents are children's first teachers. From birth to now, you are the person he has contacted the most. Everything you say, everything you do, and your attitude towards life, he has been deeply moved, and he can't solve this situation himself. I saw that the landlord mentioned that there was no pressure on the children. Did he put all the pressure on himself? I don't know your child's personality. Maybe you have compared him with other better children. Maybe you have blindly urged him to study. Maybe you have rarely communicated your inner thoughts with him. Don't these details put pressure on him? Adolescent children are the most sensitive! No matter what your family background is, you are responsible for not teaching your children well.

It was none other than you who pushed him down this road. Most children who take the college entrance examination are forced by their parents! If you don't care about his grades, then why are you so worried now? Do you know what he likes? Do you know what career he wants to pursue in the future? Do you know when he is happiest? He is your child, not a tool for your ambition! Now that you have emotional problems, instead of reflecting on yourself, ask everyone, do these netizens know your children better than you do? Didn't your escape and helplessness pass on to your children?

Moreover, it is estimated that the landlord is about thirty or forty years old. In front of children, you should be a prodigy. You haven't seen any big waves. Think about it carefully, is it really helpless? Sun Tzu's Art of War has 36 plans. What strategies have you tried? In the worst case, even if the child doesn't do well in the exam, it's a big deal to go to a technical school and support himself. If he is not suitable for studying, he will not study, as long as he is happy, so that his family will be harmonious. Nowadays, the society is very developed, and it is not difficult to survive. From couriers and vendors to white-collar workers in the company, how can it not be a living method? If you are an enlightened father/mother, why do you want your children to suffer like this! The tense atmosphere in the classroom has overwhelmed him, and his parents have not guided him and led him to establish a correct three views. How to make children not sad?

I say this because most children are like this. Now the Spring Festival is approaching, the college entrance examination is approaching, and the results have entered a bottleneck period. It is the most stressful time for students. Seeing the children "sick" in the hospital because of nervousness and depression, they are eager to comfort themselves with drugs. I feel very distressed as a bystander. At the time of youth, learning was originally a happy thing. The college entrance examination is an exciting thing to change your destiny. Why do you hurt these children? Why are those "schoolmasters" still expressionless, laughing freely and calmly? Same age, same IQ, but there are two different results. Who caused the problem?

I am not a teacher or a psychologist. I just said what I wanted to say.

I wish your son a great success in the college entrance examination.