A letter to my lovely daughter.

Letters are a good way of communication. So, how to write a letter to your beloved daughter? Below I have compiled a sample of a letter to my daughter in love for your reference!

A letter to Fan, a daughter in love.

Baby:

I'm dad. This is the first time you have received a letter from your father since you were a child. I hope you can finish reading this letter, ok! ?

Dear daughter, you have begun to enter a colorful era and experience the primary stage of a dream girl. 14 years old means that your childhood is over. My parents congratulate you. I wish you real maturity and early success. My parents are also thankful for themselves. They are really happy and gratified to have a beautiful, pure, kind and lovely daughter like you. At the same time, my parents are worried about you, because you are beautiful and pure. That is to say, you are at a troubled age. Starting from this letter, dad wants to talk to you about a serious and heavy topic. For a 14-year-old girl from Seeds of Love, you may not fully understand what I said in my letter. Because dad himself couldn't understand it.

Your task now is to study, and you will face a promotion next year, which is a crucial first step in your life. Now, for you, improving your academic performance is the first priority. I don't need to tell you this. All your future dreams start from here, and your current academic performance is the capital for you to enter the society in the future. There is no need to practice martial arts now. Take out your diploma, and that's your golden pass. How big the sky you want to have depends on how high your education is. How high a degree you want depends on how hard you work. My parents want you to be an eagle flying freely in the sky, but that should be based on your current efforts.

You are now 14 years old, so you can be said to be a big girl. When you stop growing and developing, you are a real big girl. Dad wants to tell you that although you are tall, you are still a minor. A girl is innocent and lively, and there is no fault. Naive and lively doesn't mean dancing grandstanding. Don't lose self-esteem and self-love when you are happy. Don't get carried away. Modesty is your ultimate growth trend. Don't be influenced by the bad habits around you.

About puppy love, any reason will not be mentioned later. What you are proud of now will become a joke to your classmates. Someone will be ashamed of you. And you will blush and feel guilty for this stupid thing you have done. You will regret the reputation of your life. If you accept the pursuit of any boy now, you will always be a loser. Never let a moment of vanity and curiosity regret a lifetime of happiness. Never let yourself become worthless. Maybe dad's words are a little extreme, so be considerate of dad's mood.

You can use your reason to overcome your childish feelings. Love is a kind of affection that transcends life and death. This is a mutual mental tremor. Who pursues whom, that is not love. Just a game of pursuing and being pursued, only winning or losing, no love. Love cannot be pursued, and love is an emotion that can be met but not sought. You can't fall in love until you understand all this. With your figure, you can wear mom's high heels. But my baby daughter, you are still at the age of coquetry. You will mistake the impulse of early adolescence for love. Son, that's just an impulse you just got out of childhood. Dad is not very worried about your puppy love. Because dad believes in your ability to judge right and wrong and also believes in your ability to do things. At your age, it often happens that boys like girls or girls like boys. It's not a bad thing, but it's not a good thing either It's normal. The principle is: don't let puppy love ruin your health and your studies! Boys and girls at this stage can't afford the responsibility of love. And at this age, it is even more impossible to really have love.

Daughter, watching you grow up day by day, dad's heart is full of joy. Dad said this to you when you first entered the ranks of girls. Dad is really afraid that you can't grasp yourself. When my daughter really works and can really fall in love, my parents won't tell you this. It is said that the daughter is her father's intimate little cotton-padded jacket, but her father is also the strong backbone behind her. Let's be good friends.

Love your father forever.

XX，XX，XX，XX

A letter to my daughter in love: Fan

Dear daughter:

When you see this topic, you will be surprised, and you may also blame your mother in your heart (because you have repeatedly stated that there is no puppy love). Daughter, please don't worry, mom believes you!

Mom brought this up with you because I'm the same age as you. Besides? Puppy love? There is nothing to avoid this topic. It's just a normal physiological and psychological reflection of adolescence, influenced by TV, internet and books. Any sane person will have a good impression on the opposite sex at this age. As Goethe said:? Which girl doesn't love spring and which boy doesn't? Many celebrities in history are also puppy love. What happened to Jia Baoyu, Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai in a Dream of Red Mansions? Love triangle? Only fourteen or fifteen years old; Nie er falls in love in middle school; Goethe was only 14 or 15 when he fell in love with the opposite sex, so he must have never let it go? Puppy love? It is equated with poor quality and moral corruption, and it cannot be regarded as evil.

However, this does not mean advocating puppy love. You know what, son? Although puppy love is beautiful, it is as bitter as green olives. Moreover, once this immature feeling breaks out, it will bring great harm to you in "Seeds of Love", which is embodied in the following aspects.

First, puppy love? Affect learning. Children who fall in love with each other will indulge in the fantasy of love, so that they can't devote themselves wholeheartedly to their studies, resulting in barren studies, declining grades and even weariness of learning. Are you online? Puppy love? On the court, there are still many sad endings. I remember seeing such a news that there was a top student whose best subject was mathematics. When he was a sophomore, he won the second place in the national mathematics competition, so he became famous and received five letters from female students at once? Courtship letter? One of them is the backbone of the entertainment circle he has long been obsessed with, like this? Break the water with one stone? , make his heart waves rolling. After several sleepless nights, he finally failed to refuse a girl's pure feelings. So, quietly exchange greetings, two boys and girls fell in love, so he was distracted in class, and sometimes his homework could not be finished, especially the contradictions and troubles in love haunted him and interfered with his normal study. They often find time to chat, even skip classes and go out to play, eat out and go to Internet cafes. In this emotional turmoil, the top students in mathematics have been on pins and needles, and their grades have gone from bad to worse. Seeing that the college entrance examination was coming, he tried to restrain himself from rushing up, but it was too late. Even if he tried his best, he couldn't settle down. Finally, I failed in the college entrance examination. Seeing that his classmates were ecstatic to receive the admission notice from the university, his heart was full of remorse, his heart was full of complaints about the girl, and he broke up sadly. Imagine that if the top math student had grasped himself, he might have been sitting in the classroom of the university and become an enviable student. It can be seen that puppy love is unrealistic, and the result of puppy love is like a green fruit, which will not have sweetness. If it is meaningless to spend energy in falling in love at this time, it will definitely leave a lifelong regret for yourself, as the famous writer Liu Qing once said: Although the road of life is long, only a few steps are often at stake-especially when people are young. He and you have reached the critical point of life. Don't regret not taking these key steps all your life.

Second,? Puppy love? Harmful to physical and mental health. American scientists' research shows that young people who fall in love before 17 years old can't cope with the emotional troubles caused by their first love, which will lay the groundwork for mental illness in the future, especially for boys. This is because middle school students are in the transition period from adolescence to adolescence, with immature body and mind, insufficient knowledge and experience, limited social experience, low ability to choose and evaluate life and things, and unable to deal with all kinds of disputes in love. Once you are lovelorn, your tender heart will be greatly hurt and your spirit will be completely crushed. And it is easy to fall into pain and trouble because of lovelorn love or cause lifelong regret because of emotional impulse. What's more, it will be made by? Love too much? However, I can't extricate myself, and I can't sleep at night. Over time, I have some psychological obstacles and mental diseases, which have affected my physical and mental health to some extent.

Besides,? Puppy love? The success rate is small. After all, high school students are still children, with active and extreme thinking and unstable emotions. So this kind of love is often a temporary emotional impulse, unstable and short-lived. Some people have done such statistics: the probability of junior high school students falling in love is 0.0003, that is, 1 000 junior high school students fall in love, and only 3 can succeed; When high school students fall in love, the probability of success is 0.002, that is, 1000 high school students fall in love, and only two succeed. In other words, falling in love in middle school has far more failures than successes. Even if they get married in the future, life will be full of ups and downs and contradictions. Zijun and Juansheng in Lu Xun's Regret for the Past are a good example. Zijun and Juansheng really love each other. They broke through many obstacles, came together and established a life of * * *, but in the end, they broke up. Not because of the intervention of a third party, nor because of personality differences, but because they lack economic foundation. This kind of marriage that can't solve the problem of eating is like a castle in the air, which will eventually collapse.

Children, every stage of life has different happiness themes. They enjoy the care of their parents in childhood, experience the enrichment of learning in adolescence, indulge in the romance of love in youth, embrace the glory of their careers in middle age and enjoy family happiness in old age. The theme dislocation of different age groups will probably be a tragedy. Dear daughter, what if? Puppy love? Really come to your side, then let it open in your heart, thank it in your heart, and bury it in your heart! Now, what you can do is to strive for a better future with your efforts. At that time, you will definitely taste the sweetness and happiness brought by mature love! Remember: don't pick autumn fruits in summer.

Love your mother forever.

XX，XX，XX，XX

Letter to Fan Wensan, a daughter in love.

Daughter:

You are in adolescence, which is the best period of your life, but it is also the most dangerous period.

Just as the more beautiful the blooming flowers are, the more powerful the bees and butterflies are chasing and the greater the threat.

Therefore, I want to advise you that in this swaying season, you must remember two words about the grasp of feelings: if you are a girl, please don't let a fool kiss you, let alone turn yourself into a fool with a kiss; If you are a boy, please don't kiss a fool, and don't make yourself a fool just because you want to kiss. Son, you may be indifferent to this, or even disagree. If you really hold this idea, I can tell you clearly that you are really not far from a fool!

You may retort proudly and contemptuously:? I won't let a fool kiss me! ? I won't kiss a fool! ? If so, then I am alarmist. The scary thing is that the truth may be just the opposite. Even, I have an extreme view. If you really let a fool kiss you, or if you really kiss a fool, it's not embarrassing or wrong.

Because after all, the object you meet is just a fool, and he may just have a silly nature. Because of this, he may lose the calculation and malice of the wise man, so that no matter whether he kisses you or you kiss him, you won't get into trouble. After all, he doesn't have any playboy to hurt you.

Speaking of which, you may be a little confused. Is there a fake fool in the world? Yes, you are too smart. Son, this is what I want to tell you most. For such a fool, I sincerely hope you can resist his kiss, let alone offer your lips. Perhaps, you will ask, what is a smart fool? Where on earth are they stupid? Let me tell you something. In addition to IQ measurement, there is also a standard to measure: isn't a smart person a fool who does what he knows he shouldn't do? At least, it's too smart to make a mistake.

For example, a doctor of chemistry has reached the top of the subject pyramid. Isn't he smart enough? However, for his own self-interest and temporary gain, regardless of morality and law, he used his lifelong learning to develop methamphetamine, causing harm to others and himself, and was jailed. Do you think he is stupid? In fact, people who do inappropriate things at inappropriate times and places have at least done stupid things, if not fools.

For example, Shen Kuo, a scientist in the Song Dynasty, was not clever, but when his child Su Shi was persecuted by unwarranted politics, he plummeted, and finally his personality was stained with a stain that could never be washed away. Can you say that he is not stupid?

Perhaps, while recognizing my example, you will ask, is this the same? Stop a fool from kissing you? What does it matter? Okay, let's get down to business. Let me ask you, what period are you in now? High school, right? Is this the golden age of life?

Do you know what to do in the meantime? Yes, it is to study and start a business! However, there was a man with blurred eyes and dizzy brain. He doesn't want to study or start a business, but he wants to kiss you. Do you think he is a fool? Not only that, but he keeps saying that he loves you and wants to love you? To the old, to the wild? .

Think about it, does he really understand the true meaning of love? No, if he loves you, he should not be like a climbing Campbell, nor should he learn from an spoony bird, but should deeply understand what it means to love you? Standing with you as the image of a tree? Love you for? Love your position, the land under your feet? ! But he was lost, forgot his mission, forgot your ideal, and wanted to drag you off the galloping youth train and taste romance in advance.

You know, olives picked early are sour, and derailed youth is dangerous. Come out and hang out, you'll have to pay it back sooner or later ? The physical truth of conservation of energy also applies to life.

Try to get what you don't deserve, and try to enjoy what you don't deserve. Even if you get it and enjoy it, you will inevitably lose it at another time and get hurt in another place. There is a simple reason. You grow melons, how can you produce beans?

Son, from bright eyes, I see your understanding of life, and I seem to see a trace of regret: have you ever let a fool kiss you?

If that's the case, I'm glad to tell you that as long as you wake up quickly, don't let that fool kiss you again, let alone turn yourself into a fool by that kiss, everything will be in time.

If you really can't overcome your emotions with reason, and you are really overwhelmed by that fool's kiss, what kind of melon can you say that a person who can be easily captured by a fool is not a fool? As for the result, it is doomed not to be honeydew melon, but to be bitter gourd.

It's been so long, let's call it a day. Otherwise, someone as smart as you will be nagged into a fool by me. Then, isn't it counterproductive, and I have become a fool myself?

XXX

XX，XX，XX，XX

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