My husband has nothing to do at home. What should I do?

Where husbands take the initiative to do housework, the relationship between husband and wife is generally good and the family atmosphere is relatively harmonious, while in families where husbands never do housework, the frequency of quarrels between husband and wife is very high. The fact that my father helps my mother to do so many housework is actually a proof of love. I'm afraid she will be too tired to bear. In addition, if two people undertake housework together, their feelings will be much better.

No matter men or women, if you are still a member of the family, please share the housework with two people!

Men, don't think it's glorious to give money without working. Sorry, this is called an investor, not a husband!

Woman, please don't do all the housework. If you do too much, others forget to be grateful.

Men don't need many reasons to do housework. If you don't do it, you don't need to make too many excuses for yourself. He only does this because this is his home, he loves his wife, and this is his lifelong career!

Women should learn to show weakness. For example, if the faucet is broken, you can say: Honey, the faucet is broken. I can't do it. I need you to go out and help you. A man will think that only I can do this thing, and you can only rely on me, so his own value will be reflected, especially after he fixes the faucet, his sense of competence will burst, and such a thing will happen again in the future, and he will do it himself without your call.

To improve a man's sense of family participation, you should not tell him what to do, let alone force him, so the more he resists. You should tell him what good it is for him to do so. For example, you can say to him: Go and wash the dishes later. I'll give the baby a bath and put her to sleep, otherwise she will stay up at night and you won't have a good rest. A person will be measured in his heart. Considering his own interests, he will naturally accept your arrangement.