Talking about the Spring Festival of social fear.

Social phobia is actually left over from childhood? Root of the disease? When I was a child, I just had to say one more word in front of outsiders. My mother yelled at me as soon as she got home: You are a girl, not like a girl at all. Be quiet and talk less. My mother yelled at me once, twice and three times until I really didn't dare to speak in front of others.

I remember when I was a child, my mother and I went to my grandmother's house for the New Year. At that time, my grades were good. Every time I go to my grandmother's house, the first question everyone asks is how the exam went and where I ranked. At that time, I could always tell them proudly that my grades were not bad and I was the fifth in my class. When my uncles and aunts praised me, I gloated with them. At this time, my mother began to be unhappy. Although she will give me some face in front of others, she will yell at me when she gets home: none of my family is as talkative as you. Look at your cousin's family. Why don't you talk? You also talk less, I don't know what's going on. Be a quiet little girl. In this way, I dare not talk and laugh with others in my mother's roar.

I used to be particularly lively and cheerful, and I began to become silent. Now I'm going to the society. I don't know how to communicate with others, and sometimes I even avoid it. I am always worried that I can't do my work well and dare not say it in front of my boss. That's because of my social phobia. I've lost many opportunities. If I want to gain a foothold in society, I must be able to speak. If I do things with my head covered, I won't have so many opportunities for people who can talk.

I am trying to change myself now. I can't do this anymore. I want to be brave and fearless. I want to be the lively and cheerful self when I was a child. If I am always afraid, I will never succeed. So parents who don't let their children talk, don't let their children fall into the root of social phobia, otherwise it will be difficult to change like me.