Mom loves you, but she always says hurtful things. How do you get along with her?

My mother is sarcastic, but I always laugh it off and never care about her. I think people should be more grateful and repay their parents.

Every mother is gentle and kind when she is young. But in order to support their families, they have to have children all their lives and earn money to support their families, so they will inevitably have a bad temper. When we grow up, if we quarrel endlessly because of my mother's words, it will be unfilial and will live up to our parents' expectations.

My mother always hits the nail on the head. She hates me for no reason, but I take her words as motivation and never take her seriously. When your parents' actions hurt you, consider the following points.

First, parents are secretive. As children, we should not bargain with them. We should think more about the benefits of parents.

Parents have worked hard to bring up their children. They suffered too much and finally came to an end. If they still face each other like children, parents will definitely feel pain and anxiety.

Although your mother's mouth is unforgiving, it doesn't mean that she doesn't love you. You should also think about how much her mother has done for you. Only by working hard to repay her can we live up to her expectations.

Second, when your parents accuse you, you can divert your attention, and there is no need to take it seriously.

It is normal for parents to blame their children. When you can't stand your mother's bad temper, you can divert your attention and talk about some topics that your mother is interested in instead of arguing with her. Children should find ways to get along with their parents and care more about their mothers at ordinary times. Sometimes your parents will be in high spirits because of an unintentional compliment.

Third, no one is perfect. Although parents love their children selflessly, they also have shortcomings. As children, they should learn to be tolerant and considerate.

When parents are old, their shortcomings will also be exposed, especially in menopause, they will be nagging and irritable. As children, we should tolerate our parents with a sense of filial piety, and it is not easy to understand their lives. Children are not qualified to argue with their parents at all. If parents really make mistakes, we should guide them correctly, not complain.