Junior high school students steal money from home to buy table tennis bats.

Parents should know why their children's pocket money is not enough. Is it instigated or coerced by others, seduced by material desires, or possessed by bad habits? The essential question is, did it happen by accident or has it become a habit? After what happened, how did he deal with his mistakes? If parents just shout, "You stole something-I don't want to know anything else!" Then this is the stupidest parent.

There is a popular view that "stealing" is a special fault that needs to be severely punished by parents. On the other hand, educators have a lot of data showing that, on the contrary, children are afraid to tell the truth and tend to be dishonest because of fear and humiliation.

There is such a suggestion in pedagogy: "We should start from the needs of children. If a child's requirements are reasonable and natural for his age, then the family should give them as much satisfaction as possible. Let children feel that adults care about them and respect their wishes, so that they will not take other people's things to satisfy their wishes.