"An epidemic, ten years of separation of brothers": human feelings are as thin as paper, and interests depend on people's hearts. What do you think of this?

Many friendships in the world, success is also money, and failure is also money. They were generous at first, but in the end they borrowed money and didn't pay it back.

10 years of friendship cannot stand an epidemic.

Two things have touched me in particular recently.

The first thing is that a friend has been with the boss in a company for ten years.

Over the past ten years, the two have been brothers, and their friends have been working hard day and night for the company, often turning around and not entering. In the past ten years, the company's performance has been rising, and there are also contributions from friends.

My friend is in charge of tourism. At the end of last year, he was ambitiously prepared to do something big, but this year, because of the epidemic, the whole tourism industry almost stopped.

After returning to work, my friends are under great pressure and are trying their best to protect their customers.

The boss may have foreseen that the impact of the epidemic on the tourism industry could not be recovered in a short time, so he had a heart-to-heart talk with a friend. The content is: the company's business model needs to be adjusted. You can go to a new department or ...

My friend knew that the new department was not his strong suit, so he chose to leave.

The company didn't give any compensation, and he didn't make any trouble. This is the last decent thing he left to his "brother".

Ten years later, with a flick of my finger, I asked him, "Did you ever think that so many years of loyalty and dedication would end like this?"

The friend said with a wry smile, "I really didn't think about it before, but now I know." The world is cold and human feelings are warm and cold. Only permanent interests, no permanent friends. "

Especially in front of most businessmen, there is no friendship without interests, and you can only leave without value.

The so-called connections are just because you are valuable.

Shakespeare once said: "Friends must help each other in adversity, and that can be called true friendship."

Epik Titus, a famous philosopher in ancient Rome, once said: "It takes only a little effort to make friends in prosperity;" It's even harder to find friendship in a difficult situation than to ascend to heaven. "

After all, nothing in this world is static. Feelings will change, age will change, thoughts will change, circumstances will be different, and treatment will naturally be different.

Early Bo Huang, because of her plain appearance and lack of fame, ran into a wall everywhere, and no one valued her, let alone her friends. Later, Bo Huang worked hard to make movies, honed his acting skills and became the best actor.

With a certain social status, Bo Huang found that he soon had many friends around him. So he said: when you are weak, there are the most bad people; When you are strong, you are surrounded by friends.

Many times, the world is more complicated than you think. Some people are friends when they need you, and "enemies" when they don't. Not only can they turn their backs on people, but they can also kick you away.

"People who are poor are cold-hearted", and this society is very realistic. Many times, the so-called connections and friendships are just because you are valuable.

An author once shared his personal experience.

When he was rich, every time he went home, his relatives and friends scrambled to invite him to dinner, and no one did not listen. But after being down and out, everyone stayed away from him.

Actually, I don't owe them money, but I just don't have the money to lend it to them.

How sad ah, how many feelings are based on the use and interests. However, this is society and this is the naked truth.

We should deeply understand that when you don't get along well, friends may leave you, and relatives may not take you seriously.

So, never overestimate any relationship.

Only by making yourself stronger can we gain friendship, love and even affection, and can we be treated sincerely by others.

You can't trust anyone unless you are useful.

Many years ago, a relative in the family went into business with others. As a result, at the critical moment, the other party absconded with the money. When the company has no money, its cash flow is cut off. Finally, the company was in a desperate situation and could only declare bankruptcy.

In such a difficult situation, relatives are eager for someone to lend a helping hand, but in their view, no one can follow.

Relatives sold their cars, mortgaged their houses, and their lives plummeted. It took nearly ten years to get back on my feet, but life never went back.

This incident touched me a lot, and it also made me deeply understand a truth: knowing people's faces and not knowing their hearts, at the critical moment, no one can rely on them except themselves.

Never count on others, always keep your own hands, and you may rely on yourself at any time.

Only those who work hard on their own can stand firm!

Some people say that false friendship is like counterfeit money. Although it looks the same as the real thing, it can only be used to deceive people, because it will break when touched.

When people are alive, not all the sufferings can be told to others. There will never be empathy in life, and no one can really care about each other.

As the saying goes: it is better to ask others than to ask yourself. Later, the smarter the person, the more he knows to rely on himself.

Only on our own can we go far and reach the finish line.

Encourage with friends.