How many parents are willing to take the initiative to admit that their children are ordinary people?

To be honest, every parent regards their children as ordinary people and strives to raise their children to become ordinary people. But in today’s society, ordinary people’s demands are really too high!

Let’s talk about the standards of ordinary people. For example, in third-tier cities, they have stable jobs, an 8-hour work system, complete national holidays and annual leave, five insurances and one fund, and a nine-to-five job. Own house, monthly disposable income of 2,000. Don't tell me, it's really hard to find such an ordinary person without 211 graduation.

Some people may say that migrant workers can earn tens of thousands a month, but do they have five insurances and one housing fund? Do they have a 9 to 5 job? Do they get annual leave? Do you know what their disposable income is?

The country’s laws and policies serve ordinary people. People who cannot fully enjoy these services obviously do not belong to ordinary people.

All human parents have the mentality of "hoping for their sons to become dragons and their daughters to become phoenixes". Moreover, every parent will think in their heart that "their children will always be smarter than themselves, and the wife and husband will always think that another person is better." This is the truest normal reaction phenomenon of human selfish desires in life!

This question is not a question of whether parents are willing to admit that their children are ordinary or not. It doesn't require you to admit it or not. There is an old saying that if your home weighs a few pounds, there is a steelyard next door. Therefore, there is no need to admit it, it is clear at a glance.

"Plowing the fields" only talks about the good things about others, and raising children only talks about the good things about one's own family. This is a very common phenomenon in China.

We parents all hope that our children will be better than others, and we like to praise our children for their good behavior in front of others. However, in fact, during the birth and growth process of each child, there will be roughly two situations. , three ways.

Scenario 1/Method 1: Living up to the expectations of parents, there are indeed extraordinary children who stand out. Such parents and children will be surrounded by the envy, admiration and praise of others, and the parents will go all out to raise their children to grow up proudly.

Scenario 2: Through educational practice combined with the child’s growth experience, it is discovered that one’s own child is an ordinary child.

Method 2: Some parents still hope to develop their children in terms of heights and specialties;

3. Mother knows her children better than her mother. The ones who know their children best are their parents. Parents who know and act in unison, let their children's growth take its course, let their children grow up naturally in a healthy and happy environment, are not shameless, and maintain a natural and good attitude. It should be this group of parents who are truly willing to take the initiative to admit that their children are ordinary people.

As long as they are not overly elevating their children or suppressing their children too much for the sake of face and in front of others, parents can achieve the three behaviors listed above, and their hopes and education methods for their children. All are correct.

We all have to recognize the fact that we, as parents, are ordinary people, and most of our children are also ordinary people.

Is it possible for parents to be worms themselves but hope that their children will become dragons? The former Soviet writer Gorky has a famous saying: What is born to crawl cannot fly. So Chinese parents, you should know how many bowls of dry rice your children can eat when they grow up, so don’t bother.

No parent in the world wants their children to be ordinary people

In fact, many people deceive themselves and others, have too much vanity, and forget how many bowls of dry rice they have eaten.

Facts are facts. As the saying goes, "I am a hero and my son is a good man, and I am a reactionary and my son is a bastard." "The son of a judge may not be a judge, but the son of a thief must be a thief." Parents are their children's first teachers. No matter what the current situation of the parents is, most of the children will not be too strong.

You don’t have to say it yourself, everyone knows that no matter how high their children fly or how far they jump, they can tell by looking at their parents that they are inseparable.

It is better to seek truth from facts. As the saying goes: "You are older when you are three years old, and you are older when you are seven years old." Most people will not change much when they grow up. Be honest and be ordinary. There is nothing shameful about being ordinary. If you don't want to admit it, the truth is the truth.

Otherwise, many parents would be very tired.

I am very ashamed. I am an extremely ordinary person, so I always hope that my only daughter can be an ordinary person. More than 30 years have passed, and my daughter has indeed fulfilled my wishes. She successfully completed college, successfully found a job, successfully started a family, and successfully gave birth to a little girl. Although we are all ordinary, three generations now live happily together, which can be said to be a joy!

The higher the expectations, the greater the disappointment. When you see your children's strengths, you need to help them find their weaknesses and tell them that they are ordinary people and their achievements are achieved through hard work.

Facts have nothing to do with whether they admit it or not. Every parent will know it for himself...