Children are about to enter the first grade, how to change the bad habit of laziness and dawdling?

Some children don't concentrate on their homework, so they stop doing it, and there are many little tricks in doing it. They look around for a while and can't finish their homework independently. Parents should be there to supervise them. For children's dawdling, we need to pay attention to it and change the bad habit of laziness and dawdling in order to get off to a smooth start.

First, regular intensive training.

It will be better for parents and children to have a small competition of regular reading, regular memory, regular answering questions and regular labor together. Parents can train their children to concentrate on doing problems and set a minute to see how many problems they can do at most. Let children feel that they can do more than a dozen small questions in one minute, and sometimes they can't write a small question after doing their homework for a few minutes. This kind of training makes children realize the value of time. It turns out that they can do a lot of things in one minute and cherish time. At the same time, it also improves children's writing speed and problem-solving speed.

Second, use praise instead of urging

Children are slow to do things, and many parents like to make a hullabaloo about and keep urging. As a result, they feel that the more they urge their children to move, the more angry they get. Parents need to make changes, observe their children's performance in life at any time, and praise things that are done quickly immediately. "It's much faster to get dressed now!" "It's much faster to pack your schoolbag now." ..... In this way, through praise, children's inner motivation can be stimulated.

Children need constant encouragement. If the child has done well, we must praise him greatly and point out where the child has done well. Next time, children will certainly continue to develop their own advantages. If the child doesn't do well, parents should communicate with the child patiently, let the child tell what he didn't do well, and then act immediately. There will be penalties: deducting playing time, reciting an ancient poem and writing a page. ...

Third, let children spend their time freely.

Some parents like to give their children extra homework and finish the homework assigned by the teacher. Parents will arrange to read English, and just after reading English, parents will arrange to do Olympic math problems ... In short, parents have arranged quite well for their children. Children also see the problem that parents will assign tasks as long as they have free time. Therefore, children play while doing their homework. If this is delayed for a long time, parents will not arrange other tasks because the homework assigned by the teacher is not completed.

After the tasks that children need to complete, they must set aside free time for them to play with their favorite toys, or play games and do physical exercise for a while. After forming this habit, children will finish their homework quickly, because they will have a lot of time to play if they finish it early.

Fourth, cultivate the habit of cherishing time from life.

Parents should know that to cultivate their children's study habits, they need to start with their living habits. Parents first set a time for their children and ask them to finish what they want to do within the specified time, otherwise the children will delay eating, dressing and washing as much as possible. Parents shorten the time of children's self-care behavior through training, form the habit of doing things quickly in life, and get up quickly in study.

When a child gets up in the morning and dawdles, parents are often extremely anxious. They shout to detain the child, but the child is not in a hurry. Finally, parents had to ride their children to school quickly. In fact, this practice of parents is also one of the reasons why children muddle along. Children will think it doesn't matter if they muddle along. Under no circumstances can they be late. They have parents. Children get up late because they are fooling around, so they should be punished: either they don't eat breakfast or they are late for school. After the child realizes the losses and disadvantages caused by dawdling, the motivation to get up next time will be much stronger.

Study habits are very important for children who are only in grade one. It is not easy for children to form a correct learning attitude and good study habits. Parents should be patient. Parents must use patience and love to help their children gradually correct themselves, and don't rush into it.