How do parents teach a rebellious girl about self-love?

If a child becomes rebellious in adolescence and parents ignore it and do not pay attention to it, if the guidance is not good, it may ruin the child's life. Children generally go through a rebellious period as they grow up, and some children are particularly rebellious. Children in the rebellious period are difficult to manage. For children who have reached the rebellious stage, parents can start from the following three points:

1. Communicate more with your children. Have a heart-to-heart talk with your children. Sometimes, parents understand their children so well that they don’t know how high the sky is. So understanding is not enough unilaterally. Both parties need to understand. You might as well find a calm time, sit down and have a calm chat with your child, and tell your child that you have thought about it from their perspective and that you know you are at fault. You want your children to think about it from their perspective and think about their parents. The reason why their parents do this is For what purpose, is it for the parents themselves or for the children, so that the children can understand their parents to a large extent and resolve quite a few conflicts.

2. Many times, children don’t understand their parents, not because they don’t think from their perspective, but because they don’t have experience if they haven’t experienced it. Children are no longer young when they are in middle school, so why not let them experience life? Difficulties, sometimes once you experience them, your children will grow up overnight. As a parent, you should not be reluctant to let your children endure hardships. Send your children to restaurants or fast food restaurants owned by relatives and friends so that your children can experience life and experience the difficulty of their parents. , then the children will understand that it is not easy to have parents who quarrel with them every day, and the children will become much more mature mentally.

3. Make friends with your children. Don't always use your parents' airs to suppress your children. Don't have the idea that you are the elder and your children must obey you respectfully. You should be friends with your children. Teenagers and girls in the rebellious period are often more willing to listen to and follow the opinions of their friends. Rather than serious elders. Therefore, if you make friends with children, it will be relatively easier to communicate with them.